Review of "Your deskmate" 1 I watched this movie just for the name of the movie and Zhou Dongyu. I remember the first time I saw Zhou Dongyu's movie "Love of Hawthorn Tree", and I liked the pure emotional story of her and her third child in the 1970s, which happened in the 1990s.
In addition to the theme of youthful feelings, there is another similarity between this movie and the love of hawthorn trees, that is, white rabbit toffee, trampling, wood? Old three gave her a white rabbit when she met her for the first time in Jingqiu. In junior high school, Xiao Zhi also gave a white rabbit to Lin Yi after fighting with Xiao Pang who bullied her. In addition, in high school, Lin Yi has been taking care of her since she fell off cleaning the window and hurt her foot. As a thank you, she sent a big bag of white rabbits to Lin Yi. Emma, white rabbit, ambiguous artifact, you deserve it!
Apart from the white rabbit, I was deeply impressed by your movie "deskmate" that Xiao Zhi finally nodded and got together with Lin Yi, but the mode of getting together was really tangled, from five minutes for her boyfriend, to twenty minutes, to thirteen minutes, to her first night, to unexpected pregnancy, to Xiao Zhi's miscarriage accident, to Lin Yi's rejection and irresponsible breakup, to their people's crazy escape during SARS, and then to/kl.
Feelings in youth are always difficult, and feelings and ideals have to go through the baptism of reality. They feel the same! Growing up, she said that her dream was to go to Stanford to study, and later she left Peking University for Lin Yi and went to Xiamen University with Lin Yi. And has been constantly inspiring Lin Yi, inspiring him to become excellent. But Lin Yi has never had a clear goal: in order to be in the same class as Xiao Zhi, he gave up his good science and moved his desk to the liberal arts class in Xiao Zhi despite the strong opposition of his teacher. For Xiao Zhi, he said that "the premise of being my boyfriend is to be admitted to the same university as me", so he changed from scum to learning hegemony and worked hard. In order to be with Xiao Zhi, he tried to become better and take the lead. After Grade Four, they grew up together, worked hard for the same goal, and their feelings also thrived! In the end, Lin Yixian Xiao Zhi went to the United States as an advance team for a year, waiting for Xiao Zhi to pass, but there was no result. The house with the window facing south never waited for the owner's sweetheart, but Lin Yi waited for Xiao Zhi's breakup call. In the end, Xiao Zhi didn't fulfill his childhood dream. Stanford's door was not opened to her, and even she went to the United States and was refused a visa again and again. However, Lin Yi embarked on a road she had never thought of before and went to work in the United States. Although he is not a successful man, he is even a little down and out. The fiancee cheated on her and her work was not smooth.
Rumor has it that reality is a terrible thing, even more terrible than a scourge. In the movie, Xiao Zhi failed to go to the United States, and Lin Yi was in the United States. Xiao Zhi called to break up, so they broke up peacefully. They themselves said, after all, the enemy is reality, and no one owes anyone. After all, I have paid my heart before. But I really don't understand. Even if Xiao Zhi is hit hard by repeated failures, even if she can't go to the United States, then since he can go for her, can't he come back for her? Before, if Xiao Zhi didn't go to America, Lin Yi would never go. Before marriage, Xiao Zhi asked Lin Yi, who said it was unnecessary. But is this a realistic question? Everything they do is for two people to be together, but these efforts have become a ditch that can't be together. Can you blame reality? Let's just say they are not brave enough! So in the end, at the wedding scene, Lin didn't take Xiao Zhi away as before, but quietly listened to her and said that she was willing.
Although this film is not about classmates at the same table, it is about feelings, but it can naturally remind us of our past, our former deskmate, our previous laughter and abuse. I recommend you take your dear deskmate to the cinema. Maybe you will get something unexpected.
Who married the sentimental you,
Who comforts you when you cry?
Who rolls up your long hair,
Who made your wedding dress?
I haven't written for a long time. I went to the movies with my classmates today. I watched Gao's "You at the Same Table".
At that time, Gao wrote music and sang "You at the Same Table", which made many students cry. As a post-90s student, I certainly like being young. In those years, including your deskmate, we didn't fully absorb and accept the films that belonged to the post-80s generation, but I think I was very moved from the perspective of film and television works.
"I gave up a bright future for you, gave up innocent lives for you, and I am willing to hide everything for your future. You keep picking out that group of classmates for me, for my efforts to get into key universities, for my patience with the prescribed "boyfriend time", and for my efforts to plan each other's future. The last time we met, we asked each other "Do you love him" and "Do you love her" but were silent. "
"From the moment I saw you, I liked you. You know I have bad grades and a bad temper, but you never hate me. That year, the political situation was turbulent. In order to keep me safe, you promised to be my girlfriend. When SARS was raging that year, you smashed the window and took my hand, running all the way. You are like that white rabbit toffee, and you have always been a quiet and sweet image in my heart. You have been waiting for me and pushing me forward. Ten years ago, as you said, "I don't know what responsibility is", you were hurt; Ten years later, I became a patient and responsible person, but I didn't hold your hand in the long journey to realize your wish. "
A romantic movie about freshness and sadness, I think I have to sum up the touching and sunny scene in two gentle and sensational paragraphs. But no matter how beautiful their love is, it will end in reality. No matter how strong their feelings are, they are finally defeated by reality.
