I have a good sister who is still married at the age of 35. At the same age, I am a mother of three children, and she is still wandering in the sea of people, like a duckweed, pitiful.
Apart from her feelings, she is quite perfect. At her age, there is little success in her career, but it is not necessarily how happy she is.
She lives in an upscale community, eats organic natural vegetables and drinks imported organic milk, and her room is equipped with a full set of fitness equipment. I looked at her life and couldn't help sighing that there was no place for a future man.
She smiled at me. "But the problem is that he has never appeared. When he does, he will make room for him. " I especially admire her high quality of life, and she didn't just send herself away because of one person.
She has always been a delicate girl. Even if she is alone at home, she doesn't relax herself. No wonder she earns millions a year. I'm afraid no one can match her amazing self-discipline.
Although she has a successful career, the road to love is bumpy. After the age of 30, I introduced her to a blind date, either because she was ugly or because she had a bad temper.
Although she has picky capital, these years have passed, and she has unconsciously reached the age of 35, and her mood is not as good as before, but she still insists on it, preferring to be short of it.
She also talked about an unforgettable love. At that time, she was still in college and her boyfriend was a bully, which was a perfect match for her. Their relationship has always been very good. Unfortunately, after graduation, they still failed to break the spell of breaking up.
The reason is particularly simple. My boyfriend doesn't want to stay in a big city, thinking about the development of a small county in his hometown, and it is also a kind of happiness to live and work in peace and contentment all his life. But she didn't want to. She felt that she had been studying hard at the cold window for so many years just to get out of the farm gate, and she never thought about going back after coming out.
Between love and career, she chose career rationally. Although it hurts, she is willing to give up. To tell the truth, my heart ached for her when she made such a decision. After all, I have witnessed all the relationships along the way.
Although it didn't come to the end, it was still unforgettable. Because I have a good impression, I don't want to settle. It is also reasonable.
I don't think it is difficult to end being single with her conditions. The hard part is that two of a kind can entrust him for life. This is what scares me most. I got married for the sake of marriage, and finally got married, only to find that there were many disagreements, which made me physically and mentally exhausted and ended in divorce.
Cathy, my neighbor, was also an "older woman" at first. She is over 35 and still unmarried. Parents are eager to introduce themselves. Although Cathy herself is not in a hurry, she can't bear the pressure from everyone.
After several simple blind dates, I found a suitable marriage partner, the same age as her, and he looks honest and honest, and he is a man who lives at home. So she married herself in a hurry, together with her savings over the years.
Men are so bad that they will be looked down upon for a long time. Less than three years after marriage, Cathy found that her husband often cheated, secretly squandered, and went in and out of luxury places such as bars. The original honesty is all in disguise, just to cheat her heart.
It's a pity that she is pregnant with a second child at this time, otherwise, she will divorce immediately. For the sake of the children, wait until the melon is ripe before going through the divorce formalities.
After this disaster, Cathy had no expectation of love, and raising children became her pursuit for the rest of her life. Money and children, this life is enough.
It can be seen that there is no sooner or later in marriage, and it doesn't matter whether it is early or late. The key is to be right, and happiness is the highest pursuit. People are generally anxious, especially after the age of 30.
If you are still single in your thirties, you will be a little flustered and feel a little dull. I don't think there is any need to panic.
Life is not a sprint, but an endurance race. We don't know who is really good until it's over. Many people live a chic and moist life when they are single, but they live a miserable life after marriage.
No wonder more and more people choose to be single. A high-quality single is better than a bad marriage.
However, at the right age, you still have to do the right thing. For example, there is a time limit for getting married. If it passes, the choice will drop sharply, and the chances of happiness will inevitably decrease.
Private thought, not afraid of age, not afraid of the secular, not afraid of panic. It is worth pursuing and working hard to dance the most beautiful posture in life at your own pace.
Finally, may we all have the happiness that live high wants!