In The First Half of My Life, Luo Zijun changed from a full-time housewife to a career elite after divorce. It looks interesting, but it's hard to do in real life. But we can learn something from Luo's life experience.

The stronger a person is, the more he can overcome it. That's usually how it starts.

I believe every girl has the same dream as Luo Zijun.

My husband earns money to support my family, my nanny does housework, my children are smart and sensible, and I, besides shopping, do all kinds of beauty care or travel and enjoy delicious food.

who doesn't want to live like this?

But the reality gave Luo Zijun a slap in the face and woke her up completely.

Life without hard work, the original promise of marriage, after years of baptism, has become a mockery of reality.

the first half of my life tells us the true meaning of life in a cruel way: some men cheat not because you are not beautiful, but because you are worthless in his eyes.

So, girls, stop imagining that you can marry a rich man and live a happy life.

getting married well is only the beginning of happiness; A good life is a happy life.

girl, after all, you have to rely on yourself.

There is a passage in To Youth: Will the future and love inevitably exist?

if I have a firm and progressive love, then I choose love. If not, then I choose the future.

Love is important, but it is also the most unreliable. Only by struggling can you gain knowledge and skills for your future, which truly belongs to you and will never betray you.

if you want to take the initiative in life, you must rely on yourself. So, let go of any illusion of attachment.

Give up meaningless complaining

There is a good proverb: When people are weak, there will be many bad people. When you are strong, you will find that there are many kind people in this world.

You are weak, so you feel that others are bullying you, so you keep complaining. What is the final result?

Luo Zijun was hysterical when he saw Chen Junsheng's showdown with her, and no one looked at him. He Han's help to her was regarded as a mockery by her, and she didn't want to listen to anyone's opinion.

She has been complaining about people and things around her. Fortunately, Tang Jing is always with her, helping her to analyze problems, clear her mind and find her own direction.

After she let go of her complaints, she can clearly see her problems and listen to He Han's opinions, so that she can smoothly enter the job step by step and make a gorgeous change.

complaining is the most useless.

I also have friends who often complain that her husband leaves home, that her children are too naughty and complain about her mother-in-law ...

Instead of solving her problems, her complaints make many people stay away from her and ask her: Who wants other people's trifles to invade their hearts?

after all, you should understand that all resentment is not only meaningless, but also deepens the pain.

it is better to change your destiny than to complain about it, and it is better to improve your life than to complain about it.

When you stop complaining and look at your problems rationally, you will find that life is not as difficult as you think, and others are not as bad as you think.

there is nothing in the world, and there are no worries.

as you progress, you will find that there are fewer and fewer complaints in your life.

Let go of sensitive and fragile heart

In the first half of my life, I think Luo Zijun's greatest strength is that she can let go of sensitive heart and accept reality calmly.

Luo Zijun found a job selling luxury goods for her children. At work, she met the ridicule of her college classmates for the first time. She didn't hide and didn't feel embarrassed. Instead, she generously sold her the two most expensive pairs of shoes in the store and got a high commission.

Later, Chen Junsheng took Lingling to buy shoes, and she accepted them generously.

it's not easy to do this.

Too many people can't let go of their hearts and so-called "face". We are locked in our inner world and dare not break free, so we live a very tired life.

In fact, everyone has a fragile side in his heart. If he is weak for a long time, he will become more sensitive without self-confidence. The more sensitive he is, the more fragile he will become, and he will become blx.

sensitive people are unhappy most of the time. Because I care too much about other people's eyes, it is my heart that is wronged, my happiness that is sacrificed, and my life that is painful.

So, try to put down the so-called face, and also try to break free from self-restraint and let yourself have a little freedom and happiness.

There are some things that you can only find happiness by letting go. Just like Luo Zijun, letting go of the burden in his heart and letting go of those so-called small emotions not only didn't make the other party insult him, but made the other party suffocate.

The older you get, the more you should learn to hold on to what you really care about and give up those useless things.

in this way, you can have real happiness and get better.