I failed to exercise my son's housework. As a child, he was also interested in housework. Shopping, taking out the garbage, sweeping the floor, washing dishes, cutting vegetables, washing clothes, collecting clothes and folding clothes have all been experienced, and some of them are not even exclusive.
However, I lack patience with him. Seeing that he washed the dishes slowly and uncleanly, I quickly said that I would do it. Look at him mopping the floor like a show. Some places are clean, others are not. Just say I'll do it.
In this way, the son is virtually deprived of the right to learn to do housework. My son hardly does housework now. He would rather read than do housework.
I met a parent who successfully educated his children-my friend is an old wine. He wrote an article "Make sure children do housework", in which he talked about consciously training his daughter to do housework, but his mother thought it unnecessary to let children do housework, just study hard and help her daughter do housework secretly.
Later, through his mother's ideological work, his daughter insisted on doing housework. Since Bauer was born at home, his daughter has brought him here, which is better than him. This family is happy and enviable.
My friend is an old wine and is very concerned about her daughter's education. She has always set an example for her daughter. His daughter is excellent, which is inseparable from his hard education.
What is there to learn about doing housework? What is there to learn? This is one of the differences between Japanese child education and China child education. The Japanese believe that training children to do housework is not only to let them exercise their hands-on ability and cultivate their sense of autonomy, but also to build a bridge of communication between children and parents, so that children can better understand their parents' hard work and cultivate their pride in their work.
According to CCTV, a Japanese mother named Qian Hui developed breast cancer before she got married. After treatment, the condition is stable, but it is uncertain whether it will recur.
After getting married, I risked my life to give birth to my daughter. My daughter is four years old. Qian Hui is seriously ill. She decided to teach her daughter to do housework.
In this way, the 4-year-old daughter Ahua was forced by her mother to learn to do housework and cut vegetables. Qian Hui believes that even if her daughter doesn't study well, she can take care of herself and live a good life.
After Qian Hui died, Ahua got up at 5 o'clock every morning, made miso soup, played the piano, and then went to school to study. After school, continue to do housework and cook. Later, the story of this family was made into a movie "A Hua's miso soup", which touched countless people.
This story tells us that children have the potential to do housework, but their growth is often weakened by their parents. Every time parents do it for them, children will lose part of their growth ability.
I have a friend who was at home last Spring Festival. He looks at photos of his high school son cooking in his circle of friends every day. The dishes are not repeated every day, and my son's grades are good.
Nowadays, many children have a heavy burden of study, but some children still insist on doing some housework. For parents, it is a small happiness to have a child who is willing to help parents share housework.
I should have this consciousness, too. In addition to daily study, I intend to take my son to try various simple jobs in life. This kind of experience can train my son to become a self-reliant person, and I believe he will benefit for life.
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