I've seen it too! It seems that the name is boiled cabbage, which I read in literary magazines such as Harvest. That wife cooks cabbage every day, uses different materials in different seasons, such as hairy crabs and Jinhua ham, and finally just sifts white soup. That mistress likes Haruki Murakami, and he can't even eat the rice cooked for that man. Yes, but I don't remember the ending.
I found it! This is Pan Lixiang's clear water cabbage! In the end, they didn't separate, but their wives stopped being housewives.