Wrong, on the contrary you are a sign of lack of confidence. You are not confident in your emotions, you are not confident in your life. You need to clear your mind, develop their own reasonable life planning, really not you can give yourself the goal of completing 1-2 things per year, things can be big or small. Only when you find your niche you won't be rejected and you won't be so nervous that you're shaking your legs and feet.

Well, I'm chickening out

So, she's all leggy as a natural fear of you, and she's not sure exactly how low you are in her mind. Maybe you're too familiar with each other, or maybe it's because she thinks she's overdoing it and wants to cover it up. Then you have to tell how well you know her, is she the type of woman who is very strong? Or is she the type of female who is very vain or overly pushy.