Because I used to say everything, now I can't even get into my circle of friends. What kind of friend can I be?
Others say that the only people who can still be friends after breaking up are those who don't love each other so much when they are in love, so they will become friends.
However, these ideas are actually subjective and even a little narrow. Because talking about phenomena without an object is hooliganism.
What do you mean?
To put it simply, it's easy to stand and talk. If you are experiencing such a relationship and facing the same question, I believe your answer will be different.
Because there is no such thing as empathy in this world, only self-knowledge of warmth and coldness.
So, I think, after breaking up, you can still be friends, that is, one person has put down his complete love, and one person has not put down his expectation for a better turn.
Because, when both of them let go, they simply become strangers; Both of them couldn't let go, so they got back together.
As long as it is true love, how can it be so easy to let go?
Even if one person is heartless, it is impossible for both of them to be like this.
There is always a person who will leave a souvenir, will be reluctant to part with the past love, and will have the illusion of being able to get back together.
Therefore, ta will propose to be friends, because being friends can keep in touch, will not be left out in the cold, and will not let the other person be taken away or fall in love with others.
And I can repair this relationship with my heart on the road of "being friends" in an attempt to get two people together again.
So, if you still can't let go, expect a turn for the better. We must strive to establish a relationship of "friends". Don't think the other person doesn't love you. What's the point of being friends?
After a long time, you will know what it means. Believe in the power of time.
Not reconciled after breaking up, I want to be friends and get back together. Obviously, it is possible, and there are countless examples of separation and integration around us.
Because many people think that if they are friends, they can chat with ta occasionally, so that their favorite emotions will not be released.
Although I sometimes question whether it is really necessary to do this, I still don't want to end it like this. I have worked hard in this relationship, just want to be friends and hope to be together again one day.
In fact, even if you choose to continue to be friends after breaking up, you still have to face many uncertainties. For example, I can't help crying for each other, being jealous and "worried" about each other. However, at this time, I am no longer a "boyfriend/girlfriend" role, but just an ordinary friend.
In other words, when you choose to remain friends, when you make this choice, you must also bear some "consequences" brought by this choice.
Therefore, it is good to break clean, and it is difficult to break clean if it is not clean.
All these situations are common. As for whether we can get back together in the end, no one can guarantee.
After all, there are no standard answers to emotional matters, only reference answers.
Mr. Jiang Yang once said: "The beautiful things in the world are not firm, the colorful clouds are easy to disperse and the glass is fragile." It means that beautiful things in the world are always fragile, just like colorful clouds in the sky, beautiful, but fleeting, like glass, beautiful, but easily broken, like our feelings, beautiful, but before a moment, may have passed away.
So when you have it, you must hold on to it. I hope everyone's feelings can start and end, and everything will be fine.