lead: distance can produce beauty, and it can also make two people who love each other drift away.

The following story is about Ms. Shen's love experience-

Xia Jun and I met at the university association.

that afternoon, after the president of the association had finished speaking, Xia took the initiative to come to me, introducing himself and shaking hands with me.

I can see from his burning eyes that he is interested in me.

Sure enough, the day after we met, he launched a crazy pursuit offensive against me. Every day, besides sending flowers, he also bought me snacks and accompanied me to study at night.

Although my heart was a little sweet, I was not moved. I thought he was a little fat and never agreed to be his girlfriend.

Undaunted, Xia Jun started running to lose weight every day from September 16th of that year.

A fat man who is only 172cm tall and weighs 8kg has been reduced to 65kg in one month! Fully reached the standard figure, and the face value has also improved a lot.

I saw his change, and I felt that he was a man with perseverance, so one night after we met for three months, we got together.

Xia Jun raised his hands and swore to me that he would be kind to me all his life.

I just smiled, and said to myself: Maybe he just took part in accidental amusement. Maybe after graduating from college, we went our separate ways. Who will remember the vows of eternal love? Many couples in the university can finally get together, and how many couples are there in the end?

In order to stay with me every day, Xia Jun rented a small suite with two rooms and one living room outside the school the next morning.

I'm not used to the school's clear soup and scanty water, and I don't have Chili food, so I'm happy to live with Xia Jun in our little nest.

Although Xia Jun is an only child, he has not developed a spoiled temperament.

In the rented room, he cooked me delicious food from my hometown three times a day. If I didn't control it well, I would go running with him every day. During that time, I would be fattened by him at least ten pounds.

I have to say that Xia Jun has good conditions in all aspects: not bad looks, good academic performance, frequent scholarships, and superior family conditions.

I heard from him that his parents have opened several supermarket chains in the county, and the pocket money they give him every month is at least a W ..

most importantly, he is a good cook, which suits my appetite.

when our classmates heard this news, they all laughed at me for finding a versatile rich second generation, so that I can make good use of it, and I will be able to marry into his family after graduation in the future, and I won't have to go around looking for a job anymore.

I was thinking that although our two families are not in the same city, they both belong to the same city management, and it's only an hour's drive away, so it's convenient to go back to either home.

it's also a good choice if we can walk together in the future.

However, one of Xia Jun's bad habits made me sleepy again.

His bad habit is to gamble and buy lottery tickets, whether it is lottery or two-color ball, he buys them almost every day.

every time I buy it, it is hundreds, sometimes even thousands. If it weren't for the fact that there are several supermarkets at home, his investment would definitely increase the burden on the family, and sooner or later he would lose all his money. Although he occasionally wins prizes, the one that wins the most is only over 2, yuan.

the money is not enough for him to fill the hole! To this end, I often advise him not to think about getting rich overnight. As a student, it is better to study hard. Even if you want to buy, buy a little less. Don't just buy hundreds of things.

After all, the money earned by parents is also hard-earned money, and every penny is hard to come by.

Xia Jun thought my analysis was reasonable, so he reduced his investment in lottery tickets.

I thought he would save the money in his bank card, but he took it to gamble.

Of course, he did this kind of thing behind my back, and I accidentally saw the details of income and expenditure in his mobile phone, and then I asked again and again before I knew the truth.

at that time, I hated his dog for not eating shit, so I moved back to school from the rental house in a rage.

Xia Jun realized that she was wrong. She sent me WeChat again and again, but stopped talking when she called. She also ran downstairs to my dormitory with a tweeter and shouted at me, "Shen Meng, I was wrong. Please give me another chance! I promise I will never gamble on football again, and I will never be angry with you again! Please forgive me! " After hearing this, the sisters in the dormitory advised me to forgive Xia Jun and get back together with him.

Zhang Fang in the dormitory next door smiled and said to me, "Shen Meng, if you don't forgive Xia Jun, I will go after him from tomorrow.

you have to believe that with my strength, I will definitely win him in three days.

"

" Ok, if you have the ability, then you can go after him.

I'd like to see if he will go with you.

"In the face of Zhang Fang's provocation, I was still a little angry, so that night, I ignored Xia Jun.

Xia Jun thought I was still angry with him, so he knelt down in the downstairs of our dormitory from ten o'clock that night.

at that time, the whole girls' building began to talk about it.

