classic summary

1. Where life goes and how high it rises are directly related to how many books you read.

2. Reading is a kind of injury, while thinking is a kind of healing.

3. To sum up, there are only two roads in life: one is for practice, which is the one we are taking; One is used to regret, just think about it

4. Life often develops in another direction inadvertently

5. Perhaps regret is destined to be an eternal proposition of life

6. Choosing at the same time means giving up. There are many roads in life. Choose the one you want to take, and take the other roads as scenery. Just watch it in your heart.

7. All greatness comes from a brave beginning.

8. Many things, as long as you take the first step, you can't stop at all. But the premise is that you have to start

9. You don't push yourself, and you don't know how good you are.

11. Cultivate one's morality, rule the country and lead by example.

11. An excellent person must show his Excellence everywhere.

12. At work, I often think about three questions:

What else can I learn from leadership?

where can I improve my work today?

how can I do the work at hand better?

13. Life is walking through thorns with the greatest goodwill. Even if I am stabbed, I won't change my original intention

14. I can only decide one thing, that is, let myself have a clear conscience at that moment

15. When you want to do good, you are always cheated. When you lose trust in everyone, there is always a very kind person standing in front of you, making you feel how dirty your heart is

16. Everyone may be cheated, but you can't lose trust in everyone just because you are cheated

17. Frustration or injury will always be a thing of the past and a floating cloud. The terrible thing is that you kidnapped your future with these past

18. You can't hurt a large group just because of "a handful", otherwise you will give up the whole world

19. Living is not a trial of cases, and there is no clear right or wrong

21. In the adult world, accuracy is a cruel way of life. Confusion, who says it's not a lifestyle with high IQ

21. Maturity is defined as expressing oneself and understanding each other's feelings

22. It is better to focus on solving problems than on judging right and wrong. If the other person does something wrong, just do it right and help her solve it.

23. Solving problems is far more attractive than caring about right and wrong.

24. Because of ignorance, I am infatuated. And once you see it clearly, it becomes naked contempt

25. One person can never possess another person. Therefore, we should not ask for love from each other, but should express love from ourselves.

26. Reading is the cheapest thing in the world. You can communicate with the author's thoughts for a lifetime by spending tens of dollars.

27. Reading increases the hierarchy of life. After all, life is only once, but if you study, you can experience different lives, that is, you have only lived your whole life, but you have followed the author for many lives. The more levels of life there are, the richer life will be, and the easier it will be to have a sense of happiness.

28. Make a living by your ability and work hard by your ability. There is nothing to say.

29. The only thing you can do is to make yourself better.

31. Many times, once you turn around, it will be a lifetime. Therefore, when you meet, you should be kind, such as meeting for the first time; When saying goodbye, be serious, like the last time

31. Take a good road, don't take crooked ways, or you will fall into the well. "

" Everyone needs help sometimes, so help others if you can, and you can get along with them only if you have a good relationship. "

"If you don't weed the crops, the best land will be confiscated."

32. It's powerful enough to resist any dark fear

33. Whenever you use violence to solve a problem, it generally means that you are incompetent to the extreme, because there is no way to do it, but when you use violence, it means that you can't and can't reason at all

34. If you look at the world from a more global perspective, everyone is just a small particle, so you feel that you can't get through it. Or cook together, clean the room together, smile at each other, hug each other to sleep at night, and kiss each other goodbye to work in the morning. Travel together, watch movies together, go shopping together, and talk to each other first. Simple and clean, such as a white shirt that has just been washed

36. Marriage is not medicine, and the problem of love should not be solved by marriage

37. Life is too short, and there are still many things that I have not tried. If I don't try it, I will definitely regret

38. A congenial temper is the key, and a good lover will make me

39. A good lover will make you discover your own beauty, instead of always being belittled, feeling that you are useless and gradually losing your self-confidence.

41. Because she is sunny, she is happy, because she is wise and intellectually. A beautiful love should inspire a lot of good, not evil, and feel extremely annoying. Because of love, everything is lovely

41. You are narcissistic in your own world and happy in others' world

42. People pay attention to you just to see a different self, but you rack your brains to be the other side, which is off-direction. In fact, being the truest you is the most worthy of others' attention. If others don't appreciate your bad side, you don't deserve your good side.

43. Quality can't be used to demand others, but only to restrain yourself.

44. The world can be different from what you expect, because others have to be themselves.

45. Friends are like three meals.

Friends are like breakfast, and the other side. But most of the time is dispensable

A kind of friend, such as lunch, is not important, but important. In order to survive, you have to be polite every day, which is absolutely indispensable, you can't make friends deeply, and you can't afford to offend

A kind of friend, such as dinner, will accompany you when you are most tired and vulnerable, and eat slowly, so that you can get the taste

There is also a kind of friend, such as night snack. However, it can't be used as the main meal. Eating too much is not good for your health. 46. Gentleman's pleasure, trust first. Gentleman's intersection, respect the bottom line. No matter how long or short, a gentleman will break up, and there will be no bad words. 47. Keep your distance from your breakfast friends, and don't waste too much time. P > Try to be professional with your lunch friends, and don't nag. Don't cross the border to rolled sheets

48. Some things don't need to be revealed. Maturity is to seek a balance between expressing yourself and being considerate of others.

49. Competition is to get ahead, and fear is to be abandoned.

51. I admire you very much, but I don't necessarily become you. I turn around and be myself quietly.

51. Life has many contents, such as traveling. If you regard love as life, you will be trapped in love and become sensitive and fragile.

