A touching letter
My son:
I wrote this memo based on three principles:
1, the fate of life is impermanent, and no one knows how long he can live. Some things had better be said earlier.
2. I am your father, and no one will tell you if I don't tell you.
This memo records all the experiences I gained through painful failure, which can help you avoid making many mistakes in your growth.
Here are some things to remember in your life.
Don't care too much about people who are not good to you.
In your life,
No one has an obligation to be nice to you,
Except me and your mother.
As for those who are kind to you,
You should not only cherish and be grateful, but also take more preventive measures.
Because everyone does everything for a reason,
He is kind to you, not necessarily because he likes you.
Please, you have to understand,
You don't have to treat each other as real friends too soon.
No one is irreplaceable,
Nothing is necessary.
Seeing through this,
In the future, people around you will no longer need you.
Maybe when you lose everything you love most in the world,
It should also be understood that,
This is no big deal.
Life is short,
You are still wasting your life today,
Tomorrow you will find that life is far away from you.
Therefore, the sooner you cherish life,
The more days you enjoy life,
Instead of expecting a long life,
Enjoy it early.
There is no such thing as love,
Love is only a temporary feeling,
And this feeling will definitely change with the changes of days and moods.
If your so-called favorite leaves you,
Please be patient,
Let time wash slowly, let the soul settle slowly,
Your pain will gradually disappear.
Don't expect the beauty of love too much.
Don't exaggerate the sadness of lovelorn love.
Although many successful people have little education,
But that doesn't mean you can succeed without studying hard.
What you learn is the weapon you have.
People can start a family from scratch,
But you can't be unarmed, remember!
I won't ask you to support me for the rest of my life,
Similarly, I won't support you for life,
When you are old enough to be independent,
My responsibility is over.
In the future,
Do you want to take a bus or a Mercedes?
Eat shark fin or vermicelli,
Everyone is responsible.
You can ask yourself to keep your promise,
But you can't ask others to keep their promises.
You can ask yourself to be friendly to people,
But you can't expect others to be nice to you.
How do you treat people,
Doesn't mean people will treat you like that,
If you can't see through this,
You will only add unnecessary trouble.
I have been buying lottery tickets for more than ten or twenty years.
Still poor and white,
I haven't even won three awards,
This proves that people should be developed,
You still have to work hard,
There is no free lunch in the world.
Relatives have only one fate,
No matter how long I spend with you in this life,
Please cherish our time together,
In the next life,
Love it or not, we will never meet again.
Appreciate what has been lost in life and pursue what we haven't got yet, as long as it's not too late to start now.
XXX
XXXX。 X. X
Touching letter Part II
Pingping:
Hello, I hope you can read this letter carefully, thank you.
You're right, people should learn to forget.
If there is an afterlife, I will wait for you.
You were very kind to me before, and I will never forget it. You have asked me many times if I really love you, and my answer is yes every time. Yes, I love you very much. I really love you. At that time, you can give everything for me, but what about me? But I can't do anything for you. I hurt you, deeply. I know you love me very much, I really do, but I have done too many things to disappoint you. You gave me chances again and again, but I let you down again and again. .....
You're right. If you love someone, you must give her happiness. I was confident that I could give you happiness, but the facts show that I can only give you harm, and there will never be happiness. Yes, I love you every day, but I dare not pursue even the most basic love. How can this be called sex?
I know that my image in your mind now can only be described in four words: liar and playboy. Yes, I have cheated you and caused you great harm. For me, too much pain makes you die completely. I brought all this on myself. I just feel sorry for you. If there is an afterlife, I will wait for you, love you and take care of you all my life, and try my best to give you the happiest life.
You call me a playboy, and I don't know if I'm a playboy, but now I really only have you in my heart. Xiao Min seems to make me feel strange. As for other girls, I seem to have no other feelings, just a simple relationship between colleagues and friends.
