Life is like a cup of tea. It won't be bitter for a lifetime, but it will always be bitter for a while. This kind of bitterness can't be abandoned anyway. It is not only a tea ceremony but also a principle of life. Eat bitterness when you are young, and you can breed the sweetness in life. If you concentrate on experiencing the sweetness of life, life will bring endless troubles and bad experiences. Life is like this, when you should pay, pay; When it is time to work hard, work hard; When it's time to enjoy, enjoy!
unfortunately, some people always don't understand the truth. In the season of hard work, they begin to enjoy themselves and get endless troubles! Linlin is a rural girl with a beautiful face and an ordinary family, but as the only girl in the family and the youngest child in the family, she has been pampered and brought up. Linlin grew up with the best food and clothing in the family. My parents and two older brothers are very fond of this little sister, and everything in Linlin is arbitrary.
Linlin didn't like studying since he was a child. He loved eating, playing, dressing up and fashion. I dropped out of school before I graduated from junior high school and played with my sisters every day. Children from other families will find jobs in factories after their children drop out of school. At that time, carpet weaving was popular and they were dirty every day. The family couldn't bear to let Linlin weave carpets, so they found a temporary job for Linlin in the government office.
Although I am a temporary worker, I earn less money, but I am very relaxed and stylish. After all, I work in a place that everyone admires. But Linlin is not serious at work, always thinking about eating, drinking and playing, and even talking about love with an old classmate. Finally, I gave up my job and followed my male classmates. I got pregnant before marriage and had my first child at the age of 18. After giving birth, the husband and wife still eat and drink. In a rural word, it's just a matter of time.
The mobile phones, tablets and laptops of both husband and wife are the latest models. Even I, who work every day, earn money every day, and have social security, dare not keep up with the new. In rural areas, this small couple with no fixed income can do it. Cosmetics in Linlin cost several thousand yuan each, but the cosmetics I buy are no better than one thousand yuan. I'm saving money for the future and spending moderately, but Linlin can be extravagant.
Linlin does her hair once a month, and every time she does it, it's several hundred times bigger. Linlin's clothes are all the latest fashion deductions, and online shopping continues. The husband and wife often go out to restaurants, taste both western food and Chinese food, and go around the city from time to time. People who earn more than 1, yuan a month in cities dare not spend like this, but the young couple live a free and easy life. There is not enough money to borrow money, loan or credit card from the elderly.
Looking at the delicious food that Linlin often cooks in the circle of friends, the prices of fresh cherries, strawberries and mangoes are not cheap. These expensive fruits are often consumed by ordinary people, but often by husband and wife. Indeed, the husband and wife have no burden, the old people on both sides are still young and don't have to support them, and they don't have a mortgage or a car loan, so long as they have enough to eat and spend.
They are also working, but they are not focused on their work. They are working hard after entertainment, and entertainment dominates their lives. While others are working hard and enjoying life after work. In their teens, they started what others dared to do in their fifties and sixties. When others struggle, they choose comfort and choose a different life from others. It will also be doomed that their lives will be different from others.
Linlin and his wife have been together for more than 1 years, and the loans and debts outside are nearly 1 million. Finally, due to financial constraints, many contradictions have arisen. In the end, the two ended in divorce. They became married at a young age, and the two children became children who lacked fatherly love or maternal love before they grew up. After the divorce, each of them took care of a child and continued to enjoy life. At present, both children are out of control, eating, drinking and having fun like their parents. Economic stress is a common occurrence and they can only eat old people.
Both husband and wife's parents are ordinary farmers, honest farmers, who depend on land and work all their lives and have no great promise. Linlin and his wife's gnawing at the old is not only a problem of gnawing at the old, but also a problem that the old people on both sides can't enjoy their old age. Parents have to spend decades helping their children pay off their debts until they are old. Old people not only have to bear the physical effort, but also bear the mental blow. Old people can't see that their grandchildren lack fatherly love or maternal love, and they can't see that their younger generations are getting worse.
If Mr. and Mrs. Linlin suffer moderately and live a good life, life will be very warm. They chose comfort when they should work hard, but life will give them a heavy blow. This blow will destroy not one generation but two, three or even more generations. If you are not a rich second generation, don't learn the life of the rich second generation, be a down-to-earth person, work hard and create sweetness in life by your own ability. Life is like a cup of tea, it won't be bitter for a lifetime, but it will always be bitter for a while. This kind of bitterness can't be abandoned anyway. It is not only a tea ceremony but also a principle of life.