At the age of 26, although we are constantly discussing and thinking about what success is and how I can succeed, we have to admit that at the age of 26, it is still difficult for us to be what we want. We will even get more and more confused on the road of growth, and occasionally forget the way we came and the place we want to reach.
Instead of being anxious and covered with dark clouds all day, it is better to sort out your state and mood with a calm heart and start better. As Mr. Lin Qingxuan said, constantly surpassing the original self is success.
At the age of 26, if you want to be a better yourself, you must understand three truths.
1. No matter what happened before, read as much as possible in the future.
"In your current temperament, there are hidden roads you have traveled, books you have read and people you have loved."
People who read books are better at listening. Books will train our ears, teach us humility, and know how knowledgeable people in the world are, and absorption is growth. We will be more willing to think, books can broaden our horizons, expand the original slender mind, and understand that there are positive and negative world situations, and wishful thinking is just an illusion. We will be more brave in making decisions and know that everything has its gain and loss. People who like reading are more confident. Books let us clearly distinguish our own strengths and weaknesses, and we are neither arrogant nor inferior.
San Mao said:
I like Dong Qing very much. At the age of 46, she is so elegant and calm. Her every move is full of details and charm, and her beauty has no trace of time. It can be said that the country is very beautiful and there are poetry books in her belly, and she has all of them.
And all this can't be separated from her book-loving habits and hobbies. She said: "If I don't study for a few days, I will feel as uncomfortable as a person who doesn't take a shower for a few days."
"I always believe that all the books I have read will not be read in vain. It will always help me perform better in a certain occasion in the future. Reading can give people strength and it can give people happiness." She said this in a program.
Self-satisfied with poetry and books, if you want to change, start with reading!
2. Know some professional skin care knowledge, pay attention to it, and be professional.
After the age of 26, your body is no longer so young, and even begins to decline. You start to get tired easily, stay up late less, and your skin is not as full and elastic as before.
This is the normal development law of human body, which does not mean that we are not beautiful. Every age has its unique charm and charm. Step by step, we will fade away from childishness and mature, and we will be more calm and confident.
At the same time, we also need to pay more attention to our skin and physical condition.
You should try to learn some professional knowledge of skin care. The major here refers to the major with scientific basis. Don't blindly care for skin every time because of the "flicker" of merchants and unfounded skin care skills on the Internet. You should start with a deep understanding of your skin, and choose the most suitable skin care products by reading some professional books and consulting some professionals. Whenever, what suits you is the best.
Besides, exercise can change a person as much as plastic surgery.
36-year-old Chen Yihan, who insisted on running, lived a wonderful life than his twenties. He not only realized the reverse growth, but also realized the philosophy of "everything is only 8 kilometers".
3. Cultivate a tough heart
Before the age of 26, we may still be willful, lazy and clever. When we encounter difficulties, we can say that we are inexperienced. Except for the problem, we can say that we are inexperienced. After the age of 26, don't spoil ourselves.
Ask yourself what your goal is, and then leave all the time and space as much as possible for those important things. Your present life is the sum of all your previous choices, so what kind of life you want in the future depends on what efforts you have made today. For example, if you want to cook a "man-Han banquet" at noon, you have to go out early in the morning to buy all kinds of ingredients. If you get up late and are lazy, you may end up eating cucumbers.
Haruki Murakami, who has been eating with a pen for 35 years, gets up at 4 o'clock every day to write, without using an alarm clock. When it is time, he bounces out of bed and writes for five or six hours at a time, writing ten pages a day with 400 words per page. Don't write if you have more, and you won't stop if you have less. In order to develop their own good writing habits. This writing is decades, and it is precisely because of this persistence and tenacity that Haruki Murakami, who is famous in the literary world today, has achieved success.
Michael Jordan said, "I can accept failure, but I can't accept not trying."
Nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory, and it is inevitable that life will encounter difficulties. Keep a tough and persistent attitude and get closer to the goal bit by bit. I believe we can always reach the distance.
In Hemingway's True Nobleness, there is a sentence that I like very much: "Being superior to others is not noble, but true nobility should be superior to yourself in the past."