1, from a health point of view
Persimmon is a common fruit, which is very delicious whether it is simple or soft. Eating two persimmons occasionally can also reduce fire. However, persimmon contains a lot of tannic acid. If it is mixed with alcohol, it will form a solidified object, which is difficult for human body to digest. Boys have more dinner parties, so men are afraid of persimmons. Pears have the same saying. Pears can moisten the intestines and have many benefits for the body. However, pears are cold fruits and are not suitable for girls to eat too much, so people say that women are afraid of pears.
2. Understand from the perspective of homophonic.
From the homophonic point of view, persimmon refers to four characters, and the four characters here refer to eating, drinking, whoring and gambling, which is very serious for men. Once the boys at home are infected with these four words, basically their family will be destroyed. There are many such examples from ancient times to the present. In order to discourage male friends, people have left a saying that men are afraid of four words. The homonym of pear is separation, and what girls are most afraid of is separation and divorce. Whether it is the former or the latter, it has a great blow to girls. From the homophonic point of view, it is also reasonable for women to be afraid of leaving.
3. Another way of saying it
In addition to health and homophonic, there is another version of this sentence. Persimmons will become soft when they are ripe. Many people like to knead soft persimmons. This sentence is to remind men not to be soft persimmons that are kneaded by others. Pear, on the other hand, is homophonic, which actually refers to the melody. In ancient times, it meant laughing and being indecent. People want women to be dignified and elegant, so women are afraid of love.