You call me shameless, yes, I admit it. If it weren't for this, we wouldn't have achieved what we are now. You often doubt that I use your qq chat to change anything or anything. I can only tell you that I am really wronged. I really regret knowing your qq password, otherwise I won't let you scold me for unwarranted charges every day. In fact, sometimes I think it doesn't matter, as long as you are happy, it doesn't matter if you wronged me and scolded me several times. ...
Pingping, in fact, sometimes I am ambivalent. I really want to be with you. No matter what happens, I am always afraid that I can't give you happiness. Your life has always been comfortable. If I can't give you happiness, it will ruin your life. Yes, I love someone and give her happiness. How could I not know this sentence? In my heart, you are noble, you can't live our life, and I don't want your living standard to drop, so I feel too timid.
Maybe this is what you call I can't control you. ...
However, when I am with you, I really feel very happy. I'm afraid this life can only be a memory. Remember what I said to you? After you, there will be no one else. This is a true portrayal of my heart, but believe it or not, you never believed me anyway.
You little fool, you like money every day, you know that? How I want to become a printing machine, so that you can count money every day, haha, it is estimated that there will be many more wrinkles on your face at that time, aunt selling sweet potatoes.
Sometimes it's funny to think of you before. I always call me an aunt who sells sweet potatoes. Haha, then I am not the uncle who sells sweet potatoes. Ha ha laugh
In addition, you must take good care of your health in the future, eat on time and reasonably every day, and don't always go hungry, which is not good for your stomach, because the quality of your stomach will affect people's life span, and nourishing your stomach is equal to keeping in good health. Don't shy away. Eat a reasonable diet every day, get up half an hour earlier, do something you like, don't be so lazy, go to bed early at night, and don't always stay up late, because people will get old quickly, which will do great harm to their health. Although the internet is very tempting, we must restrain ourselves. Besides, you always have a headache. I think it's just that you spend too much time in front of the computer. One is radiation, and the other is sitting posture. Besides, it's not good for your eyes, so you must pay attention to your health.
Remember when you told me that your life would not last long? I always remember this sentence, fool. Don't always say that in the future. People who love you like that will be very sad.
If so, if so, I really want to accompany you through this short journey. I'm afraid you'll feel lonely and scared. I want to accompany you to make you happy, go where you want to go and do what you like. Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Every time I think of what you said, my heart is very sour and I always want to cry. Fool, stop talking. You should live a good life and live happily. I forbid you. You should live 65,438+0,000 years. Live well, okay?
It is said that the Lama Temple can make a wish for a visa, and it is especially accurate. I will take time to go there and make a wish for happiness and longevity for you.
I will keep the gift you gave me all my life. I know it contains a lot of your love and blessings from your heart.
I wonder how your teeth are. Does it still hurt? Take the time to go to the hospital to fix your teeth, so that you won't feel uncomfortable when your teeth hurt. To tell you the truth, I felt uncomfortable when I heard you say that you had a toothache. Haha, I don't know if I have a heart-to-heart relationship.
Also, don't smoke. Why do girls smoke? It is like a little sister, and it is also very harmful to their teeth, so they must quit. If they are really in a bad mood sometimes, they can try to exercise and run to adjust their mood, which can not only exercise, but also adjust their mood. Kill two birds with one stone, don't you think, little fool? Why do you learn from others and become a smoker? Ha ha.
As for drinking, you can drink a little, but don't overdo it. Red wine is better, don't drink it often. It is ok to drink occasionally at ordinary times, but remember not to go out drinking alone with strangers of the opposite sex. Be sure to remember to protect yourself at all times. I hope you can listen to this sentence once, ok?
For online netizens, don't trust them too much, and don't meet each other easily. I am an example, so we must remember to avoid them.
If you talk about friends again, remember not to find anyone younger than you, because people younger than you are not reliable at all. No matter what he says or does, don't be afraid. Don't show your feelings, because a little emotional expression will have a very, very high probability of development and a very small result, so avoid it.
You can talk about someone your age or a few years older than you, but you must have a stable job and be able to support this family so that you won't be too tired in the future.