"We can't go back, and no one owes anyone."
Just like Eason Chan's song, "Ten years later, we can still greet each other like friends, but it's too gentle, and we can't find any reason to hug."
If you regard your deskmate as a pure youth love work. Then I will add a sentence that is more in line with the ending of romantic film reviews, such as "Youth is like a running river, which is gone forever, and it is too late to say goodbye." But loving her/him is the best thing I have ever done. "Isn't it a little simple?
The most wonderful thing about this film is that it shows the illusion of dreams and the truth of life. Those seemingly glamorous life surfaces have diametrically opposite linings. He gave up Xiao Zhi and didn't get the expected career success and happiness in life. What he got was a broken sincere relationship and a make-do marriage where neither of them could find true love. An invitation for two people to meet again ten years later. Feelings, in the evasive and sad eyes of two people, clearly exist. Ten years later, Xiao Zhi still loves Lin Yi, and Lin Yi still loves Xiao Zhi, but the love without commitment and destination has no practical significance. Even if love lasts for a hundred years, it doesn't mean anything to both parties, and it can only become the sentence "Are you okay?" Then you can't say anything else.
In the church, Xiao Zhi wore a white wedding dress and stood beside the groom waiting for the wedding vows. Lin Yi wants to find the girl who has been lost for ten years, but it is only a moment's thought. Finally, Xiao Zhi's hesitant "I do" brought us back to reality. For the last time, he chickened out and missed the girl he loved deeply.
A girl waited for ten years, but she couldn't wait for a boy to really grow up. You can really say that this is fate.
In my personal opinion, there are indeed many details in the film worthy of my reflection, such as the groom's judge by appearances before the wedding, and Li Xiao's sudden banquet, which was almost silent when he was a student. Perhaps this is the embodiment of the director's values.
Maybe dreams will eventually be defeated by reality. Maybe after ten years, we will eventually become ourselves that we don't like now. Maybe our dream will come true, because we are not timid. I have to mention the last scene of the movie: when Xiao Zhi was asked if he wanted it, the hero and heroine met their eyes and hesitated to answer at that moment. Perhaps it is because of men's cowardice that they have lost their love.
Perhaps it is a whim, regardless of the heavy rain, standing on sandals and holding an umbrella, covered in embarrassment, just to see your deskmate. After the performance, I looked back at the empty and dark room, and I didn't know why I was a little lonely. Perhaps as time goes by, how many people will recall that this movie is not popular after that day. When you grow up, some people may still vaguely remember the interesting things that you experienced at the same table. Some people will even forget your deskmate's name in the long river of years. When someone mentions the name of one of your deskmates, how many people will ask, "Who is he?"
From primary school to now, I have seen many scenes of getting along with my deskmate. Some deskmates are friends who help each other, some deskmates are tit-for-tat enemies, and some deskmates are deformed in prosperity and adversity. ...
In you at the same table, the childhood friends of the hero and heroine are mixed with different degrees of love for each other. Finally, when the heroine marries someone else and tells him I do, what kind of heart does the hero hold, despair, jealousy, envy and even blessing?
Youth is a rainy season. On the road of youth, love and sadness are interdependent. "If there is no love, there is no harm. If there is no harm, I don't know love. You always blame me for being heartless, and I always blame you for being heartless. " This is not true. In the years of youth, the so-called love is so hazy that you often can't tell whether it is love or friendship, love or admiration, the years of youth. When you come out of that obscurity and fragility, you will miss those lost times more when you grow up and let you know a lot of time. I think the male master will grow up completely and become stronger after coming out from Into the Mirror!
A good friend once joked with me that my deskmate must be an iceberg man or a boring man, otherwise she would nag me. In fact, there are many icebergs or man show deskmates who have changed so many deskmates, but I think no matter which deskmate, it is worth remembering, whether it is the deskmate I played with or the deskmate I have been talking about.
Reflections on the movie Your deskmate 4 Today, I was supposed to watch Your deskmate with my best deskmate, but he was temporarily absent for some reason. Well, let's talk about impressions.
At first, I seemed to see the shadow of my former deskmate: I blocked my nose with paper, changed from a science student to a liberal arts student, and even suddenly it rained heavily to match the plot.
However, the more I look at the back, the more I feel like the shadow of To youth and China partners.
