Good friends should be loyal to friendship and share weal and woe. When friends have difficulties in life, they should try their best to help each other; When a friend commits a crime, he should actively expose it, not cover it up. When a friend makes a mistake, he should give help in thought, work and life, and let him correct his mistake and move forward lightly.
The second is doubt.
If you know what you look like, you can know what you look like without doubting each other. The relationship between "knowledge" and "doubt" is dialectical. Mutual ignorance is the "cause" of suspicion, and mutual non-doubt is the "fruit" of knowing each other. Friendship can only develop if friends know each other, trust each other, talk to each other and know each other. In order to avoid suspicion, friends must be honest and loyal to each other. We should not hide or cover up the relevant matters from each other, otherwise it will lead to misunderstanding and unwarranted suspicion.
The third is arrogance.
Arrogant, arrogant, look down on friends, or treat friends unfairly, always pointing fingers. This is a self-righteous attitude, an idealistic metaphysical way of thinking and style, and an enemy of friendship. Mr. Lao She said, "Complacency is a terrible trap for us. We dug this trap ourselves." Between friends, if someone is complacent, they will get off the track of friendship and become a derailed meteor, destroying the intimate relationship between friends.
The fourth is distrust.
Making friends requires trust, just as people can't live without air and water. If you lose trust, you lose friendship, let alone friendship. Trust is mutual. You trust your friends, and friends naturally trust you. As the American philosopher Emerson said, "Only by trusting people can people be loyal to you. Treat people with courtesy, and people will be polite. " Trust each other, eliminate man-made obstacles and enhance mutual friendship. This is a true friend.
The fifth is touting.
It is unprincipled friendship to flatter each other without knowing the advantages and disadvantages. Because gold is not enough, no one is perfect. When friends have shortcomings and mistakes, they should criticize and correct each other instead of saying "good" or "yes" compliments. The ancients said: "Virtue and virtue are born together, negligence is related to rules, and fear of friends." Only by "mutual respect" and "mutual restraint" can friends show sincerity, learn from each other's strengths and make progress together.