lead: we can always read some life truths from those excellent inspirational articles, so what are the recommendations of excellent inspirational articles? Let's take a look.

Life is a changing journey, and too many decisions are illusory by reality, and we walk, walk and lose the way to return to our hearts. A naive girl, a loyal woman and a great mother are not up to standard in every settled role. The naivety of a young girl has created a broken dream. Loyal companionship has become a problem in life. As a mother, she failed to accompany her children's growth. When the marriage lights up at a red light, you can only accept the reality, but you can't accept the separation from your children. You would rather give up the whole world for your children than the world. However, the reality makes you have no choice at all.

To start again is not to start all over again, but to start from the heart, to change one's persistence, to pick up the fighting spirit of survival, and to sort out the lost pieces in Zeng, who can't go back, to understand that what life needs is not the same layer, not the whole heart, but to leave a self for freedom. It is a kind of covet and greed to possess when it is not worth having. Life is not how you feel, but what you want, whether you can match it or not. There is nothing wrong with greed itself, but some people manage it as a kind of unearned gain, trying to love and pay, just satisfying wishful thinking, but never caring what others want.

A marriage without a fit is a redundant and comprehensive concept, and it is a futile effort. If a person doesn't have enough chips to deal with reality, don't blame it for being cruel. What can really give you a sense of security is what you have, and what can be long-term is permanent. So, don't beg others, don't rely on others, don't complain about others, you can only control yourself. Anything of value belongs to the wisdom of those who value it. People with depth have deep soul sustenance.

Fate allows you to see through life with the bottom line, so why not give it a shot. Instead of worrying about the ups and downs of life, why not learn to survive in the ups and downs. Marriage or life can be defeated and let it happen, but we can't give up on ourselves. When experience has made you, you can fulfill yourself. The harmony of life is not to take, but to warm up with bitterness, to constantly correct and adjust yourself, and to become a person who feels unhappy and impossible.

Looking back at the time of displacement, what do you think about now? Those betrayals, those uses, those cold eyes, those indifference, those aggressiveness and those kicking down the bridge? Everyone who becomes mean may have met a mean person, and then give him a taste of his own medicine. But in fact, the way to vent is not necessarily to fight violence with violence, but also to self-review, self-toughness, self-transcendence, in addition to the unchangeable, I have always been there. Any misfortune is impermanent and will always pass. Living in your own tolerance is always easier than living in other people's calculations. Even if you can't forgive, you can at least stay at a respectful distance.

maybe I'll be the same again. In life, there is no initial innocence, because the most practical thing in life is daily necessities. In love, there is no initial willfulness, because marriage is a long-term cooperation of mutual assistance. In reality, there is no initial frankness, because it is indispensable to guard against people. There are few people you can really trust except yourself. Counting life, we have lost a lot, but not much is important, and we just want to protect it. Although I am no longer the original me, it is kindness to return to my heart after awakening. It is happiness for a lover who has been separated for a long time to come back after understanding. Between mother and child, it is a boon to be able to guard and accompany. If the heart is satisfied, everything else is fleeting. Therefore, trying to manage yourself well is not to gain anything, but to avoid losing it as much as possible.

We are often too worried about the future.

The children who just finished the college entrance examination asked me what I should do to improve myself during the summer vacation. I have procrastination, and I don't seem to know anything. What should I do? Can I adapt to college life?

My friend who is about to graduate from college asked me what I should do to find a satisfactory job. I don't know what I like. Should I fight for my career or fall in love at the age of 22?

The girl who has worked for several years asked me, I want to quit my job and travel in a big city, but I'm 27 years old, and I'm worried that life in a big city will be too hard and I can't find a boyfriend. What should I do?

when I just graduated, I shared a room near my company, and I was deeply impressed by my sister who lives next door. Because I have never seen such a carefree girl as her. She was almost 4 years old at that time, her skin was well maintained and she was single. She just came back from Japan where she worked for more than ten years a year ago.