52. Life should be colorful.

53. If two people together will not make themselves better, why should they be together?

54. It is very simple to judge whether a person loves himself or not, that is, whether he is willing to change for you.

55. If he loves, he will confess. Just break up

like, enjoy being harassed

, and refuse to be

simple, and it will be easy. Other reasons are nothing more than pretending to cover up your cowardice

56. In any case, it is most important to improve yourself

57. Be good at using the time on the road, reading at any time, and learning the boss's working methods at work (the boss puts himself. And how to criticize yourself), I should reflect on myself three times a day, share my thoughts more

58, never touch the bottom line of enterprises and occupations

59, regard work as a growing process (pay attention to your own learning in every job, and you should reflect on it when you finish every job, instead of just doing it foolishly)

61, treat your life as a game. What's there to be afraid of when you make a mistake and laugh it off? When you are interested in the world, your growth will increase day by day.

62. Learn to cooperate with others.

63. You can make good suggestions, but you should consider the acceptance of others.

64. You should monopolize all the interests. Such people can't do much.

65. Accept their imperfections.

66. Finally, even if something goes wrong afterwards. Simplicity is the ultimate

68. A person who is never satisfied with his hairstyle will never admit that his face is not good

69. You will hate this place when you first come here, and you will love it after a long time, and you will never want to leave it again. It is better to buy a classic

71 for ten bargains. Before you compete with others, think about whether the other person is qualified. Because I see through the world, I am not angry. Because I have read all kinds of things, I am not sharp and engraved. Because the heart is mature, I can smile. Because there is no lack of attention, I can listen. Because I have experienced the magnificent scenery, I can watch the fire in case of trouble. Because I have experienced the ups and downs, I can look down on Yun Qi

73 and strive to live the most brilliant life on the basis of living for a long time

74. If friends care about interests, there will be no true friends, and if relatives care about interests, there will be no true feelings

75. Living a life is not only a criticism, but also a thing called a happy experience; There are not only good and evil, right and wrong, but also something called being spontaneous, so you don't have to be so nervous

76. I think the greatest value of traveling is not to see Qian Fan and see everything, but to find that everything may not be what you want, and everyone may not be what you think. So, I began to let go of my persistence, learn to accept setbacks and learn to respect others. My mood suddenly changed, and my mind was broadened, so I began to let go of my entanglement and paranoia, find a happy-go-lucky self, and then return to that familiar home with a brand-new self

77. Only when I travel alone can I hear my voice. It will tell you that the world is wider than you think. There will be no end to your life. You will find that you have a pair of wings, and you can fly without anyone's permission.

78. If you don't enjoy loneliness, you will never mature. A person will be lonely if he can't enjoy loneliness

79. No matter his age or gender, as long as he has the urge to travel, life will not be wasted.

81. No pain will last, no hate will last forever, no love will stagnate, and no love will persist.

81. Be happy every day, move forward in the direction you want to work hard, and ask yourself before you die, I am worthy of this life, and I have no regrets about this trip as a human being

83. All the struggles for fame and gain, all the love and hate will come to nothing with your death. If you think about it, there will be nothing to let go of, nothing to think about, and the quality of life will be very different

84. The world is very different. Haggle over every ounce

85. There are roughly four ways to get away from real life for a short time:

reading, peeking in other people's souls,

watching movies,

meditating on the silver screen,

traveling in your own inner secret, or feeling in a strange environment

86. When you are disgusted with someone, In this world, no one is an absolute good person, and no one is an absolute bad person

88. In the vast sea of people, we are all looking for another self, not a perfect person

89. Everyone's life is not easy, and there are some unsatisfactory places. Only some people grin for fear of the world, and some people bite their teeth and move on. You don't have to exaggerate your pain to move yourself. In the eyes of people who are experiencing greater pain, this is melodramatic. Although the autumn wind rises, I still smile like a flower on the frosty wound and walk against the wind.

91. You don't have to take yourself so seriously. No one cares about you so much. It may make sense when you think about it. What you think is a big thing may not be worth mentioning at all in the eyes of others. In fact, what you can't let go is yourself

91. It happened, accepted, and then faced. What do you think, love is gone

Outsiders have cared about you once in a while without you for many years, and you think that love has come

93. What others are basking in is often what we lack

94. Spring is spring, summer is long, autumn is long, winter is long, step by step, and there is no need for fire

95. Quiet is a kind of cultivation. No amount of wealth is useless

97. Things that are carefully cared for are broken because they are too cautious

98. I think the real humor is that you can find the funniest angle from anything, especially anything

If you are p>99 or 31 years old, if you haven't trained your skills well, you will face an embarrassing situation. New colleagues are more receptive to new things, and the key is to get a salary.

111, let yourself master a core competence, and then use this core competence to expand your influence in the industry, so that you become a unique self.

111, all love stories will turn from passion to dullness, from flowers before the moon to oil and salt sauce vinegar. True happiness is not one stimulus after another, but the courage to accept the dullness after the passion fades

112. In my opinion, there are two bottom lines in marriage: First, no domestic violence; Second, be honest with each other

113, make money an object that you can control

114, and regard making money as a process. As long as you have the ability to make money, you don't have to set how much you earn. This is a ridiculous goal. Are you going to sit and eat until you die? Cultivate oneself