Some people feel unworthy of Xia Jun, and some people say, "What's so great about Shen Meng? What makes her let Xia Jun be so heartfelt to her? "? Others said, "Xia Jun, stay with me. I'm no worse than Shen Meng.".

after hearing these rumors, Xia Jun not only did not waver, but continued to kneel in the cold wind.

I clearly remember that the night was December 28th, and the cold wind was biting, so my aunt in the dormitory couldn't stand it any longer, so she told Xia Jun to go back to the dormitory to sleep at once.

But Xia Jun shouted at me firmly, "Shen Meng, if you don't forgive me, I won't get up on my knees tonight!" From this point of view, Xia Jun is a stubborn person.

I think this kind of person is the easiest to do something drastic, so I was very hesitant at that time, whether to give him a clean break or forgive him.

Later, at 11: 4 that night, I gave him a call. "I forgive you this time, but it's very late tonight, so I won't go back with you.

come downstairs to the dormitory at five o'clock tomorrow afternoon and help me with my things.

"

" Yes, my Queen! " Xia Jun answered the phone, happy as a child, skipping back to the dormitory.

Although I had some misgivings, I kept my promise. After class the next afternoon, I took my daily necessities and followed Xia Jun back to the rental house.

Since then, he has changed a lot. He not only devoted himself to his studies, but also planned our future from time to time.

time flies.

In a blink of an eye, three years have passed, and Xia Jun, a senior, has graduated.

Before leaving school, he bought me a ring and solemnly proposed to me.

I was afraid of affecting my studies, so I didn't dare to promise at that time. I just told him, "Go back to your hometown and work hard for a year, and then consider getting married when I graduate and go home.

"

" Good! " After Xia Jun returned to their county seat, he began to try hard to take the civil service exam. Unexpectedly, he only took the exam twice, and he was admitted to the comprehensive administrative post of a big town in their county seat.

His parents wanted him to take over the supermarket chain at home and told him not to go to work in the town, but he had a soft spot for civil servants, so he went to work in the town regardless of his family's opposition.

Of course, before I went to work, he asked me. When he heard that I would also take the civil service exam after I came back, he strengthened his mind.

On the day when he went to work in the town, I also began to prepare my thesis defense.

Fortunately, in June of my senior year, I successfully passed my thesis defense and got my degree certificate.

after I returned to my hometown, I couldn't wait to find Xia Jun and live in his place for a few days.

However, because the environment there was not very good, I was not used to it, so I went back to the city a few days later.

Of course, there is another important reason for going back to the city. My mother said that she found me a secretarial job in a private enterprise with a monthly salary of more than 5, yuan, excluding insurance.

Let me see. Anyway, there was nothing to do during that time, so I could take the exam while doing it, so I went there to work.

In this way, Xia Jun and I are separated by a Qian Shan.

In order to get bored with me every night, Xia Jun rented a house with two bedrooms and one living room in the suburbs. At first, he drove to the city every day.

The next morning, at about six o'clock, he got up in a hurry and drove for more than two hours to go back to work in their town.

Maybe it's because he runs every day. He is tired of running himself, so two months later, he came up to accompany me on Wednesday and Friday afternoons instead.

In the meantime, he told me several times not to go to work. He said that his salary, including the pocket money given to him at home, could fully support me.

I want to be financially free, and I don't want to live a life of looking at men's faces, so I insist on going to work.

I also advise Xia Jun to make another effort to transfer to work in the city. Or continue the public examination and take an examination of a civil servant in the city.

Xia Jun said, how easy is it to transfer? Or just do it while taking an examination of the civil servants in the city, and strive to meet you in the city as soon as possible.

Xia Jun took me to meet his parents in order to prevent someone from taking advantage of this. Of course, I also took him to meet my parents to show my sincerity.

since both sides had no complaints, we decided to collect the certificate on Valentine's Day on February 14th, 223.

Since Xia Jun has bought her wedding ring and the two families had an engagement party together, I am naturally his fiancee, and he has been promoted to my fiance.

Just when I was looking forward to a bright future with Xia Jun, on September 19th, 222, my new colleague Wang Hao suddenly came into my life.

Wang Hao is 28 years old, 18CM tall, neither thin nor fat, and looks very sunny.

young as he is, he has ten years of sales experience.

He said that he was eighteen years old. When he first went to college, he began to sell cars, mobile phones and even air conditioners. As long as he could make money and exercise his ability, he would try hard.

this enterprising spirit has made him all-powerful in the workplace, and our company hired him as a sales manager.

