Think about a question first: what preparations should I make before dating?
The most routine preparation is nothing more than three aspects: dressing appropriately, determining the date place and knowing what to do.
About dressing, it is nothing more than looking neat, so I won't go into details here. For those who don't know, please read my last article about the overall visual experience. Now, let's talk about the perfect dating process in detail.
First, there is a quiet place to chat.
A careful boy can always be welcomed by girls, so we should first consider the problem from the girl's point of view. We know that girls usually dress themselves up carefully, put on makeup and choose clean and suitable clothes before dating, so some places with too strong fireworks smell are not suitable for dating places, such as food streets, hot pot restaurants, food stalls and other places with strong fumes should be ruled out first.
Also, outdoor activities are not suitable for the first date, such as amusement parks, mountain climbing and ball games.
In this way, excluding the above situation, the most suitable dating place is nothing more than a quiet place, such as a quiet coffee shop, dessert shop and so on.
In this environment, you can chat quietly without too much pressure, which can establish the initial impression of both sides. You know, getting to know each other is a matter for two people, and any one-way understanding is abnormal.
Be confident before eating and watching movies, and feel each other's thoughts. If you have no feelings for each other, it is a good choice to stop loss in time, and there is no need to waste time catering to each other.
Also pay attention to the timing of this link, preferably at four or five o'clock in the afternoon when the weather is fine. Pay attention to drinking and chatting for as little as 40 minutes, and then prepare for the next link: eating.
Second: the choice of dinner should be simple and comfortable.
Most boys have a misunderstanding, that is, you must treat the woman to a big meal on the first date, and the more luxurious the better, otherwise you will feel guilty and seem insincere.
In fact, this is unnecessary. First date, maybe I didn't know much before. A very luxurious meal will not only cost you money, but also increase the pressure on the other party.
So the choice of dinner should be as simple as possible, which can make people feel relaxed and comfortable. For example, exquisite bakery, simple Japanese cuisine and even soup powder are all good choices.
You know, a girl won't choose to go out for dinner with you. On the contrary, she may find it troublesome to eat on the first date, and even don't want to eat. Choosing a simple dinner at this time is completely correct, and it will also make you spend more time and energy on communicating and getting to know each other.
Third: the necessary time to walk side by side.
The weather is often the most comfortable time after a meal. Then it is definitely a good choice to choose to go for a walk at this time. I believe that girls will also agree with your decision very much.
This link can be said to be essential. Think about it, how wonderful it is for two people to stand side by side and watch the clouds fall in Yun Qi. If you think the time is right and the atmosphere is here, it is natural to hold her hand and it will not appear abrupt. You can find more common topics at this stage and further deepen your relationship.
Walking itself is not interesting, but if you are interested in each other, it may be the best thing for you at this stage.
The above is a perfect first date process. I believe your careful preparation will definitely leave a good impression on girls.
A girl is willing to go out with you, which means that she is at least not disgusted with you, and even very fond of you. When dating, you should also have a sense of humor and learn to mobilize each other's emotions, which will deepen your feelings faster.