Like young people in their twenties, she shared a house, went out early every day to look for a job interview, and also signed up for a translation training course. Although it's a rented house, it's beautifully decorated. Brand-new single person sofa, desk and soft goods are also good brands. After work, she will go running and reading, and occasionally cook food in the kitchen on weekends. She lives a delicate and relaxed life, without impetuousness and anxiety of many older single girls.

During a chat, I asked her why she returned to China. She said that she quit her job and came back because she liked a domestic boy at that time. After getting along with each other for a while, they found it inappropriate and broke up. Then, she came to Beijing from Guangzhou alone.

so is my other friend Jenny. When she was 29 years old, she suddenly resigned from the Fortune 5 and went to the United States to study. She waddled to Boston with two huge suitcases, paid her tuition with her savings, and shared an apartment with her classmates. She slowly learned to take public transportation, practiced going to restaurants alone, and practiced adapting to the weather in Boston.

In those two years, Jenny traveled in North America while studying hard at school to get a degree, made an American boyfriend and published a book. When I saw her again later, I felt that she was completely different from when she worked day and night. She no longer lived in a tight schedule and worried all day. She was radiant and radiant.

She said that when she let go of her worries and let life come to her, life really opened up more possibilities for her.

"Life actually has its own will, its own track and direction. Even most of the time, we are pushed by life, and we run forward along the track and direction planned by life. We don't know which intersection to turn at. "

A friend of mine in the writing circle said this in an article. She worked in a TV station. At the age of 24, she got an overseas assignment and went to South America to be a foreign correspondent. She decided to seize this opportunity, but her worries about her future job, love, and even getting married and having children reached the peak. At the age of 24, she couldn't help but ask herself, "When will you let go of all your worries and let life come to you?"

The three-year career as a foreign correspondent is wonderful. She walks in South America, and her vision and knowledge are crowned with breeze. After returning to Beijing three years later, the exotic culture has been integrated into her blood, and that period of overseas career has become an unforgettable brilliance in her life. Although she often laughs at herself, she risked breaking up with her boyfriend at that time, but I still think it was one of the most correct decisions she made.

Zhang Ailing wrote a short article called "A detour that must be taken"-the intersection of youth. Once there was a path looming, calling me. Mother stopped me: "You can't go that way."

I don't believe it.

"That's the way I came. What do you still believe?"

"If you can walk that way, why can't I?"

"I don't want you to take a detour."

"But I like it, and I'm not afraid."

At the end of the article, Zhang Ailing said, "On the road of life, there is a road that everyone must take, and that is the detour when he is young. If you don't stumble, hit the wall, or break your head, how can you make steel bars and bones, and how can you grow up? "

But what about us? Why don't we have the courage to try and make mistakes? Instead, we are worried all day, afraid of taking a detour, and even afraid of taking a road with less cost performance and falling behind others? What are we worried about?

We worry about the future all day, but we are so confused that we don't know how to work hard in the present. So, day by day, year by year, it seems that nothing has changed.

can we let go of our worries, enjoy every moment, immerse ourselves in the present life, and work hard?

I used to be very worried about the future, especially when I was twenty-seven or twenty-eight. My work didn't improve and my love life was blank. I am particularly scared every day, fearing that I will live with a long face and die alone.

I flew to Yunnan to travel on vacation, but I was not in the mood to see the scenery. The gentle wind in Dali blows against my face, and the ancient city is full of romantic atmosphere, but I just want to cry. I cried on the coach; I closed the door of the hotel room and sat on the couch crying; Facing the beautiful Erhai Lake, crying when the fireworks are lit in the New Year; I went to Lijiang and cried in the cafe in Shuhe ancient town ...

At that time, my worries must have reached the peak. When we can't see the road ahead clearly, we are all confused and worried, but it doesn't help to indulge in worrying emotions.

let go of your worries and let life come to you.

Life has its own trajectory. Maybe what we can do is to listen to the inner call and then really make efforts. Only by going further can we be more open and have an answer.

Let go of all your worries about the future, and start working hard now to see what gift God will give you. Maybe it's surprise gift, maybe it's empty, but no matter what kind of life, it's unique to us.