Another thing is that you are right. Love that is too easy to get will not be cherished, so you must grasp the degree. Every man doesn't like women who associate with him too casually, even when facing himself, I am a man, which I know very well.
Be sure to get to know each other first, have a relationship for a while, but don't be too close, because this is responsible for you, for him and for your future love. Men are usually impulsive, but women must be calm, even if you love him very much. Don't avoid it, because we are a good lesson.
Because people older than you need a home as much as you do, and people younger than you are not reliable at all, so be sure to remember. Avoid avoidance
You are a smart woman, so you must be rational, rational and rational.
We have known each other for so long that we often hear you talk about your father. From what you said, we can see that your father loves you very much, and he doesn't only care about interests as you think, so you should treat your father well in the future. If there are any differences, you can sit down and communicate with him. I think he should be a very reasonable old man, don't you think? Stubborn girl
By the way, if you have any more friends, don't keep your distance from chatting with other netizens of the opposite sex, which will make your boyfriend very disgusted. Don't believe that he is a generous person and a quality person. Although he won't say it, he will be disgusted in his heart. After a long time, there will definitely be problems, either his or yours. Don't shy away. The two of us are typical examples Although I am a shameless person without quality and trust, I still know that I am a man after all.
If you talk about boyfriends again, I still suggest you look for them in real life, not on the Internet. Just like your father said, it's safer to find one in Tianjin, don't you think? Be good, don't be impulsive. Isn't your injury enough?
I am not a good man, but also a useless stupid man. I'm sad to lose you, and what's more sad is to lose the true love you once had for me. I should have taken care of you and this true love with my own life, but I tore it up bit by bit and hurt you again and again. Blame me, I can't blame anyone. The culprit of everything is myself.
Remember Stephen Chow's dialogue in A Chinese Odyssey?
"You should do this, and I should die. Once there was a sincere love in front of me. I didn't cherish it, and I regretted it after losing it. The most painful thing in the world is this. Cut my throat with your sword! Don't hesitate any longer! If God can give me another chance, I will say three words to that girl: I love you. If I have to add a deadline to this love, I hope it is 10,000 years. "
Yes, you should. I really have no reason and no qualification to keep you.
I also want to have a good life with you. What man doesn't want to spend his life with the woman he loves? In order to be with you, I can give up a lot, but in the end. .................................................................................................................................................................
Sad tears can only be swallowed by yourself, and the road to regret can only be taken by yourself. Pingping, my dear Pingping, can you call your wife again?
Honey, my husband loves you, and he loves you deeply. Since this life is hopeless, my husband will wait for you in the afterlife. My husband in the afterlife will be an excellent man, a husband who will satisfy you, and will take care of you wholeheartedly so that you will not be so lonely and tired as this life.
Pingping, I will remember you, and I will bless you silently in my heart. Good boy, I love you.
If you are happy, you will be happy, you know? Well-behaved
Be strong in the future and learn to face life with a smile.
I won't be around you in the future, so you must be good to yourself. Promise me, okay?
By the way,? Husband? There is another regret, I almost forgot, that is, you haven't cooked your specialty for your husband-Zhajiang Noodles, his words don't count.
Thank you for reading this letter. Thank you for your love.
Love you forever, asshole.
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Touching letter the third part
Husband:
Hello, sorry, I don't know your name yet, and I don't know when you will appear in my world. Do you know that?/You know what? I have been waiting for you for nearly 20 years, waiting for you to spend the rest of my life with me. I don't know how much longer I have to wait. Please don't keep me waiting too long. It's really hard to wait for someone. However, as long as you haven't appeared, I will wait patiently until you appear. I'm sure the monthly magazine will not forget me.
Let you know about your wife and me first. I'm not beautiful but I'm fine, so I hope you're not too beautiful, but you must be fine. At best, you should have a pair of eyelids and a strong body that can protect me. I'm quiet. I hope you can calm down, but you'd better be humorous. You always make me happy, make me happy, because I'm a little pessimistic. You should also have knowledge and connotation, so that I can treat you as me.
