Face-saving people will never win

There is a very reasonable saying to Taitai:

"A person feels inferior, and when he gets on the stage, he is timid, but he doesn't understand the truth. Practice makes perfect behind all calmness."

For example, people who have never driven a car will find it particularly difficult to drive. They should pay attention to their feet, their hands, the left and right car conditions, and occasionally respond to the passengers' words. It is too difficult to multitask.

But when you practice in a driving school for a few months, and then officially go on the road for a few years, you will feel that driving is a very simple matter, which is nothing more than daring and cautious. You will not deliberately think about the movements of your hands and feet. It has become an instinct to adjust your seat and mirror when you get on the bus, and you will become an old driver in others' mouths before you know it.

Similarly, the reason why people with low self-esteem are bold is that they have seen less of the world, and you can adapt to it if you see more and have more contact with cattle people.

It doesn't matter if you don't know how to use a knife and fork when you eat western food for the first time. You will do it the second time, and the embarrassment will disappear.

most people in life don't have any natural talents and innate high emotional intelligence, and following the tide is simply practice makes perfect. You are familiar with the rules in that circle, and you will naturally know what to do and what not to do. You've met many people, so it's natural to meet and say anything.

So people say that you have seen the world, that you are elegant, and that you have a high emotional intelligence and can talk.

what is the real world?

It's pretending to be a pig and eating a tiger, and it's upward humility, backwards compatibility. I have my preferences and opinions, and I respect your choices and comments. I'm afraid of nothing, I don't know how to pretend to understand, or I'm thin-skinned, afraid of failure, self-absorbed, and constantly blaming myself. Am I stupid, not as smart as others, and I can't do such a simple thing? This is definitely the wrong idea.

In fact, everyone is very busy, and others don't care too much about your embarrassment and embarrassment. Maybe you just smiled and passed, and you were the only one who couldn't extricate yourself.

Young people must exercise their passivity, improve their trial and error space, and make full use of existing resources to improve themselves to the maximum.

Remember:

Those who are afraid of losing will never win.