First, men and women should learn to communicate more and express their thoughts: love is a very beautiful thing, and it is a happy experience for both men and women. However, with the passing of the short love period, a process of mutual understanding will follow, and many contradictions will arise at this time. Boys always hope to convince women by reasoning, but girls want their boyfriends to pay more affection and coax themselves. This is that two people learn to communicate. In daily life, two people communicate and understand each other's ideas, so that they can do the right thing quickly when they are angry. Communication is a key link for couples to get along with each other. If there is too little communication, it is doomed to conflict with each other.
Second, at ordinary times to understand each other's personality, to avoid conflicts:
When two people get along, they should pay attention to each other's thoughts and know what kind of personality they have, so that they can help each other in getting along. Boys, in particular, need to be familiar with girls' personalities, so that they can prescribe the right medicine when they are angry. Girls can show their personality to their boyfriends, let them know from the beginning, and never suppress their personality when they just get along, which will lead to misunderstanding, and boyfriends will think you are unreasonable and start to reason with you.
Third, read more books on love:
In fact, love also has a lot of experience, which requires us to study hard. Now there are many books about love, so you can study them in your spare time, which will increase the emotional intelligence of boys and avoid giving reasons to girls.