Everyone has different pursuits and different ideas. Some people choose to rent a house, spend their money on a quality and enjoyable life, and have a good time. But I may be more traditional and think that a house is more important than the quality of life. I would rather eat steamed bread and instant noodles every day than save money to buy a house. After all, no matter how good the rented house is, it is not your own, and there is always the danger of being driven away. If you move out of your feelings, you will be reluctant.

in my mind, having a house of my own is a real home, and only then can I feel at home, and my heart will truly settle down and feel a sense of belonging. Many ordinary people around us have this idea, just like my sister, the couple scrimped and saved for the house, and the first days were really tight.

However, personally, there is no conflict between the quality of life and the house. We can pursue a good life when we are trying to save money to buy a house, all because of our personal mentality and family life management. My sister has to pay the mortgage and raise a child every day. The couple are really tired every day. But every day my sister can make all kinds of delicious food from simple ingredients. When we have a holiday, we can't go to the amusement park, and we will also take our children to ride and have a picnic. The couple also often go shopping and dating romantically. Warm little details can be seen everywhere at home, wild flowers collected by the roadside are placed in the vase on the dining table, and all kinds of gadgets made by DIY by yourself, etc. The family is also happy and full of flavor.

So, as long as you have a positive and optimistic attitude and enthusiasm for life, even if you need to save money to buy a house and pay off the mortgage, you can still have fun and enjoy your life.