"Xu Jing, after six years of divorce from Michael Chen, how did you become like this?"

"I only hope that you will experience the mountains and rivers and feel that the world is worth it."

On September 20 14, Chen He and Xu Jing divorced, and it has been six years and six months in a blink of an eye.

14' s feelings finally came to an end in Michael Chen's "I was wrong" apology.

But when Michael Chen was criticized, Xu Jing stood up for Michael Chen for the first time:

"Fourteen years can make you know more about a person? I know that I have been wronged, I will persist, I know that I will let go of my heartache, and I still can't see his helplessness when he leaves. He is just a fragile child, but he is my family. Please don't attack him. "

Before that, Xu Jing's simple sentence, "I hope people will live for a long time, and Chanjuan is thousands of miles away", which makes people feel distressed.

After that, Xu Jing Weibo had only one trip left. She met the ice and snow, saw the sea and the sun, and her life suddenly changed direction.

In six years, Xu Jing has traveled to more than 50 countries.

From Britain, France, Canada, Morocco, Switzerland, to Spain, Italy, Egypt, the United States, Mexico, Austria, Turkey … all left her footprints.

She published her first book, Only Time Will Know, and set up her own design studio as artistic director.

She started her own brand B&B, met Mr. T, who fell in love with her, and made a new home in Nicaragua with Mr. T ... She lived a warm, colorful and happy life.

Six years later, Xu Jing became more and more beautiful, more and more independent, more and more confident, more and more brave, and finally she lived the most beautiful self.

After leaving Chen He, Xu Jing won the whole world, and she didn't need anyone's sympathy at all.

"I thought that love can fill the regrets in life, but it is love that creates more regrets."

Joe said that the beginning and end of love is the difference between people, and it is a pie in the sky. You can't expect everyone to come to dinner, just like delivering a box lunch.

Love can only be icing on the cake, making me lucky and losing my life.

Independence, seeing the world and striving to improve themselves are compulsory courses for women all their lives.

See a very healing sentence:

"In a person's life, some things you experience are certain. Maybe you have read your own script before you came to this world, so you will choose to come to this world like this, so there will be something you think is worth it. "

This world is worth living, and it is also worth living wonderfully.

The love we have been obsessed with, the places we have been to, the books we have read and the dreams we have pursued will all complete our lives bit by bit.

In the Forbidden City, Xu Jing said that the walls of the palace were red pomegranate.

May we always be young, always full of tears and always full of passion for life.

Girls should have a vision and a pattern. Why is it that the most important thing for girls is that they must have eaten and seen?

After eating and seeing, it is not shallow, and the heart is like a mirror.

In Panama, Xu Jing and Mr T celebrate the Spring Festival.

We should learn to cherish and cherish every day.

Everything in this world is easy to miss. As long as you don't eat a meal during the trip, you can eat it again. It may not smell like that after 30 years. Live well and treat every day well.

We will all lose this short life in the end. You might as well be bold, love someone, climb a mountain and pursue a dream.

In Palau, Xu Jing said that the bottom of the sea is another piece of freedom.

Sometimes, do you want to ask, "Why is everyone living so well, only myself?"

Sometimes, you have to fall to the bottom that you have never experienced before to reach the peak that you have never reached. Water to despair is scenery, and people to despair is rebirth.

Is your present efforts really worthy of your ambition?

In Canada, Xu Jing runs freely in the snow.

When a woman reaches the age of 30, it seems that she is not free and too anxious.

Especially if you haven't bought a house, got married or had children, but you are going to be 30 years old soon, and your work is not particularly satisfactory. Under the urging of external pressure, you will suddenly feel anxious.

I am 30 years old. What should I do?

Everyone has his own time zone and rhythm.

New york time is three hours earlier than California time, but California time has not slowed down.

Some people graduated at the age of 2/kloc-0 and found jobs at the age of 27; Some people graduate at the age of 25, but they find jobs soon.

Some people have children, but they are not married; Some people get married, but wait 8- 10 years to have children.

Everything in life depends on our own time, and everything has our own rhythm.

Be patient. After being rejected 12 times, J.K. Rowling didn't successfully publish Harry Potter until she was 32 years old, and Morgan Freeman didn't have a big explosion of acting career until she was 52 years old. ...

I'm still proud to get my degree after I'm 25. You are not married at the age of 30, but being happy is also a success. It is ok to get married after the age of 35. Don't let anyone disturb your rhythm.

We can create our own meaningful life.

In Greece, Xu Jing felt the long-lost peace.

Recently, I asked, "Why am I like this?" Replace this idea with "What does this thing want to teach me?"

Then I found that everything around me had changed.

In Turkey, Xu Jing saw beautiful scenery.

Some people say it's unfair to travel around the world with money.

First-class passengers can board the plane first, bank VIPs don't have to wait in line, and the most expensive concert tickets have the best seats. This world has never been fair. So, how hard we work, how special we are and how lucky we are.

Try to make money and live the life you want most within your ability.

In Peru, Xu Jing felt the mystery of mountains and rivers.

Don't exchange the stability and indulgence of your youth for the lowliness and mediocrity of your life. Your efforts and efforts now cover up what you will look like ten years later.

Low-level desires can be obtained through indulgence, while high-level desires can be obtained through self-discipline.

Tomorrow is the second chance that life gives you.

In a small European town, Xu Jing made new friends.

Sa Beining said, if you sit at home all day with a mobile phone, watch TV at home, surf the Internet every day, and do what the post-80s can do, what do you want to do young!