If you don't have enough money to buy our home, I'm willing to take a loan with you to buy our beloved nest. Our home doesn't have to be luxuriously decorated, but it must be warm and comfortable. There should be a study with a computer and all the books in it. I hope we can enrich our brains after work. The kitchen should be clean and tidy, with a glass square table and two chairs. There is a fruit blue on the table with our favorite fruits on it. I hope we can have a blanket, too. We can sit on the floor with a small table on it. In winter, we can sit on the floor and eat hot pot to add a touch of warmth to the cold winter. Our bedroom should have a big bed with white sheets and white curtains. As soon as I open the curtains in the morning, I will wake you up as a lazy pig and bring you clothes to work. While you are washing, I will make breakfast. I will cook porridge for you. If you like western food, I will give you hot milk and fried eggs. When you have finished eating, I will walk you out and say goodbye to you with a smile, which has made you hard. I will find a job that leaves work earlier, so that I can go home early and cook dinner for you. I'll show you a table of delicious food and I'm waiting for you as soon as you get off work. I'll help you put your clothes away and we'll wait for you to wash your hands. Share your troubles at work. After dinner, I wash the dishes and you watch TV. In the evening, we watch our favorite TV programs together. If we don't agree which TV program to watch, can you make way for me, because you are a boy.
Weekend is our day. I hope we can go shopping for next week hand in hand. You should bring more things. We should put our things together when we get home. Then, we will clean the house and clean up together. I wash clothes and you clean the floor. You should help me dry it after I wash it, because you are very tall. When the clothes are dry, I will iron them for you. I want my husband to clean them every day. Let others envy your wife's virtue. You must spend time shopping with me, but we can't waste too much time because we have to pay for the house. We must visit our parents for a long time and have dinner with them so that they won't be too lonely. We should all be filial.
If you work hard and have backache, I will help you massage and give you a cup of hot bath water to get rid of the fatigue of the day. If you have to work late, I will make you a cup of coffee, sit next to you and accompany you to the end; If you are sick, I will stay by your bed, hold your hand tightly and feed you water and medicine on time until you recover; If it is your birthday, I will blindfold you when you come in, so that you can see the cake with candles and candlelight dinner as soon as you open your eyes; If your mother always makes things difficult for my daughter-in-law, I won't contradict her. I will touch her with my sincerity and filial piety, and let her accept me and like me. But if I am wronged, you should comfort me, Doby. During the holiday, I hope to travel with you to Hangzhou, Korea and Europe, but going abroad is expensive, so we can go first. I want to attend the bonfire party with you; I want to eat all the delicious food with you; I want to go bungee jumping with you. I hope we can hug each other and jump off the top of the mountain. I have many things I want to do with you. I hope we can be together forever and do these things together. We also want our parents to go out to play. They have worked hard for half their lives, so that they can enjoy their old age, and at the same time, they can increase their friendship and make their two in-laws live in harmony.
If you like children, I will give birth to them for you. Do you like boys or girls? Boys should be as calm as you, and girls should be as virtuous as me. We should spend all our time cultivating him, making him a useful person to society, and letting him find his own happiness like us and live a plain and happy life.
I forgot one of the most important things, and that is money. We pay half our salary, pay off some loans, and keep some for later use, so that we can travel and send our children to school.
We will inevitably quarrel in life, but we can't really get angry, let alone fight, but we should sit down and talk calmly and find the best way to solve the problem. If we really do something wrong, we should also learn to be considerate of each other and find out more about our own shortcomings. We can't do anything wrong to each other. We should learn to cherish what we have now and learn to be content. If my strong willfulness will accidentally hurt you, can you gently remind me that although I am sincere?
I love my mother very much. I'd rather trade my life for hers. I'm afraid of losing her. Without her, I'm afraid I'll go to Lacrimosa, and I won't have the courage to face life and tomorrow. If one day, she really left me. If I wake up in the middle of the night and cry helplessly, can you let me cry on your shoulder? Can you hold me tightly in your arms, make me feel a little warm, and give me a support and search after losing my mother?