I told my own personal experience. After I got married, I took my son home many times. When I was young, my parents would tell me not to do this or that, and then I would tell my son the same thing when I got home. But once our children spoiled all the vegetables their parents planted in the garden and fed them to chickens and rabbits. I thought he would be treated like me, so I quickly took my child there for criticism and education.

But I didn't expect the old man to scold me after seeing it, and almost turned to tell his grandson that the order was worthless. As long as he had a good time, it would be no problem to feed the chickens and rabbits. I was a little surprised to see this scene. After all, when I was a child, I couldn't avoid frying meat with bamboo shoots.

The problem of intergenerational relations may be related to the traditions of the older generation. On our side, the father must be strict with his son, not always holding his son, so as to establish an image of strict father for his son from an early age, but there is no problem for his grandson. I didn't understand it before. I thought it might be a child brought back by my father. Now I can understand that if a father has no dignity, he can't stand in this family, especially the education of his son.

Some time ago, I saw two old people. Because their little grandson likes plush dolls, they specially brought two big pocket dolls to see their baby grandson. They don't love their children, but they have to be wronged because of the environment at that time and the needs of their children's growth. I feel that the reason for living apart from the elderly is that their grandchildren have their own sons, and their daughter-in-law only needs to spoil them, so it is helpless for grandparents to spoil their hard-core dolls.

If you have such love, your children's childhood will be much happier, but you should also tell your grandparents that you can't spoil them too much and form bad habits. This is not good, especially when your parents educate you, your grandparents should avoid what they should avoid.