First of all, the benefits of having children
1. A good lifestyle during pregnancy makes Bao's mother more physically and mentally healthy. Before pregnancy, many treasure mothers often stay up late and like to eat all kinds of wasted food. The human body has always been in a sub-health state, but after pregnancy, in order to keep the fetus healthy, pregnant mothers will try their best to suppress their impulses and quit all bad habits, such as smoking, drinking, playing cards and wearing heavy makeup. Let the baby grow up physically and mentally healthily, pay attention to nutrition collocation, and daily life will become more and more green. If pregnant mothers develop good daily habits during pregnancy, they can persevere again after delivery, which is also a good thing for your precious mothers.
2. It can reasonably prevent various gynecological diseases. Youbao's mother found that women who had never given birth were older than those who had. This is because the termination of ovulation during pregnancy will freeze your age. It is worth mentioning that because of the change of growth hormone, the probability of women who have given birth to children suffering from gynecological diseases such as ovarian cancer, endometrial cancer and breast cancer is lower than that of women who have never given birth.
3. Delaying female menopause. A woman's body has a certain number of egg cells. If you leave the hospital, you will lose one. After thorough discharge, it will mean that your female menopause is coming soon. During pregnancy and lactation, the uterus and ovaries stop ovulation, so the arrival of menopause in pregnant women is relatively delayed.
4. Feel the sense of superiority that makes life a success. This should be a great benefit for every mother to pursue the perfect birth of her child. With the development of a life, step by step, he changed from a combination of sperm and eggs to a test-tube embryo, gradually growing and developing, landing, crying, listening to his mother for the first time, watching him walk alone for the first time, studying with his bag on his back for the first time, and understanding his heartache for the first time ... It seems that there is nothing happier than this.
Second, the disadvantages of having children.
1, various physical discomfort during pregnancy. Morning sickness, heartburn, low back pain, pudendal pain, edema of hands and feet, hemorrhoids, itching all over the body, poor sleep quality, and ever-changing mentality, anxiety, mania, depression … are always with you.
2. Life threats of pregnant women during childbirth. People who have never given birth will never feel the pain of choosing natural delivery and the pain of planned delivery. In China, the maternal mortality rate is 32/65438+ 10,000, and the risks of postpartum hemorrhage, amniotic fluid embolism and other diseases are also borne by pregnant mothers.
3, postpartum body recovery deformation. A circle of meat on the abdomen, ugly stretch marks, flabby chest, and even more fatal is the husband's disdainful eyes.
4. Production complexity. An obvious complication after giving birth is abnormal stool function. The pregnant mother said that she would pee when she smiled after giving birth. Pregnant women who give birth naturally continue to increase the risk of pelvic organ prolapse.
5, postpartum depression. Everyone wants to harm their children's paranoia; Mania that everyone wants to be scolded; In addition to the growth hormone problem, family behavior is the key influencing factor of depression in the next life when you feel sad, insecure and ruined. Originally, postpartum pregnant women are very sensitive and have to take care of their children. If their families can't do it, many treasure mothers live in ridicule and complaints, and there are also young and beautiful pre-pregnancy women.
6. You can't live for yourself anymore. Who knows who has children. It is indeed an outstanding and happy thing to create one's own next generation, but it is unnatural for a woman to have children. Why did she give up so much for you to have children? The Excellence of a female mother is not only for giving selfless love to her children in the future, but actually begins from the moment of pregnancy. So, please be kind to women.