when we broke up, we said we would be friends again. But are you really still friends? Maybe it will be several years later. A relationship, a journey, too much joy, too much helplessness and heartache, from true love to mutual injury, can you still be friends at the moment of breaking up? If you can, you must have never really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances. Feelings have no gates, and they can't be closed by pulling. It's hard for two people to fall in love at the same time, and it's even harder not to love at the same time. Without love and hate, we can become friends only if we are indifferent to the throb in our hearts. But you and I, two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe it's because of love, hate and resentment, and maybe it's because the other person's eyes are throbbing. How can we be friends? The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently now, and can't ask, care, care or complain. Everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend? The person who once complained deeply no longer cares for you and dotes on you. He can't see your goodness and your badness any more. You are just two parallel lines, so how can you be his friend? Unless we have never loved each other, I don't care who you are or who you are. I don't care at all. I never cared. Even if we don't love each other now, there are so many sweet memories along the way. What should I do to avoid remembering you at that moment? Or I still love you, with nothing to ask for and no regrets. No matter who you are and who you are guarding now, I am willing to stay with you all the time and hide my love for you deeply, so as not to let you know or be seen by you. I am willing to be that friend as long as you are happy like a shadow. Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, you can't be lovers. Maybe you will just be friends. However, even if the car clearly left and returned to the original point again, it was a different time, a different character and a different scenery. We have already taken a step forward, how can we measure the same size and return it? Keep walking until you meet someone you can love again. Breaking up is breaking up. Make up your mind and never mention being friends. If you don't love him (her), let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness. If you still love him (her), don't stay, and don't expect him (her) to come back. When you break up, you just say break up, not be friends. Just the most familiar stranger.