I think if a girl wants to balance her career and family, she must let go of her careerism. If a woman’s careerism is too strong, it will make her go further and further in the pursuit of work. Not only do you need to let go of your career ambitions, but you also need to distinguish your time well, work hard when you are at work, and be with your family wholeheartedly after work, so that you can balance your family and career with ease.

My mother is a person who balances both family and career. She has a good sense of all things. I heard from my father that when my mother was pregnant, the company only allowed her to stay for one month. I had maternity leave, but in order to raise me fat and healthy, my mother had to take more than half a year off. Then after I was born, my mother started to work, but she also took time off. Despite this, I never My mother took me to work with her. Although she took a long vacation at that time, she handed over all the work before leaving, and it did not delay her work.

When I got older, my grandma and grandma took care of me. Even so, she would go to my grandma’s house or grandma’s house every afternoon after get off work and take me to sleep at night. No matter how busy she was at work, she never missed my growth. Later, when I got older, she refused several promotion opportunities in order to take care of me and my father. In public institutions like theirs, there are very few opportunities for promotion, but promotions are very fast. However, the higher you get, the more things you have to worry about, so she keeps doing it again and again. I turned down such a good opportunity.

Although she has not been promoted to a higher position at work, she has done very well in her current position. There are many trophies and certificates of honor for her at home. At the same time, she also took good care of my father and I. She cooked all three meals for me and my father. No matter how tired she was when she came back from work, she would cook for us. When I was in school, I had to get up early and go to bed late. She and my father both They accompany me together, make breakfast for me in the morning, and take me to school. No matter how busy the work was, she would never take her work home to do, and she would never discuss work matters with her father at home.

In her opinion, work is work and family is family. She would devote all her energy to work during the day. After get off work, it would be her family time. She would also spend equal energy to accompany me and my dad. She never neglected one because of the other, so she really You can have your cake and eat it too. Therefore, I think that if women want to balance their work and family, they must lower their career ambitions. While loving their own work, if they can climb up a little bit, that's fine, but remember not to have too big an appetite. After fully distinguishing the two, I think this is enough.