It’s the college entrance examination time of the year again, some people are happy and some are sad.

Some people say that their children failed the high school entrance examination and do not want to continue studying.

As a parent, do you want your children to experience the ups and downs of society at such an early age?

First of all, we need to know that the day a child is born, we know that the child will have to face society one day, and they will not stay with their parents all their lives. This is inevitable.

So for us parents, what kind of preparations have we made for this day that is bound to come?

You said, this is what children have to face, what should parents prepare for?

We say that people are the product of the environment, and what kind of environment will create what kind of person.

Children's living environment is provided by their parents, and they have almost no choice.

In my opinion, when a person enters the society, professional knowledge is only a small part.

I still remember the moment when I first came out of school, the cliff-like psychological gap, the inability to adapt, which almost made me depressed.

Intangible things such as whether a person has basic survival ability, self-care ability, ability to interact with others, learning ability, resilience, what kind of character, conduct, a person's mind, structure, thoughts, etc. should be more worthy of being recognized.

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How many top academics have fragile hearts and do unbelievable things.

Poisoning, killing roommates, even killing one's own parents, jumping off buildings, committing suicide and other social phenomena, I don't want to go into too much detail.

Where do these intangible things come from?

Just like Huawei, which was suppressed by the United States two years ago, it does not rely on imports. It actually started independent research and development projects a long time ago and emerged from the suppression.

When watching the interview, I remember Ren Zhengfei said something like this, which roughly means that scientists cannot be made by throwing money at them. It takes time, money, and energy to train them.

The cultivation of children also takes time and energy, not just food and clothing.

A good family atmosphere is nourishment, and healthy and loving relationships are the source of inner strength.

Regarding moral character, it has never been missing in our traditional culture.

Children and their parents get along day and night. Do we properly provide these nutrients in our daily lives?

Have you had a good chat with your children?

Have children been given the opportunity to exercise their self-care abilities?

Have you guided your children to gain more cultural influence?

Instead of letting your children watch TV and play mobile games?

There is a father next to me who wants to train his children to be hardworking and hard-working. On weekends, the couple takes their children hiking. The children and parents walk together, play all the way, and enjoy the scenery along the way. It feels very happy and does not feel bitter.

In turn, he asked the father: "Dad, why do you want me to feel the hardships you suffered when you were a child?" This made the father also feel a lot of emotion and reflection.

Children are not mechanical, they are the most spiritual, the most testing people, and can also bring us a lot of reflection.

Whether parents treat children attentively or not depends on their children's words and deeds.

After all, one day the child will grow up and face society.

You need to prepare far more than just a diploma.

On the contrary, if you have all abilities, you can still find your place in society without a diploma.

My traditional culture enlightenment teacher led a group of mothers to read traditional culture that I never thought I would come into contact with in my life.

He doesn't have any diploma, but he is very educated and impressive.

The couple runs a very good tea shop and do a business they love, which is enviable.

In Sunshine Forest, Teacher Che Peng and Commander Tang are not people who rely on diplomas to earn a living, but they live a very exciting life.

The world is always in trouble. If a child's heart does not grow, he will be frustrated whenever he faces it.

However, when we prepare a positive attitude, accept everything, do not complain, and are willing to learn from bad environments, the harsh conditions of the world will become nourishment for children to grow rapidly.

I believe that weeds that have experienced wind and rain outdoors are more vital and resilient than roses in the greenhouse.

Parents care about their children and should accompany them when they should spend time.

When it’s time to let go, you must be willing to let your children experience it.

In my hometown these days, my daughter is particularly fond of Sister Mengmeng, whom she has never met in Sister Zhou’s family.

When she was a teenager, her mother took her to the Philippines to develop her career. Later, when her mother came back, the little girl followed the team there alone.

Now he has become a very outstanding young man, and his life has become a source of pride for himself. He brings his own light wherever he goes, and he has also become a role model for my daughter.

Follow your heart and use the guise of your child to return to your family from the workplace when you are pregnant with your second child.

Because I know that it is impossible for me to take care of my so-called career and children, and I also want to live the life I really want.

Over the years, there is no so-called regret or loss, only a richer and more complete life experience.

I have always lived in a relatively balanced life.

Also because I realized that after having children, I am no longer an independent individual, and the family is a whole for me.

And this whole will affect each other over a long period of time, not just the present moment.

If our children do not live well in the future, we will not be happy and healthy in our later years.

Companionship does not mean being together all the time. Most of the time, I am doing my own things and don’t really care about my children.