We really have to struggle, but many people struggle all their lives and do nothing again and again. Chicken soup is delicious, but the reality is cruel. Therefore, we still do our best and leave it to fate, whether rich or poor, for life.
Once a person is poor, there are many things that he can't help. There is a folk saying that "poor people don't swear three times, and people who have no money don't have three feelings." Literally, when people are poor, there are three kinds of vows that cannot be made and three kinds of feelings that cannot be made. What are the three?
Poor people don't swear three vows.
Oath: An oath about a goal
We all need to have a goal, just like a lighthouse on the route, which guides our direction. There is no goal, we just go with the flow. Therefore, it is good to have a goal, but when people are poor, don't swear at the goal casually.
When people are down and out, they should combine themselves and set a goal that suits them. Their mouth is a small goal of 100 million. When the goal is too big, it will only add unnecessary pressure to yourself, which will make people very tired and lose their morale.
Two vows: an oath to break off friendship.
We can't be independent individuals on the road of life, especially the older we get, the more we need the help of our friends. When you are poor, you need the help of your friends more.
However, some people feel that they are poor and their friends will look down on them, so they cut off their relationship with friends. There will be such friends, but there will also be real friends. For such friends, don't break up easily.
Three vows: the oath about the curse.
When people encounter difficulties, there will naturally be some resentment in their hearts, cursing that they are worthless and cursing that their parents have no money. Such an oath will not have any effect, will not inspire people, and will only make people's three views more distorted.
Some people will clap their chests and say, "One day, I will do what I want, or I will do what I want." There is very little I can really do. Therefore, let's talk less about this meaningless oath and do things in a down-to-earth manner.
No money, no feelings
A kind of love: small kindness and small benefit
Many people like to take advantage of small things, while others don't care about those small things. Generally, friends are the ones who can make people take advantage of small things. Sometimes they are very kind and don't want to care, but if this goes on, no one will get along with you.
You can't do this even if you have no money. Take some bags of rice from others today and some bags of salt from others tomorrow. In the long run, you will lose more than just friends. If people have no money, they have no money. Poor people can't move, and they often take advantage of small things, which makes people look down on them.
Two kinds of feelings: friendship that depends on others to maintain life
This situation often happens in marriage, because it is husband and wife, many people don't care, and it is normal for women to rely on men. However, when men have money, this is naturally no problem, but when they have no money?
If men have no money, women will continue to live on men, and they will not make money together. Women will be in a passive position and men will feel very tired. If this goes on, contradictions between marriages will naturally exist.
Three emotions: wine and meat friendship
A fair-weather friend is not a real friend. It is ok to eat and drink together when you have money, but you are often dragged to eat and drink when you have no money. If you refuse, they will say, "Don't you treat us as brothers?"
When you have no money to maintain this wine-meat friendship, it disappears. Therefore, when people have no money, they stay away from those fair-weather friends and fair-weather friends.
In this era, it is really difficult to have no money, but after hard work, I believe that even if it is not very successful, it will not be bleak.
When you have nothing, keep your mouth shut, keep your heart steady, take your legs, do it bravely, and don't feel sorry for yourself. One day you will gain something.