The first time Wang Hao saw me, he immediately asked me if I was free this evening. He wanted to invite me to dinner.

I smiled and refused: I am engaged, and I will get married soon. Don't think about me any more.

Undaunted, Wang Hao continued to say with a smile, "Shen Meng, as long as you haven't got a license to get married, I still have a chance.

"

Since then, Wang Hao has brought me either soybean milk fried dough sticks or bamboo shoots, steamed stuffed buns and yogurt every morning. I don't know where he learned about my hobbies. I have to say, he is quite thoughtful.

although I refused many times, this boy is a Xiaoqiang who can't be killed. He still buys me breakfast and then gives me three roses every day.

My colleagues in the office laughed at me for being very lucky, and even advised me: "Manager Wang is such an excellent person that he can't find a lantern after missing it. I think it's necessary for you to consider him.

""yes, aren't you officially married? There is still the right to choose! "

after listening to my colleagues' words, I was really shaken, so gradually, I began to accept the breakfast and flowers sent by Wang Hao.

Just at that time, Xia Jun was busy at work, and even on weekends, he rarely had time to come to see me.

Wang Hao took the opportunity to chase me down, either inviting me to dinner or going to the movies every night.

I don't live with my parents, so I must be bored alone at night, so I can't resist Wang Hao's "sugar-coated cannonball" attack, so I often date him and watch movies.

I thought to myself: At present, we are ordinary friends, and I didn't promise to be Wang Hao's girlfriend. Most importantly, I didn't do anything wrong to Xia Jun. I didn't cheat or betray Xia Jun, did I?

Although Wang Hao chased me hard, he didn't do anything out of line with me during our date and movie.

He wanted to hold my hand very much, but he was afraid that I would be embarrassed, so he didn't dare to take the initiative to hold my hand at all during that time.

in this way, the days passed day by day.

In a blink of an eye, I came to FIFA World Cup Qatar 222 in 222.

I don't know who lured Xia Jun, but he became addicted to gambling again and began to gamble crazily behind my back.

I never dreamed that his investment during this period has reached hundreds of thousands.

I didn't know he started gambling again if I hadn't accidentally seen his WeChat income and expenditure records.

I gave him a good scolding for this.

Xia Jun has a good temper. Not only did he not admit his mistake, it was 1 o'clock that night, but he continued to watch the ball in front of the TV. When he got up the next day, he continued to bet tens of thousands of yuan.

I saw that he was so stubborn, so I solemnly warned him, "If you go on like this, let's break up. I can't stand living with a gambler all my life.

"

Xia Jun saw that I was angry, and then he replied perfunctorily," Ok, Xiao Meng, I promise you, I won't block the ball.

"Why do you say he is perfunctory? Because three days later, when he came to see me in the market, I looked through his mobile phone again.

although I didn't see the transfer record from wechat, I found tens of thousands of transfer records from his AliPay! There is no doubt that he is still gambling! That night, I slammed the door decisively.

Just that night, something happened at Xia Jun's office, and he was called back by a phone call. Naturally, he didn't come to see me.

At this time, Wang Hao came to my side again, patiently comforting and enlightening me.

I drank a few glasses of wine that night, and my brain was hot. Suddenly I felt that Wang Hao was the one who cared about me the most and understood me the most, so naturally, I moved into a hotel with him.

Wang Hao's infinite warmth made me feel further disgusted with Garu.

So the next morning, I decisively sent Xia Jun a WeChat and called, which meant that I would break up with him solemnly. I packed my clothes, left my engagement ring and moved out of the rental house that day.

Of course, Xia Jun wouldn't do it. Only then did he vaguely realize that something was wrong, so he came to our company to talk to me about it without going to work that day.

Wang Hao saw that he was bossing me around and accusing me loudly, so he simply ran to him and laid his cards on the table. "Shen Meng is my girlfriend now, Xia Jun, since she has broken up with you, please stop pestering her!"

"I see, you are the third party, right? How dare you say that I am pestering her? You shameless, I won't kill you! " Xia Jun was so angry that he gave Wang Hao two fists when he raised his hand.

Wang Hao had a nosebleed, but he was very rational. He never fought back and called the police in time.

I stamped my feet with anger. "Xia Jun, you have come to this stage because of yourself, and everything is your fault! Who are you to blame others? You are too unreasonable! "

because our office was equipped with monitoring, the police quickly came to collect the monitoring at the time of the incident, and Xia Jun had a hard time arguing.