Don't say the conversation you heard in one occasion in another, and don't act as if you know it.
When asking for help from others, you should not only say thank you, but also know your discretion. The relationship between people is far and near, so you can't borrow1800,000 from people you have met several times. Every time you ask someone for help, you owe me one. Even if others just lift a finger, you can't show what you think is' lift a finger'. Others may just say modesty, but you are arrogant and stupid.
When entertaining guests at home, you should dress neatly. Many people take it for granted that they are casual in their own homes, but at this time your home has become a social occasion, not just your home. Of course, if you feel as naked as Liu Ling in Wei and Jin Dynasties, I don't know what to say.
When people you know join social occasions, you must introduce people around you to each other. When introducing, introduce the junior to the senior, and introduce the male to the female. When you meet or call someone you don't know very well, you must introduce yourself. When introducing yourself in social situations, please say' My name is XX'. Not' I am XX'. Let's take a closer look.
Don't praise the leader to his face, it is suspected of flattery.
Don't joke about other people's weaknesses, even if they are ignored, they are out of place. For example, if someone in the seat is fat, it is impolite for you to talk about your weight loss methods.
7. Don't make statements of motive speculation and value judgment. Few people can do this unless they are really cultured.
8. Don't be late. No time is not the reason, everything is just a matter of priority. Many times you just don't think well and don't want to play in advance. Don't arrive early when visiting other people's homes, remember to bring gifts.
9. Please invite others at least one day in advance. Who wants to be a restaurant worker on call?
10 When eating, don't slurp, don't talk with food in your mouth, don't use your own tableware to help others with food or scoop soup, and don't help others with food in their bowls.
Avoid others when coughing or sneezing. I usually cover it with my arms to prevent it from splashing on others.
12 express gratitude and courtesy to those who provide services for themselves.
13 keep in touch with friends from time to time. Don't wait until someone needs help, otherwise it will be really obvious.
14 You must get permission to enter other people's private fields.
15. Commitment is not a small commitment, so I will live up to it; If you don't trust me, your old friend will fail me.
16. Don't point fingers.
17. Don't take other people's things as your own, let alone others as yourself.
18. Pay attention to your appearance and manners