The title is not deliberately exaggerated to attract attention, and it is indeed the case.
Zhang, a 34-year-old student of Chongqing University, was addicted to novels after entering school, and his grades in many subjects were not up to standard during his college years. Zhang dropped out of school after a conflict with his father. Until recently, he was found by the police in an abandoned hut in the mountains and finally met his relatives.
Judging from the early development, Zhang is not a self-indulgent and opinionated person. In high school, Zhang Yimou had to repeat his studies twice and was finally admitted to Chongqing University.
Some people can endure the hardships of learning, but they can't stand the hardships of life; Some people can stand the hardships of life, but they can't stand the hardships of going to school.
This reminds me of my college roommate Tao Ge.
Tao Ge was once a legend in our department!
Freshman hung up six credits last semester, ranking first in the class; Hang 4.5 credits next semester, or the last course.
However, Tao Ge people have a good mentality. As long as they can read novels, have the internet and have a once-in-a-while Sichuan style pork rice, life will be better!
Senior year, Tao Ge began to take the postgraduate entrance examination! In hot summer, Tao Ge is always the first to get up in the dormitory, sit down in the library, spread out a word book, and then start to take out his mobile phone to read novels.
Every time I see Tao Ge posing in the distance and staring at a small area, I am almost moved.
In the end, Tao Ge failed the college entrance examination, and at the same time, because of the college entrance examination, he also "delayed" his job search.
After graduation, Tao Ge rented a house off campus to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination during World War II. Later, I heard from friends who reviewed with him that Tao Ge went to the study room to read novels as usual. ...
Later, Tao Ge fought three more wars. ...
Some people keep running just to escape from reality.
In reality, there are many such people who are immersed in certain things, such as study and some unpopular fields; Or imagine yourself in some virtual world, living by fantasy.
Unfortunately, they forget that the essence of life is to serve life.
What is the essence of life?
Now is the time to study hard, the skills to master survival must be changed, and certain things must be done at a certain age.
Many times, we are constantly changing roles: students, sons, husbands, etc. , bear different responsibilities and obligations.
For the vast majority of people, it is a good choice not to ask Wenda to be a vassal.
It turns out that I study hard in order to have a better life. When students have problems in the process of transforming into professional technicians, if they always study and don't want to turn the corresponding knowledge into skills applied to life, then the former schoolmaster will become uncontrollable. If it can't be adjusted in time, the final outcome will often be tragic.
Similarly, if the roles of two people can't be changed in time after marriage, and they are unwilling to take corresponding responsibilities like when they are single, such as supporting the elderly and feeding the children, then one day, the marriage will also fall apart.
It is very important for us to adjust our mentality and plan in time!
We set out for a long time, not only to run, but also to remember the purpose of setting out.