1, the man's family should choose an elder with a certain status and go to the woman's house with the groom to discuss the engagement.

The man went to the woman's house to discuss the engagement. He can't go home empty-handed. He needs to bring some gifts to express his intention. It is recommended to prepare in advance.

The man must not be stingy with the bride price, and the gifts must be even and have a beautiful meaning in pairs. The content of betrothal gifts can refer to traditional gifts, or you can prepare them yourself, but there should not be too few things, usually 6 or 8 kinds, and the grade of gifts should not be too low. Bridal gifts can be prepared according to their own conditions, mainly as gifts. If the conditions are really limited, the mind can be in place.

After being approved by the woman, the man needs to find a suitable venue for the engagement party. In the process of choosing, he needs to be recognized and recognized by the woman's family. Although the man is responsible for the reservation, the grade, environment and regional location should also be recognized by the woman, which is also convenient for entertaining relatives and friends of both sides.

5. When choosing the venue of the engagement party, we should choose the appropriate space according to the number of relatives and friends of both parties, and choose the reasonable transportation location according to the route of both families. Then, both parties * * * choose a suitable auspicious day, and check whether the invitation menu of the engagement party is appropriate. Only when both parties are satisfied can we determine the banquet venue for the engagement.

6. When engaged, the man needs to prepare three gold items for the woman, generally referring to gold rings, necklaces and bracelets. It can be bought by the man himself or provided to the woman for her to choose her favorite style.

7. When engaged, the clothes of the couple are also very important. It is not enough to dress casually. Generally, men can prepare a suit, and women can choose some simple little dresses without exaggeration. After all, it's just an engagement, not a formal wedding reception. You can choose some neat or short dresses, which are convenient for walking and entertaining guests and look more formal.

8. When you are engaged, you should not be careless in entertaining guests. If you want to have enough cigarettes, red wine, white wine and drinks, you need to be fully prepared. The hotel layout also needs a little decoration. Although it's not a formal wedding, it doesn't need to be decorated too comprehensively. It needs a little festive atmosphere. Wedding photos and some decorations can be used to decorate the atmosphere of engagement. Of course, engagement also needs to be distinguished by the main table. Basically, they are the immediate family members and elders of the newlyweds.

9. Although the engagement is not a formal wedding banquet, it should not be sloppy at the banquet. The booking level should not be too low. It's best to try the taste of the dishes in advance to ensure that the quality and quantity are correct. Then, it is necessary to confirm the use of hotel facilities in advance, whether there are free parking spaces, how much service fees, and whether disposable tableware is charged, so as to avoid extra invisible consumption and ensure the perfect quality of our banquet.