Pay attention to where to eat, what to eat and who to eat with, so the dining table has become a witness of human relations and eating has become a science.
No matter in which country, people have a soft spot for "eating". When they see delicious food, they often make people feel happy and even get carried away. Many details will reveal their true selves.
If you want to get to know someone, you should start by having dinner with him.
A person's diet reflects his family upbringing.
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The boss of an enterprise invited guests to dinner, accompanied by two new college students.
The guest is from the south, and the taste of the food is relatively light, so the food ordered is more in line with the guest's taste.
But the new college students are all Sichuanese and like spicy food, so they keep complaining that there is no food they like to eat.
Although the boss is unhappy, he doesn't get angry easily, so he ordered two more spicy dishes.
As a result, after these two dishes were served, they were "dominated" by the two college students in front, and they didn't care about chatting and eating.
After eating, he also praised: "These two dishes are not bad."
After returning to the company, the boss immediately dismissed the two college students without any explanation.
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A large enterprise recruited a logistics minister, and after some sea elections and written interviews, ten people were finally selected.
The company invited these ten people to the company at the same time. The examiner chatted casually with everyone for a while and invited everyone to have dinner together.
After a full meal, the examiner announced the end of the interview, and the candidate for the logistics minister has also been decided.
No one thought that the last exam was actually a meal and a buffet. When everyone understands, the candidate for logistics minister has been decided.
It's the man who takes as much as he eats and even pours the last mouthful of soup into porridge to drink.
03
Xueba Xiaoming applied for a job in a Fortune 500 company. Because of his outstanding achievements and outstanding performances, he was successfully invited to an interview dinner for company executives.
During the dinner, he consciously behaved appropriately, but it was not him who successfully applied for the job.
Xiao Ming is very angry. He thinks there must be a shady behind this.
Finally, the recruitment department told Xiao Ming that his ability was really strong, and the reason why he was eliminated by the executives was at the dinner party, which was the last link of the interview:
He never thanked any waiter.
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On the eve of the Spring Festival, Mei Mei's parents came to Beijing to celebrate the Spring Festival with her. When Mei Mei's boyfriend found out, he quickly booked a familiar restaurant and tried his best to show himself at the dinner party.
But when I came home, Mei Mei's parents spoke: Your boyfriend is not in our eyes!
First, when he booked the restaurant, he didn't ask your opinion or the taste of our food.
The second is to catch up with the pre-holiday banquet peak and serve slowly, urging the waiter many times, with a very unfriendly attitude, and often complaining about calling the manager;
Third, during the meal, his cell phone rings, so he can tell the other party that he has something to do and contact him later; If it is urgent, you can also say sorry to us and leave. But he answered the phone while eating and talked for more than ten minutes. All of us can only sit opposite him, eating food awkwardly and listening to him on the phone.
Mei Mei hesitated after hearing his parents' judgment.
It is often said that a glimpse of the whole leopard is vivid.
What Meimei's boyfriend has done is enough to show his true character. He is a person who is not worth entrusting for life.
Invite others to dinner, but don't ask for others' opinions and make your own decisions without authorization, regardless of whether the guests like it or not.
There is a joke that when a man is eating, his attitude towards the waiter is his attitude towards his wife in the future. For such a person who yells at the waiter and doesn't even know the most basic manners, girls must keep their eyes open. Such a person can't marry.
How much respect do you expect you and your family to get in the future if you don't even have the most basic table manners when eating?
He only has eyes for himself, only me. After a long time, he will boss you around like a nanny and be the shopkeeper of cutting.
A small dining table can reflect a person's education and personality.
I can also indirectly see what kind of family he has behind him.
Those who know how to put down their mobile phones at the dinner table and talk to people around them are good people.
Those who always silently melt deep love and careful care into plain three meals a day are the partners worthy of joining hands for life.
Seeing your personality at the dinner table, many details have exposed your truth.
Some people say that a man's attitude towards a waiter before marriage is his attitude towards his wife after marriage.
Although this is a bit extreme, how you treat waiters at business or private dinners reflects not only politeness and upbringing, but also emotional intelligence.
Accusing and threatening the waiter blindly may slow down the serving speed.
A friend with high emotional intelligence will say, "Little girl, you are so beautiful and move so fast, you will definitely make our food serve faster." Thank you! "
Encouragement and praise are valid for anyone. At this time, you show others the ability to solve things easily.
You can consider the feelings of others, book a restaurant that is convenient for everyone, consider whether the food suits everyone's taste, and arrange comfortable seats. ...
A etiquette teacher once said that her mother had taught her that when she invited people to dinner, she should carefully cooperate with the guests' eating speed, and she should not put down the chopsticks before the guests enjoyed themselves.
Because once the host stops eating chopsticks, the guests are embarrassed to continue eating.
Table manners, the sooner you know, the better
The word "personality" when eating not only embodies politeness and upbringing, but also embodies emotional intelligence.
Being able to get together for dinner is mostly for feelings, whether it's affection, friendship or love, or purely for career. As long as you want to connect with your feelings better, you must show good manners and character at the dinner table.
If you want to gain a good interpersonal circle, you need to do these things well at the dinner table:
About seats:
When dining with others, avoid competing for seats and be polite and humble; When sitting, slow down, handle with care, and remember not to drag and make noise; If you have acquaintances around you, you should take the initiative to say hello. If you are surrounded by strangers, you should also nod and smile to avoid embarrassment. You can only sit down if the other person agrees.
About ordering:
When ordering food before eating, we should distinguish between the attributes of the table and the host and guest; If it is a family dinner, it is recommended to choose economical dishes, business meals should choose dishes that customers like, and friends should order dishes that everyone likes; If it's a treat, the guest will order first, and only after others decide that it's up to you to decide the dishes can you order, and ask the guest about his hobbies, taboos, allergies and so on.
About politeness:
Politeness is very important when eating, and the order of moving chopsticks is different with different status. Remember to sit in the table, move chopsticks and grab food.
When picking vegetables, don't put the tableware in the bowl, flip the food at will, and don't talk until the food in your mouth is finished;
If you want to recommend dishes, just suggest them. Don't use chopsticks to pick up dishes for others and force others to eat.
Toast pays attention to the etiquette of respect and inferiority, remember to toast casually, forcibly persuade and compete for wine;
During the meal, if something unexpected happens, you should answer the phone or take care of others, and apologize before leaving the table. Don't talk loudly, answer the phone or deal with irrelevant affairs at the dinner table.
Be considerate and considerate to the person you dine with, and be polite and gentle to the waiter. Remember to be strict and harsh.
These table manners can make you a more popular person and help you see a person's personality clearly. Remember, it is polite to eat with others, but the most important thing is that they are relaxed, comfortable, happy and happy to talk.
I hope you can be a gentle and polite person, everyone loves you, and have a good table personality, which will bring you good luck.