1. First of all, consider the guests according to the content of the happy event of the project. Generally, Hakka people determine the target based on blood relations, relatives by marriage, mentors, friends, friends, and neighbors. The list is written on a piece of red paper called "Quan Tie" (invitation). The first person sits in the chief seat. In addition, there are invitations for each person or a family (family). In the past, if you were getting married, the post would have to be long or half folded to express the five blessings.

2. The invitation must be carefully written, and the person invited must be appropriately addressed in terms of seniority and superiority. Cambodian language is particularly etiquette and the text must be concise and elegant, with clear content and clear distinction between guest and principal. For example, "gengzuo" is written on the wedding post, "xizuo" is written on the marriage, "qizuo" is written on the married daughter, and "shouzuo", "peach juice" and "meizuo" are written on birthdays. For his father's birthday, he said "Xuangu Jindan"; for his mother's birthday, he said "set_good time". For example, washing children in the three dynasties is called "soup cake", and testing babies at one year old is called "_ (sound year) plate period". Please ask the male elders to write "Dejia"; the younger generation to write "Taijia"; the younger generation to write "Wenjia" or "Taijia". Ask the female generation to write "Yijia" or "Cijia"; the ordinary generation to write "Shujia", "Luanjia", and "Caijia".

3. Send invitations: The invitations will be sent personally and specially by the host’s relatives. The person who is ranked first and sits at the head of the table will be asked to sign "Respectfully accompany you and sit last" when seeing the post. For the other guests, those who are present can sign "Respectfully accompany you", and those who are not attending can sign "Respectfully thank you". When posting to treat guests, there is a saying that "three days are for invitations, two days are for calling, and one day is for mentioning." Therefore, it is important to invite guests early to show piety, and mention them again a few days later. On the day of the banquet, someone must rush or send people and vehicles to pick up the guests.

4. Attending a banquet: People attending the banquet generally need to bring gifts (cannot go empty-handed), no matter how big or small the gifts are. If conditions do not permit, three or five eggs are also acceptable to express friendship. It is best to send gifts at the right time. Giving them too early will be disrespectful, and sending them late will inevitably make the host unhappy. If it is written that no courtesy is required, then the host's wishes will apply. Red gifts used to be sealed and labeled in the old days, but they are rarely used now. When handling gifts, if they are returned, write "Thank you for the great ceremony".