After 70 women, has run five. Time flies, from youth like flowers to beauty late curtain, your heart is a little lost? Straight sigh life is in a hurry, too hurry!
In fact, no matter how old, learn to love yourself. Throw away these five things, the rest of your life to let yourself live a little better.
One, dependence
At nearly 50 years old, the children have grown up and have their own affairs. You need to learn to let go and let the kids go out and find their own world.
Women learn to be independent in thought and money at this age.
Money independence, will let yourself live more at ease. Thought independence, will understand what they want.
Don't be a mother who can't live without her children, and don't rely on men to get by. Throw away the dependence, then you will live more freely.
Two, low self-esteem
At this age, women are often because of the age of the old, sad to the mirror. No longer slim figure, there are wrinkles in the face, will let you have low self-esteem, feel that their state is getting worse and worse, doubt that the husband is no longer love themselves.
In fact, to understand that everyone will have the day of old age. Learning to face and accept it with equanimity will make your mind a little more at peace.
To understand that women have their own different beauty at every age. Don't feel that you are getting old and ugly and become inferior.
Age is just a number, the appearance of aging is not terrible, the inner inferiority complex is terrible. To live with a positive and optimistic mindset, to lose the inferiority complex, and to grow old gracefully is also a kind of beauty.
Three, petty
People to middle age, to learn to be better for themselves. Don't be reluctant to part with your favorite things, eat better, wear better.
Have a good life with money, have a good life without money, happy is the most important.
At this age, we should learn to be open-minded. Don't be calculating about some things, don't be petty, don't complain, and know how to be tolerant and atmospheric.
When your heart becomes broader, more open-minded, many things will become much simpler and happier.
Four, aggrieved
People live a lifetime, we have to live happily and painfully.
No need to condescend to yourself for the sake of others, constantly giving in and condescending, and finally hurting yourself.
You are always thinking about others, but have they ever considered your feelings?
Women need to be more distressed, love themselves, throw away the people and things that make them feel aggrieved, and live more elegantly.
Five, stubborn
Live to almost half a hundred, life experience is quite a lot, some things to think more open.
Don't stick to your own stubbornness, for new things to learn to accept and change. The idea is to change the mind, the mentality will also be changed.
Don't cling to the wrong feelings. Don't be sad for the unworthy people, don't waste your years for the unworthy feelings.
The rest of your life is half over, learn to make yourself happy. Lose your stubbornness to get a new life.
The first half of a woman's life, whether it is good or bad, must learn to let go.
The further back in life you go, the more you have to learn to subtract. Drop the bad things, the load will be less and less, you will live more and more easily.
No matter how old she is, a woman must learn to love herself.
To go through the rest of your life with an optimistic and positive mindset, relaxed, calm, happy and open-minded.
May every woman treat herself well, live her own style, and always have her own spring inside.