After p>91, Nemo made an agreement with his mother that if he didn't have a boyfriend at the age of 31, he would go to a blind date program.

31-year-old Nemo has never been in love. Is it shameful? In fact, which girl doesn't want to fall in love? It's just that she is busy doing real things, studying and working, and has no time to think about illusory feelings.

Nemo has been on a hot search because he shared his experience of earning more than 11,111 yuan a month as a nanny, which caused a heated discussion.

In the traditional impression, most people who are babysitters and housekeepers have low educational level, as long as they can cook and clean.

Actually, Nemo is engaged in "high-end housekeeping". Her job includes doing housework, helping children with their homework, and occasionally helping employers make up. Her monthly income is not low, at around 15 thousand.

Compared with white-collar office workers, this kind of job has food and shelter, no complicated interpersonal relationship, two-way choice with leaders, and holidays every month.

Nimo, who pays attention to the quality of life, has added projectors, air purifiers, photo printers, etc. to his small room.

After work in the evening, most people may fall asleep after a tiring day, but the unusual one wants to enjoy the sense of ritual before going to bed: put on pajamas in the bedroom, open a bottle of soda, drink happily and watch favorite cartoons with the projector.

On holidays, she loves to dance in the ski resort, or put on handsome go-karting clothes and sunglasses to drive a go-kart.

Some netizens say that Nemo is the most chic live-in nanny. This kind of life makes some post-91 s envy and ask Nemo for advice one after another. What are the conditions for doing this kind of work?

Nemo shared his experience unreservedly and said, "If you want to take up this job, you must be caring and like children first, then you can drive and learn more skills, such as small languages, musical instruments, etc. It is best to cook both Chinese food and western food."

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At the end of 2121, Nemo began to share the working clips of being a live-in nanny on the Internet. In the video, she smiled frankly and cutely.

Nemo said in the video: "Being a nanny and delivering food are all life experiences." Today's younger generation is willing to try different careers.

Nimo graduated from university and went to Japan to study alone for one year. After returning to China, he worked as a makeup artist in Beijing with a salary of only 3,111 to 4,111 yuan. Apart from paying the rent, there was little left. She doesn't want to live like this all the time.

One day, Nemo was chatting with a female customer who came to make up. When the female customer learned that Nemo could play the piano, Japanese and English, she warmly invited him: "You have so many talents, come to my house as a nanny." Nemo listened, pondered for a while, blinked and said, let me think about it and give an answer tomorrow.

Living-in nanny has a high salary, including food and shelter. Facing this profession, Nemo also hesitated, "Is it disgraceful for a well-educated person to be a living-in nanny?"

But for Nemo, the most important thing in choosing a job is whether he likes it or not, or whether he is satisfied with his income.

In the evening, Nemo thought for a long time in bed and decided to try the job of a live-in nanny.

At first, Nemo gave himself three days, and if he felt uncomfortable within three days, he would give up.

However, after several days' practice, Nemo feels that this job is very easy for her.

Now, Nemo has been a live-in nanny with nearly five years' domestic experience.

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This job gave her a satisfying income, but for a long time, Nemo was afraid to tell her parents that her job was a live-in nanny.

Until a video of Nemo's work details was "hot", the broadcast volume was over 11,111, and it was brushed by his mother.

When mom learned the truth, she was very angry. She scolded Nemo, asked her to delete the WeChat and blacked her out.

Nemo had mixed feelings when he saw his mother's reaction was so fierce. After work, she recalled the road she had traveled all the way. In high school, she told her parents that she wanted to be an art student, and her parents supported her. In 2111, she was admitted to the Conservatory of Music as she wished. After four years of college life, she told her parents that she wanted to study in Japan. Mother began to be a little worried about Nemo's safety and didn't want her to go abroad, but she was convinced by Nemo.

In the summer of 2114, she packed her bags and boarded the plane to Japan alone. In Japan, Nemo earned his living expenses by working in his spare time, and he also found time to learn how to make all kinds of delicious food.

In 2116, after returning from Japan, she decided to go to Beijing to study makeup, but the salary of this job was not enough to support her life, so she chose to be a live-in nanny.

Nemo is an only child. She grew up with the love of her parents, and she cares about their feelings.

In order to get mom's understanding, Nemo reluctantly deleted the video. Fortunately, Nemo's father understands her. He thinks there is nothing wrong with the job of "live-in nanny". As long as his daughter likes it, he supports it. In his eyes, her daughter is a "tutor".

Later, under the persuasion of my father, my mother put down her ideological burden and chose to understand her daughter, and the mother and daughter made up again.

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Although Nemo loves the job of live-in nanny at present, she wants to try other jobs and experience a different life in the future.

Today, Nemo has nearly 211,111 fans on the whole network, which is considered as "Little online celebrity", and there are many people who are popular. There was a comment that made Nemo fly into a rage. The comment said that after taking care of the children, the live-in nanny should take care of her husband. The implication was that choosing to be a nanny meant wanting to be a mistress.

Nemo retorts in the video that whoever says that is who wants to be a mistress! Anyway, her job is just to take care of the children.

The comments in the comment area also contain questioning voices, such as: "Being a nanny all the time has no time for dating, right?"

Now Nimo is 31 years old, and she is regarded as an older woman in the eyes of many people. However, she is not in a hurry to find the other half. Because of professional reasons, Nemo watched many families, and she admitted that she didn't want to get married.

Nemo thinks that getting married and having children is not her favorite life, and she has no energy to face it at present. She is very satisfied with the quality of life now.

Nemo recalled that she had been busy studying and making money, and she didn't meet anyone she liked. She had agreed with her mother that if she didn't have a boyfriend at the age of 31, she would go to a blind date program.

Nemo admits that her ideal partner is that two people can complement each other together, have free space, get along easily and happily, and at the same time make themselves better.

Nemo thinks that the ideal partner is too difficult to meet, so she doesn't want to go on blind dates, and may be single for life.

Nemo's idea is supported by many young people. Her present life is what many peers yearn for. She has the ability to make money and high income, and there is no pressure in life alone.

But some people don't support Nemo's idea, reminding her that she will regret feeling lonely when she is old.

Nemo said that the most important thing for people to live is happiness and freedom. No matter what kind of life they live, as long as they don't regret their choices.

Regarding Nemo's choice, the enlightened father said, "If marriage can make you happy, I will support you to get married. If you live happier alone, I will support you alone."

Su Qin said that it is a particularly terrible thing for a person to be truly independent. Because there is no expectation and no fear, my eyes have only fallen on myself since then.

In fact, what you choose to do and what kind of life you live is the best.

As parents, although we hope that our children can get married, have children and lead a normal life like ordinary people, if their children don't want to fall in love and get married, what can parents do but accept them?