Marriage can only exist based on love, but marriage is not only love, but also responsibility.

When two people enter into marriage, they are ready to take on future responsibilities.

However, many couples will gradually lose patience with their partner during a long-term relationship, because they are too familiar with each other day and night, and the novelty has disappeared.

In marriage, a woman will become more and more dependent on her husband, and the husband will gradually become disgusted and irritable with this dependence.

If a woman's emotions are not responded to for a long time, she will doubt herself and her husband and become anxious.

There are more and more conflicts between two people, and finally they break out over a trivial matter. Faced with a woman's inexplicable temper, a man may feel that it is unreasonable.

Faced with such a woman, a man just wants to escape, but for the sake of his own responsibilities, he cannot maintain this marriage that is about to collapse.

At this time, they will want to go outside to find comfort.

Once a man and a woman with their own families have a "relationship", there is only one best ending left.

Lao Zhou has been married to his wife for ten years, and their relationship has long lost its original passion. He has begun to feel tired of such a boring marriage.

My wife has gone from being young, beautiful, gentle and considerate to now being a yellow-faced woman who is irritable and irritable.

Men all like young and beautiful women, and so does Lao Zhou.

At that time, Lao Zhou's company hired a female secretary. She was married and had a three-year-old daughter.

At work, the woman was very gentle and considerate to Lao Zhou, and she could complete the tasks assigned to her very well. Lao Zhou felt that he had fallen in love with this woman.

Especially when he returned home and saw the gap between his wife and that woman, he just wanted to escape from his wife quickly.

The two have been getting along day and night for a long time, and the woman also developed feelings for Lao Zhou, betraying each other's families to be together.

Finally, their affair was discovered. Lao Zhou's wife wanted a divorce, so he agreed, and his wife took most of the property.

But he just wanted to be with that woman and agreed without thinking.

When the woman found out that most of his property had been given to his wife, she immediately changed her face and said she would not be with him.

At this time, his divorced wife was no longer the yellow-faced woman she once was, and became radiant again. Lao Zhou regretted it, but he had no way out.

Marriage requires both husband and wife to tolerate and help each other, rather than being disliked when one party has given everything for the family.

As a couple, both people have to take responsibility. The man earns money outside the home, and the woman takes care of the children and the elderly at home. There is a clear division of labor.

But some men only see their own hard work, but ignore the pain of women. It is clear that both parties are fulfilling their responsibilities, but the man mistakenly thinks that he is the only one bearing the burden.

Men will dislike their wives because of their out-of-shape faces and figures, and they will also want to escape because women don't understand them.

But people will also have emotions under the pressure of housework and children. These emotions have always been digested by themselves and endured silently.

They can endure these negative emotions for the sake of their family, they can endure their husband's incomprehension, and they can even endure their husband's scolding, but they cannot tolerate their husband's betrayal.

Her husband's betrayal means betrayal of the family, so what does her daily sacrifice count?

This negates their efforts, and being stressed is no excuse for cheating.

Many men think that women outside have better conditions than their wives in all aspects, but they forget that their wives were like this before, and they became what they are now just for the sake of the family and him.

They feel that the beauty of women outside marriage is just due to freshness and curiosity. It is really unfair that their wives have paid so much for them but do not get the rewards they deserve.

This tells women from another perspective that after getting married, they should not blindly devote themselves to the family and neglect themselves. They should not focus entirely on the family. They should get in touch with outside things and strive to make themselves more perfect.

A truly perfect marriage is when two people improve each other's self, rather than when one party actively compromises with life in order to achieve the other's success.

A woman's contribution to the family must be seen by her husband, and she must stand in a position of equal importance to him, so that the man will respect the woman and be grateful for the woman's contribution.

Therefore, once a man and a woman who already have a family have a relationship, the two families will be affected. The best result for the two people is to delete each other from their lives, manage their marriage well, and pray for forgiveness from their partner.