A person's present state is mostly determined by his choice five years ago, and his choice is more important than his efforts.

In the desert, Xu Jing sings happily.

No matter what you choose to do every day, you will lose this day forever, so don't dwell on rotten things, just be happy.

If you want the best life, let life see the best of you first.

In Scotland, Xu Jing overlooks the sea from the highlands.

There are always people in this world who are more beautiful, smarter and younger than you, but they are not you. You are the best, unique and perfect you in the world.

Self-confidence is the source of wealth, and you are feng shui.

One has a way of life. For decades, I don't care what others do. You must have the sun in your heart.

In America, Xu Jing and Mr T felt the prosperity of this city.

While there is still time, try to do what you want to do most, become the kind of person you want to be most, and live the kind of life you want most.

Perhaps, we will always be just a nobody, but this does not prevent us from choosing what kind of lifestyle.

The world is always more wonderful than you think.

In France, Xu Jing was immersed in the blue sky.

There is no road in life in vain, every step counts, even when you are unlucky, believe that you are lucky.

You are young, healthy and smart. Maybe your life is a little heavy now, but you still have the capital to choose. Although you feel that you have nothing, you are not poor.

You are unhappy because you don't love yourself well, and you often consume yourself because of others.

I began to change my hairstyle, lose weight, change my style, become cold and fierce, start to make money and start to move forward. You must win this time.

You must be happy.

In Palau, Xu Jing said that if everything is as inclusive as the sea.

Your stress probably comes from your inability to self-discipline, and the current situation can't keep up with your inner desires, so you are anxious or even afraid.

Your competition is not others. Your competitors are your procrastination, your conceit, the unhealthy diet you are consuming, your laziness, the bad habits you are cultivating and the rut of thoughts.

If you can beat them, who are you afraid of

In England, Xu Jing said that life is like a fairy tale.

We are always anxious and then envy each other. Single women say they envy married women. Married women say that the urine stains on the toilet, the clothes on the sofa, the kitchen where the husband cooks, the raw garlic in the dish, and the children who write homework ink are all trivial things, but they drive themselves crazy. How I envy the chic and freedom of single women. ...

It is better to cherish what you have than to envy what others have.

In Austria, Xu Jing felt the magnificence of the snow-capped mountains.

Remember, girls, you can marry later, but the person you want to marry must be enterprising and responsible, and will make money, which will hurt you, because the final fight is character and strength.

To recognize a man, four things are enough:

Reply to your speed, attitude after the quarrel, tolerance, and the amount of consumption you can afford.

In Nepal, Xu Jing became a backpacker.

There is only one peak in life to conquer. Try to experience all the feelings of being born as a human being.

Life is full of surprises, right? When something happens, treat it as multiple stories.

In Central Europe, Xu Jing said that everyone is an island.

Every thought of learning may be that you are asking for help in the future.

As long as it is meaningful, it will be meaningful to do it later, and it will be meaningful to do it "early".

Be who you want to be. There is no time limit. You can start at any time if you like. You can change from now on, or you can stay the same. There are no rules in this matter.

I hope you can live your best life.

I hope you can see something that surprises you.

I hope you can experience feelings you have never experienced before.

I hope you can meet some people with different ideas.

I hope you are proud of your life.

If you find that you haven't done it yet, I hope you have the courage to start again.

In Italy, Xu Jing said that life could have been so interesting.

I hope you must cherish your health. Weibo blogger @ Anti-shorts said:

"To be honest, as long as you have been sick once, you have heard the cries of other wards in your hospital bed at night.

I have experienced it, because of the pain, I can't even complete the most basic turn on my own. I want to eat everything, but I can't eat anything. I want to do many things, but I don't even have the strength to sit up straight. You'll know-

Health is the best thing in the world. "

In Croatia, Xu Jing came to the shooting place of Game of Thrones.

I hope you dress up every day, because you never know who you will meet today.

The world is worth it. As long as you can eat well, sleep well and live well, most things can be solved.

Life is hard, add your own sugar.

In Switzerland, Xu Jing felt the beauty of lakes and mountains.

The best way to love someone is to manage yourself and give them a quality lover.

If you don't try your best to be nice to someone, that person will love you desperately. Secular feelings have a very real problem-

You are valuable and your efforts are valuable.

In France, Xu Jing felt the freedom to fly.

Sometimes I feel that I am not free and my life is stressful. Don't be afraid.

At any time, everyone really needs to be equipped with a certain share of anxiety, or trouble, or hardship.

Just like a ship needs certain ballast to get out of a straight and stable route.

In Nicaragua, Xu Jing and Mr T bought a house and got a new home.

If you don't go out for a walk, you will feel that the whole world is at your feet.

Have you ever thought that you can put down your mobile phone and have a good sleep every day, wake up and have a good breakfast with flowers in the vase?

You can exercise every week, learn English well and travel with friends once a year.

Life can be the same or it can change from now on.

In Tibet, Xu Jing came to Potala Palace.

Women, no matter how old they are, should be kind to themselves.

See more and think more, and leave some memories for the old people.

You only live once, but you ask for less regret.

Please close your eyes and imagine that in 20071year, you are 70 or 80 years old, sitting in an empty room with wrinkles all over your face.

You are too fat and old to take care of yourself. Shortly after your death, you made a wish to God:

"Please, God, let me be young again!"

God said "all right", and with a whoosh, you returned to 202 1. Open your eyes and you are young again.

What are you going to do this time?

Finally, I want to end with the lines in Dazzling: