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The mother of the child said that both of them are policemen, and they often take advantage of some opportunities to educate their children in law and enhance their sense of responsibility! However, around us, many parents do things differently, thinking that children have nothing to do with the word "responsibility". No matter what mistake he made, it seems that a sentence "he is still a child" can be excused.
In fact, although children are young, they should learn to take responsibility. Last weekend's voice discussion, I talked to you about this topic, and users left messages enthusiastically. Take a look with me today. What do you think of this matter? What responsibilities should minors learn to take?
Parents are policemen, and the son's birthday cake says ...
14-year-old boy's birthday cake became popular online only because. ...
Recently, the official Weibo of Maanshan Public Security Bureau "@ Maanshan Public Security Online" published a Weibo "A policeman's child celebrated14th birthday", and the blog post was accompanied by a picture of a specially customized birthday cake. Once this Weibo was issued, netizens praised it in succession.
The photographer of the photo is Yan, a policewoman in Maanshan City, Anhui Province. She said that her children usually like to read some law books. In the past, when she took the public security law enforcement qualification examination, her son would accompany her to read books, sometimes even more seriously than herself. Police officer Yan said that since both husband and wife are policemen, she may pay more attention to her son's communication and often carry out relevant legal education in terms of legal education.
It is understood that the son of police officer Yan is a junior high school student. Before his 14 birthday, his parents had an exchange with him, telling him that 14 is old and has certain recognition and control ability, and he will bear certain criminal responsibility according to relevant laws and regulations.
The cake of "Internet celebrities" evokes similar memories of netizens.
This "network celebrity" cake triggered
Some netizens have the same memories.
As it turns out,
The police's propaganda of popularizing the law starts with their own children!
Criminal law or something,
It's a children's book ...
In fact, in addition to legal responsibilities, children also need to bear other responsibilities. In real life, many adults often say "he is still a child" when they see a child make a mistake, and forgive their mistakes in one sentence. If in the long run, children lack a sense of responsibility, but the consequences are very serious!
What will happen to an irresponsible child when he grows up?
If a child is spoiled from childhood and lacks the cultivation of sense of responsibility, what kind of person will he become when he grows up? According to media reports, 22-year-old Harbin guy Chen Yu (pseudonym) 18 went abroad to study, and lost 2 million yuan in two years, but he didn't even graduate from the preparatory course; After returning to China, I will go to colleges and universities to study. Give up school and go home two months later; With games, the only communication left is asking for money from family.
It is reported that because of the divorce of her parents, Chen Yu has lived with her grandmother since childhood and has been in a pampered environment. After studying abroad, I will only stay in my room and play computer games. At the age of 22, I have to rely on my grandmother to support me, and I almost lost my ability to live. Of course, this news report is an extreme case, but if a child has not been taught to be responsible since childhood and has been in an extremely relaxed and pampered environment for a long time, then he is likely to grow into a so-called "giant baby". What will happen to an irresponsible child when he grows up?
egocentric
Bobo is a lively, intelligent and responsive child. But sometimes I can't control my behavior: I want to choose what I like when playing with building blocks, I want to be the first one in line, and I want others to listen to his instructions when playing games, otherwise he will rampage and make trouble when others play games, and children often accuse him.
Children like Bobo are irresponsible children. Lack of responsibility often makes children selfish and greedy. Self-centered children don't think about "should" and "shouldn't". They only consider what I want and don't want to consider other people's feelings.
Pass the buck.
This kind of children will do well in school. For example, if the task assigned by the teacher is not completed, they will shift the responsibility to others. For example, the teacher asked to bring something to school, and the child who forgot to bring it asked the reason and said, "Dad didn't prepare it for me, and Mom forgot to bring it to me", but I didn't think it was my responsibility.
Over time, when I grow up, it is natural to blame others, and I can't recognize and admit my own problems.
Lack of self-care ability
Children don't take the initiative to clean up their belongings, toys and school supplies are thrown everywhere, they yell or even cry when they can't find them, and they refuse to clean up the leftovers themselves.
When children grow up and their parents are not around, they often can't handle things by themselves, and their work and life are in a mess.
These responsibilities must be taught to children as early as possible.
Many parents like to say, "No matter how old you are, you will always be a child". It is this mentality that has produced many "Xiong Haizi", who destroy everywhere and reach for clothes to eat. In order to let children take the initiative and become the pillars of family and society in the future, the following six responsibilities must be taught to him!
Legal responsibility-law is the untouchable bottom line
Since the fall semester of 20 17, China has compiled special textbooks on rule of law education for primary schools and junior high schools, focusing on constitutional education and systematically strengthening rule of law education. Textbooks combine the provisions of the Constitution with common social affairs in life, guide students to understand and identify with the position and spirit of the Constitution from their experiences, truly identify with the rule of law from the heart, and establish a belief in the rule of law.
In addition to receiving legal education at school and returning home, parents can also take their children to increase their legal knowledge through some TV dramas and legal programs. Law is the basic principle of all our actions. Tell children what kind of legal responsibilities they should bear at what age, so that children can have a basic understanding of their actions and understand the law before they can abide by the law.
Family responsibilities-doing housework is essential.
Many primary schools take housework as a compulsory course and encourage children to help their parents do housework more. At the same time, organize everyone to clean the school health regularly and cultivate everyone's awareness of loving labor.
User @Cathy left a message saying: "* * * It is the responsibility of every family member to build a warm home, and children can't rule it out. The cultivation of a sense of responsibility cannot be ignored because of age. " Self-care ability is an important part of cultivating children to learn to take responsibility. Simple housework is no longer difficult. Let children clean up the dishes and chopsticks after meals, clean the room on weekends, and help their parents do simple housework at ordinary times, so that children can develop a good sense of service and labor, which will not only enable children to live without their parents in their later lives, but also cultivate their patience and serious attitude.
Learning responsibility-autonomous learning is king.
Recently, "doing homework with your baby" has become a hot topic for everyone. Accompanying the baby to do homework is often because the child's homework is not done well, and the parents are angry enough. Parents accompany their children for a long time, which seems to be responsible for their children, but the children who accompany them often lack the ability to think independently and easily form the habit of dependence.
In addition, parental supervision and accompanying study will also make children feel that learning is not their own business, but their parents' business. In learning, the sooner a child learns to be independent, the sooner he will benefit, so parents should learn to let go and let their children have a goal and plan for their own learning, which is more conducive to his growth.
Responsibility in life-learn to do your own thing.
Users @ Zhang Qiling and @ Faded Memory think: "Children should be allowed to do what they can. Children around the age of six should dress and brush their teeth themselves, and learn to pack up school supplies after finishing their homework. " Children will leave their parents one day and learn to grow up on their own. Tell children to do their own thing, learn to pack their schoolbags, learn to tie their hair and so on. With the growth of age, children should be taught to do what they can.
The responsibility of self-protection-know how to protect yourself
When children enter a "small society" like kindergartens and primary schools, they must learn to get along with others. When a child is bullied by others, we must first ask the ins and outs of the matter, help the child analyze it fairly and objectively, and tell the child how to protect himself if he encounters similar situations again.
Tell him not to bully others, especially those weaker than himself. If others bully you, you should protect yourself from harm. This is not to educate children to fight back, but to hope that children will become more calm and have the courage to deal with it.
Take responsibility-take the consequences for your actions.
You have to bear your own mistakes, such as playing football and breaking the neighbor's window. At this time, parents should not get in the way of their children in time, let them realize their mistakes, take the initiative to admit their mistakes to their neighbors and listen carefully to their teachings, so that next time he will pay attention, and similar problems will not happen easily.
User @ Jingjing Jingjing suggested: "Children should apologize for breaking other people's things. Parents can't afford money, but I want my children to write IOUs and help their parents do more housework to pay back the money. " This practice is more conducive to cultivating children's sense of responsibility and responsibility. Children should solve their own mistakes instead of relying on their parents.