In relationships, sometimes you will encounter a scumbag if you are not careful. The term "scumbag" on the Internet refers to men who feel good about themselves, are extremely selfish, are good at asking for things, are irresponsible, and enjoy playing with other people's emotions. After meeting a scumbag, girls are often the victim group and may be cheated of money and sex in relationships. So how do we tell whether a boy is a jerk? If he does not have the following characteristics, it means he is not a scumbag!

First: too perfect. When a scumbag is looking for a partner, he will be prepared early, and once the opportunity is ripe, he will launch a fierce offensive. In the process of chasing you, I will show you all my tenderness, making you feel unreal but unable to refuse. So in this case, it won't take long for a girl to date him. In the process of dating, I also pampered you in every possible way and stayed with you every day. Finally let nature take its course and open a room. At this time, girls are getting deeper and deeper, but boys will become more and more indifferent. They will no longer take the initiative to find you every day, and they will no longer have the enthusiasm at that time.

The second point: Be reluctant to give. If a boy is unwilling to spend money while chasing you, then you should reject him. Some boys rely on sweet words to impress girls when chasing girls, saying that they will take good care of you. Accompanying you every day, traveling with you, eating delicious food with you... So you were moved and chose to be with him. After dating, you found that everything he said was just to coax you. You two were each other every day. They are all together, but they have to argue about who eats more and who spends money every time, and have conflicts over countless little things. This is the boyfriend you choose.

The third point: deceive you. Some boys don't know how to play with their mobile phones when they are with their girlfriends. You will think that he is with you wholeheartedly, but in fact he has turned on mute, otherwise it will be a bombardment of messages. Some boys will deliberately avoid playing with their mobile phones. If you drive a girl and block her with your body, he may have a lot of spare tires at this time, but you are just the one he favors today. If there is no basic trust between lovers, how can they go far?

So girls must not be fooled by boys' sweet words in love, nor should they get back together just because a boy humbles himself and begs for forgiveness after making a mistake. The first time will lead to countless others. Girls must protect themselves.