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? Psychologists suggest that children should tear things if they like.

Seung-Hui Cho was shooting at Virginia Tech campus with a gun, and 32 people immediately became the ghosts under his gun. Killer Kato Chida hacked and killed with a knife in the downtown streets of Tokyo, Japan. Although the knife was a weapon of small-scale destruction, it also caused a major personal safety accident in which 7 people were killed and 11 injured. But most of Seung-Hui Cho and Kato Zhi are not mentally ill. One of them imagines himself as a demon, and the other imagines himself as a hero, so that they dare to kill people.

In China, Seung-Hui Cho and Kato Zhida have many kindred spirits. Students like Ma Jiajue, Qiu Xinghua, Shi Yuejun, and Zheng Mingsheng are all loyal fighters of cold-blooded killer. Does Yang Jia and Yang Daxia count? Although his psychology is tough, he doesn't belong to the cold-blooded killer series, at least not the version we are talking about. After his accident, I found his psychological advantage as a Beijinger compared with a Shanghainese (Shanghai police). Besides, he has enough anger. People who are not supported by anger dare not kill people.

Although Freud, who is also known as the "Big Three of Judaism" with Marx and Einstein, has been criticized in various ways, at least, he is a great man who fundamentally changed the world. His statement is absolutely true: it is often the past that makes us what we are now. If one thing strongly touches you and you realize it, it will never disappear. It seems that it's gone, but in fact it's just suppressed by you to the deep heart of darkness. It will also disguise itself and secretly influence and manipulate you through tortuous channels.

In the past, it often stumbles our present and future.

In the process of growing up (including childhood and adulthood), cold-blooded killer has at least one of the following characteristics, or has experienced any of the following events:

1. Cannot surpass the destructiveness of childhood;

2. Experienced some kind of psychological trauma;

3. I have eliminated my fear of life in the process of growing up.

here we only talk about the first kind. Although a person has grown up, he may still be a child psychologically. We should not think that a person is "mature" just because he is an adult. He may be mature in the sense of mixed society, but psychologically, he has been "fixed" at a certain stage when he was a child. Some people even live all their lives, but in the deepest psychological characteristics, they are a baby. For example, some people seem to feel that everyone owes him everything, and whoever gives him everything should be angry if he doesn't give it to him, that is, he hasn't grown up psychologically, and this world is just like the world where he was sheltered by his parents, wanted whatever he wanted, and became angry if he didn't give it to him.

Some people will never fall in love with a person from the bottom of their hearts, and they will never grow up after experiencing what love is, because they still lack the ability to love like when they were young.

Freud once called those who were insatiable for money "at the * * * stage" of babies psychologically, because babies liked to touch shit most at that time, and shit was a bit like gold. Are they all golden? I don't know how convincing Freud came to this conclusion because gold and shit are somewhat similar in color. But believe me, if a person can't surpass his childhood psychologically, then he will try his best to do something when he grows up, even in disguise. Of course, that's not why he lives, but if he doesn't do it, he will be miserable to death.

ask yourself, what is your favorite food? It's often something you ate when you were a child and liked it very much, but you didn't have a chance to have a big meal! For example, a fruit, a snack, when you were young, you were psychologically hungry because you didn't have enough money to eat it happily, so you were hungry for it all your life!

Creation is difficult, but destruction is very easy.

We all know that children like to destroy, such as opening toys, tearing papers and throwing things. Why do they like it? In fact, if creating something makes people feel powerful, then destroying something can achieve the same effect. Can children make a thing? For people's psychology, the most terrible thing is not creation and destruction, but neither creation nor destruction, which means the paralysis of power.

Do you believe that the "rich second generation" also robbed? If you don't believe it, it shows how ignorant you are about people's psychology. There is a rich second generation in Panjin, Liaoning Province, who drives a luxury car to imitate the plot of a Hollywood gangster film. In less than 21 days, he robbed five times in a row and * * * grabbed 4,611 yuan. When the media reported, they said that he robbed in order to "seek * * *".

There are too many rich people who want to "seek * * *" today. Pay attention to the social news in various places, and you will find that these people seem to have developed the hobbies of robbery, * * *, murder and arson. But I'm here to expose the shallowness of the media. A sentence of "seeking * * *" dismissed the reason for the robbery of the "rich second generation". These "rich second generation" robbed not money, but boredom and emptiness. A person is bored and empty precisely because he can neither create nor destroy. In his heart, he wants to show that he has an endless raging fire burning. If he doesn't want to be burned to death, he must have an exit.

creation is difficult, but destruction is very easy. The robbery of 4611 yuan is not a question of money for the "rich second generation", but a proof of strength. Although he doesn't need the money, he will still be depressed if he gets nothing from robbery, because according to the definition of "robbery", it is perfect to get something.

A person who is empty and bored and feels weak is actually the most likely to become a thug, and he will do it harder than anyone else!

don't be nervous, most people will get through the destructive stage of childhood safely. However, due to family background, growth environment and other reasons, there are still a few people who are psychologically stranded. Psychologists suggest that if you are a parent, if your child likes to tear and smash things, let him tear and smash them; When he grows up, he may stop smashing things and start disassembling some toys. If so, buy more toys and let him disassemble more. When he grows up, he won't smash it or tear it down. He will create it!