11
The temperature dropped in the south, and it snowed in many places in the circle of friends overnight.
Yu Huan went to Suzhou on business and gave me a call to share the first snow this winter. She put her mobile phone into the sky to let me listen to the sound of snow.
Just like when she watched Jay Chou's concert in Chongqing, she called me and put me on speakerphone.
Yu Huan said: "Everyone has some emotional moments. Some people are sad about spring and autumn, some people will think of the beauty of summer in 2118, and I will always be in winter and want to contact you."
actually, we haven't contacted each other for two years. She suddenly called me half a month ago, and I couldn't recognize her voice.
We used to talk about everything and talked for over 11 hours every day. Now we have long been estranged from each other, and there is no extra tenderness and concern. Every topic she mentioned can be taken into a dead end by me.
We have agreed that every joy should be shared with each other. Your happiness is due to me, and my troubles will let you know that when everyone is old, we can still laugh and be poor together when we are not pleasing to each other.
now we don't communicate with each other, and no one is wrong, just because people are in the wind, it's not up to you and me to get together.
After sharing the first snow, when she was about to hang up, she said, "It's actually good that we didn't get together at last, otherwise I wouldn't miss you so much. But you can rest assured that I don't like you anymore. "
12
Zhang Xiaoxian said that there is always only one way to forget a relationship, time and new love. If time and new love can't make you forget a relationship, there is only one reason. Time is not long enough and new love is not good enough.
But there are always people who can't restrain their fantasies and want to know each other. Either secretly pay attention to Weibo's circle of friends, or inquire about each other's news from friends, or deliberately create a chance encounter with exquisite makeup.
As a result, it will only make the situation awkward and make you covered with scars. Instead of tearing up the little beauty in each other's hearts, it is better to let each other live in memories.
In the legendary swordsman, Ling Huchong has always been obsessed with Yue Lingshan, and even when he meets Ren Yingying, he still cares for her. Many people understand it as love, but it is actually a misunderstanding.
Ling Huchong loves not Yue Lingshan, but Younger who wears two pigtails and looks at him with adoration. What he has done for Yue Lingshan is just trying to find himself, to find that childhood time.
However, the little beauty of practicing "Chongling Sword Technique" together will always stay on the cliff. Later, Mrs. Lin stood in front of him. She may be as exciting as before, even more radiant than before, but the person he loved at that time will never come back.
What you love is the boy who flies in the sky, the man who is as gentle as jade, and the pretentious prodigal son. It is the love that makes your legs soft and your brain hot, but it is extremely sweet.
You love yourself more in that love, smiling like a flower, looking around and showing affection. You don't have to whitewash yourself, and you don't have to work hard. You are full of goodwill to the whole world and have confidence in your lover.
The break between Yu Huan and me was that she invited me to dinner and I left early. She used a short message to say goodbye:
13
After all, like and love are two different emotions.
I like leaves and branches full of fresh juice, which grow cheerfully, occasionally sour, but always under the sun. Love is a winding root that goes deep into the dark soil.
In a relationship, apart from a short infatuation, we have to face a longer-term reality together, and the reality is far from the fantasy dream.
You can roam with him at the crossroads, wander among various cuisines, look at each other and kiss each other, and then pour out your true feelings, but you can't show him all your willfulness, stupidity and emotions.
Later, he used his self-righteousness again and again to hurt your feelings and kill your expectations. Those branches and leaves with vigorous vitality and thriving love have withered, only the roots buried deep in the ground and the love in the heart are still there, and will last for a long time to come.
after saving up enough disappointment, you strode away. But your love has become a part of your life, your tattoos and scars, and you can't give up.
you can't forget the past many years. Maybe you can meet many people and fall in love with many people, but you are no longer brave and persistent like a soldier.
You took the young man to heart, became mature and began to grow, and you became invulnerable, and he became the only weakness. You are afraid of pain, loss and torture, so you dare not expect love again.
Love is so unfair. Some people easily take root in your heart, and every breath you take is accompanied by his ups and downs. Some people are so worthy of love, but they just can't walk into your world again.
14
In "A Generation of Masters", Gong Er said to Ye Wen:
There were flowers hidden under the leaves for a time, and I walked through the snow several times in my dream, and I really loved someone, which is probably the case. Talking about the past several times, the past will become more and more faith.
there is always such a person, and he is somewhere in the world. He once brought his own light and heat into your life, making you look forward to tomorrow, but he didn't appear in your tomorrow.
For him, you expect yourself to become better, and you are eager to walk hand in hand with him through the noisy crowd, travel all over the ends of the earth, mountains and rivers, Wan Li, and see all the flowers blooming. Later, I found out that no matter how prosperous your life is, it has nothing to do with him.
but you finally understand that it is bound to be very sad to be obsessed with it. Your life is too long, and you don't know when it is, and you forgot it. The child cries in the middle of the night, and you wake up every half hour, just trying to make up for those tossing and turning nights.
The so-called perfect love is just a girl's fantasy crystal ball, not a hot mom's frying pan. Don't go to the airport to wait for a boat, and waste your great youth. In this world, there are many people and things that are more touching than love.
what you can hold in your arms naturally makes people happy, but what you want is not available, which is the truth of life.
I still love you, but I don't like you anymore.