What does a marriage depend on?
In other words, what do couples who have not dissolved their marriage rely on? By love? Live in harmony
In my opinion, the reason why women in many families are not divorced is not that they are happy in marriage, but that they choose to make do. Why make do with it? If a family has no children, women can easily leave without scruple. However, children will stumble a mother's steps.
That's why many people say that when a woman gives birth, she stays steady and doesn't run ...
It is always said that unhappy marriage between husband and wife is more harmful to children, and it is better to divorce. That's the nonsense of onlookers, and it's also the ignorance of saying that others are stupid without suffering. Who is stupid?
What will women say when they divorce and don't have children these days? Heartless. Actually? Men cling to it and basically win the lawsuit. Women who have worked hard for this family for half their lives have no right to take away the children they desperately gave birth to. I know that many people on the Internet now say that women are divorced and divided into houses, but look at the divorced women around you, are they mostly leaving home clean?
What I have seen is basically a woman leaving home clean. The man threw the child to his grandmother and went out to get married. Leaving children is nothing more than knowing that this is a subsequent cause and a way to make women unhappy. It is said that men and women are equal. Do you see which one is not more beneficial to men?
If you say stupid, women are stupid! Men are really selfish and smart. (Refusing to argue)
Let's just say why girls nowadays are reluctant to get married if they have the conditions. In fact, it is clear to men!
It seems that many boys joked and said that they were willing to insert the door backwards and let their parents-in-law prepare the bride price for the house and car. I have seen many married people around me, many of whom are men's houses, young couples decorate their own houses, cars are dowry, and bride price is also spent in daily expenses subsidies. Right here, actually divorced. The house belongs to the man, isn't it? In fact, the woman wasted her youth. But then again, even if the woman prepares the house bride price and the man marries the car, is the man willing?
You said you didn't want to, did you? After all, it doesn't matter if you name your child after your mother. You don't want to be with your parents-in-law every day. Besides, you won't have children! It's still other women who are dying in the delivery room.
There are different opinions about the sky-high bride price on the Internet, but it has not caused any special feelings. After all, our Shandong bride price is very low, but it is only 350,000 yuan, which is also spent by the young couple after marriage.
Ancestors that is the custom of betrothal gift, not to protect the hostess, and you don't want to think about what era it is! Men are superior to women! That is the art of controlling people, the balance of human nature and the balance of marriage maintenance. You must be smart enough to upset this balance.
Now, it is out of balance ...
(This imbalance includes the unfortunate marriage caused by the mother-in-law's cheap daughter-in-law, the imbalance caused by the husband's failure to cherish, the breakup caused by the wife's grievance and collapse, and so on. You underestimate the wisdom of the ancients! )