Why are the young people of our generation always associated with America? Are most or few of your deskmates going to America? Why do you always graduate from college when you break up? Since it is a cruel reality, the real reality is that not every time we meet after a long separation, both sides can clearly explain the real reasons for every misunderstanding and miss. Maybe it's more infectious to express it in camera language than to say it from the mouth. I think another reason for these three movies may be music. Nostalgic songs have been abused again. If playing "You at the Same Table" on the harmonica at first makes people feel more appropriate and close, then the later "Champion" is too melodramatic, and finally playing "Champion" is even more creepy. China filmmakers, can you create original movie music with your heart? When these old nostalgic songs are used, what excuse do you have to play nostalgic cards? Is Fox Man destined to take the route of Song of Youth? Actually, I think it's okay to use the original. You want to be nostalgic and innovative, but it doesn't hurt. Of course, I also believe that in the era when I liked ChristianRandPhillips, or in the era when the Yugoslav embassy was bombed, there were no words like "fuck" and "bear hardships". Not to mention satirizing "Houlang" and "off-campus" as soft advertisements for "Sina" and "on-campus", and insisting that "Facebook" is the idea of China people.
Of course, after "Zhou Xiaozhi" was drunk, there were women sobbing around him, and the director's goal was achieved, pointing fingers and inciting feelings. But in my opinion, as mentioned above, first of all, not every misunderstanding has a chance to be made clear. The tension in the process of shooting an event with a lens is much greater than that in the mouth. Second, in life, it is precisely because there are many things that cannot be explained clearly that it has become an eternal Zhu Shazhi in people's hearts, a kind of incomplete regret beauty.
Now that I think about it, if I were asked to make a film to pay tribute to my youth, or to make a film about my experience with my deskmate, I would definitely not do so.
The most surprising thing is to see Wang Xiaokun singing in it. Oh, I haven't seen you for years. I lost weight. But very open, very good, come on, Xiao Kun! I hope you can sing the theme song of the movie in the future. Ha ha.
The movie "You at the Same Table" tells that a man and a woman have been "childhood friends" all their lives from junior high school to college. But later, because of unknown so, millions of people will have thousands of feelings when they go to see this movie, but the same is their memories of youth. The slogan of the film is "share joys and sorrows, share joys and sorrows, share youth", which is well summarized. Everyone's youth has laughter and tears, joy and bitterness, laughter and laughter, sadness and regret, but standing on the node of recalling the past, we can only sigh and move on. At the end of the film, "You at the same table" was played, and the familiar melody caused many people to think about him/her who had been filmed, and how it was like a fleeting time.
Kenny Lin and Zhou Dongyu are very suitable actors, performing youthful dance music with shy faces. At Zhou Xiaozhi's wedding banquet, Lin Yi asked for the number of glasses of wine according to time. Two people were in tears, and I was suddenly glad that I had never been in a foreign love. A period of innocence that came out of school ended in a foreign love for various reasons. Otherwise, you will think of the past when you see that clip, or the tears in the movie will burst and be uncontrollable. Those who have been waiting for the oath, but ultimately can not compete with the distant time and space, if it is in the movie plot, how surging their hearts should be.
Nicky Wu's latest new song is called "If Fate Only Meets". Even though we know that fate is just a meeting, we still hope to meet. Without him/her, youth is incomplete. It's just that the person in memory will never be seen again, so let everything exist in memory, because each other in memory is the best, and there is no need to comfort each other with tears and say that we all lost to reality. The reality is that we both lost to each other and to people who didn't love each other enough!
At the end of the film, all the youth ends with the heroine's "I do" in the church. As a girl, I don't agree with this ending. Zhou Xiaozhi said that her wish is to hold a unique wedding in the church. In the decades of entanglement with Lin Yi, even if she is forced to get married, I don't think a girl will choose to hold the wedding she once wanted with the person she likes, because it is his exclusive. Once the sea was difficult for water, it was always amber. If it weren't for him, it wouldn't matter! Therefore, the church wedding will no longer be what Zhou Xiaozhi wants. It doesn't matter that the dream wedding has been completed countless times in the dream, because the groom is not him! I don't know how the screenwriter measured this scene, maybe it was just to draw out the marriage robbery behind it, then pull out the escape of youth 10 years ago, and then cut back to reality and tell us that everything can't go back! It just lacks the psychological balance of girls, of course. Finally, when the unknown plot of the wedding robbery was just an imagination, I was moved! After returning to reality, it is to lament, mourn, mourn, mourn and stop!
In everyone's youth, there is always one person who affects your thoughts. Maybe it's not love, maybe it's just quietly hidden in my heart. Maybe it's a relationship that ended for some reason. It may be a loss that I didn't appreciate when I was young. It may mean that everything may have gone away quietly, but it is the deepest existence in my heart. As long as I think about it, my mouth will eventually rise, whether it is sigh or relief.
Going back to this movie, just from the movie itself, is also a memory of a beautiful youth and pure first love. Personally, I feel full of emotion, but lack of structure. No matter why the two people who finally fell in love were not together, or the hero's trip to the United States, or the heroine's final choice, it is unknown. Maybe the film is limited in space. However, it is precisely because the front of the film used a lot of space to render the past of two beloved people, so that in the end, there was no time to explain these details, which I personally think should not be! Because if the final explanation is not clear, what will happen to the past friendship between two people? Where does it stop? It's really unacceptable.
Anyway, we can still get some comfort from movies. Recalling him/her in the past through movies makes a ripple in my heart, and the attachment to the lush years is a weakness of people after all. In fact, it has been several days since I saw the movie. Finally finished writing this article as a souvenir.