However, after years of long marriage, is everything at home the same? Here is a sad reminder story, a woman who is married far away goes back to her parents' home for the New Year.
Li Jingyuan has been married to her husband's family for more than three years. In the past three years, she has been in her husband's family for the New Year, but Li Jing really misses her parents and wants to go back to her family for the New Year. Every year she calls her mother, who always says, live well and don't miss home. Jing Li thought his parents must be afraid of affecting their relationship with her husband's family, so he said so.
So this year, she will go back to her mother's house for the New Year anyway, and she has quarreled with her husband several times. Her husband always said that all married women spend the New Year at their in-laws' house. Jing Li called her husband a male chauvinist and said he didn't know his heart. This time, she still failed to convince her husband. In a rage, she took her children back to her parents' house, and her husband went to her husband's house for the New Year alone.
Holding the child's hand and the suitcase, I got off the train. I didn't see anyone pick me up. I thought it was only twenty minutes before I took a taxi. She thinks her parents must be very busy. At home, came to the front of the three-story building, Jing Li a surprise, the three-story building was built two years ago, she also out of the three hundred thousand? At that time, my mother said she had no money. She and her husband gave 300,000 yuan to their mother without saying anything. This is the first time.
When her parents greeted her, she shouted, Mom, where's my room? Put things in my room. Mother paused, her eyes flashed, and her father faltered: "You don't usually go home, so the first floor is the living room." Jing Li a surprised, slowed down, the original out of the three hundred thousand, it doesn't even have a place to put the bed?
Seeing that Jing Li's face was ugly, his mother said, "Generally, daughters don't go home for the New Year after marriage, so they are not prepared." Jing Li heart way, oneself clearly called excitedly a few days in advance, now is not ready? Sister-in-law also greeted her: "Mom, let Jingjing live on our third floor today, and I'll make a room."
My parents' faces lit up at once: "Hey, it's good to see your sister-in-law treat you well." Jing Li felt even worse, as if my sister-in-law had given her a room, but I obviously paid 300,000 yuan! When we entered the room, the family began to eat. The food is very simple. My mother said, tomorrow is the New Year's Eve dinner, and tomorrow's dishes will be ready later.
Jing Li looked down and said nothing. Suddenly, her mother came over and said, "Jingjing, you will help arrange the New Year's Eve dinner tomorrow. After dinner, your mother will still find a hotel for one night. Our married daughter here can't go home for the New Year. " I almost choked on a mouthful of rice, dumbfounded!
All the way home for the New Year, and now I am told that my married daughter can't go home for the New Year? What kind of hot face is cold? I thought they missed me, but I turned out to be romantic. My intestines are turning green with regret. I had a quarrel with my husband in order to go home for the Spring Festival. Now, I am so embarrassed!
Just don't know what to say, the son suddenly cried, and the father said angrily, "This boy will grab the meat from his sister's bowl as soon as he comes." The son cried and said, "It's not me, it's my sister who wants to clip the meat in my bowl." Father was even more angry and went out with a bang of chopsticks! Sister-in-law's face was not good either, so she took her daughter back to the third floor room.
Mother began to clean up the dishes and chopsticks: "Go out and find a hotel first, or I'm afraid there will be no room tomorrow night." I held my son in my arms. His tears were still wet, and he suddenly felt like an outsider. What's interesting about coming back for the Spring Festival? Just then, the phone rang. When I saw it, it was her husband's: "Jingjing, shall I go to see you by train now?" We still want a family of three to celebrate the New Year together. Go to your house. Go to your house. "
At this moment, my tears welled up: "Husband, I was wrong. I will go to your home by bus early tomorrow morning. My son misses his grandparents! " "After that, I took my children, pulled up my suitcase and walked out of my house. Find a hotel to stay tonight and go back to my husband's house for the New Year tomorrow morning! This maiden is already the home I can't go back to!
Linglong Message: The pain in a woman's heart after a long marriage is so deep! When you think family is your retreat, the door of family is not open for you. In fact, this is the worship of some patriarchal ideas, which is rare now. Jing Li's experience can be said to be a comparative case. After marriage, a woman should try to manage her own small family, her own family and her husband's family. Where is warm, where is home!
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