For example: if you send a local product, it can be said that it is from your hometown. Give some to each other for a taste. There are not many things, and I didn't spend money. I didn't buy them for him alone. Please ask him to accept them. Generally speaking, the recipient's attitude of refusing gifts because of his hospitality is expected to ease, and he will accept your gift.

2. Undercrossing Chen Cang

For example, if you give the other person something like wine, you might as well avoid talking about the word "send". The hypothesis is that someone gives you two bottles of wine to have a drink with the other person and ask him to prepare some children's dishes. In this way, the relationship is closer and the gift is also given, and there is no leakage.

3, borrow a horse to lead the way

For example, sometimes you want to give a gift to someone, but the other person has nothing to do with you, so it is not good to send it directly. You might as well choose the birthday of the recipient or other festivals and invite several acquaintances to congratulate him. In this case, the recipient will not be able to refuse it, and when it is known afterwards that the idea was your idea, it will definitely change his opinion of you. With the help of everyone's strength, it is the best policy to achieve the day of gift-giving and love.

4. Grafting

For example: you have something to ask someone to help you, and you want to give some gifts to clear it up, but you are afraid of rejection and refute your face. Your lover and that person's object are very hot, so you use your wife's diplomacy to let your lover visit with gifts. As a result, it was successful in one fell swoop, the ceremony was accepted, and the matter was done, killing two birds with one stone. It seems that sometimes it is better to attack directly than to "save the country by curve".

5, the meaning of drunkenness

For example, you want to send some money and things to people with family difficulties. Sometimes, their self-esteem makes them easily refuse to accept help. If you send something, you might as well say: it's useless to leave it in my house. Take it and use it first, and then buy it later. If you send money, you can say that you take some flowers first and pay them back later. The recipient will think that you are not giving alms, and he will be willing to accept it, so that the purpose of your gift-giving will be achieved.

6. icing on the cake

For example, a student is indebted to his teacher and always wants to repay him, but he has no chance. One day, he happened to find that the calligraphy and painting embedded in the teacher's mahogany frame was actually a rubbings, which was not in harmony with the elegant furnishings in the room. As it happens, his uncle is a well-known calligrapher, and he has a gift of calligraphy and painting on hand. The students immediately brought the calligraphy and painting and put it in the picture frame. The teacher not only didn't object, but also loved it very much.

7. Playing hard to get

For example, it is said that a boy gave a gift to his girlfriend and was never rejected by the other party. In this regard, he revealed the secret: first, he deliberately borrowed something from his girlfriend, and then gave her a gift when he borrowed it, and said openly, "Thank you for your help. This is my heartfelt thanks." Whenever and wherever, he can successfully give gifts to his girlfriend.