First of all, my attitude is that if you have completely let go of this relationship and have moved on, then the answer is definitely rejection; if you have just broken up and you still have fantasies and the slightest possibility of this relationship,

Also consider making an appointment.

Whether you choose to refuse or go to an appointment can be considered based on the following situations: 1. Whether you have just broken up not long ago. If you and your ex-boyfriend have just broken up, you are still in a state of disconnection.

In fact, you can consider going to the appointment at this time. After going to the appointment, there may be two results: 1. You may resolve your misunderstandings and conflicts and reconcile as before; 2. You may intensify the conflicts and then separate completely.

But no matter which result it is, it will be more comfortable than the current disconnection.

2. Both parties have been relieved long after the breakup. If you and your ex-boyfriend have been separated for many years, and both of you have a new life, you have completely let go of your past relationship, and you are just an old friend to both parties.

At this time, it actually doesn’t matter if you go to the appointment or not. You can ask your boyfriend or husband for their opinion. If they don’t care, you can go to the appointment.

In fact, when you are struggling with whether to go to an appointment or refuse, you already have a clear answer in your mind.

The reason why you ask this question is because you need others to give you affirmation and courage.