One is based on complex reality, and the other is based on pure love. Each has its own beauty and each has its own fragility. In any case, we will eventually move from campus to society and from simplicity to complexity. Maybe many years later, you will find that people who are carefree and really like a person, who will blush when they meet, will never appear again. Out of the campus, defeated by reality and life, adult love is cruel and realistic. I have a good friend, both men and women are friends, and I want to go on seriously, and I have also been blessed by people around me. When everyone thought they would fall in love and get married on campus, they broke up I didn't officially announce that I broke up with my friends, and I didn't tell my friends in a small composition. Everything seems to have never happened, but the reality is not as beautiful and cruel as you think. It turns out that everyone has grown up, no longer that ignorant boy and girl, but has passed the age of indulgence. I can't be willful anymore. No wonder people often say that "love and fit collide-this sentence is really too gentle". It turns out that the sentence "I love you but we are not suitable" is not a joke. Now that I think about it, the person who said this sentence should be a friend who likes me. He didn't cry or make trouble, but quietly ended that unforgettable love. Falling in love on campus will be officially announced and various festivals and anniversaries will be commemorated. When breaking up, I will send a sad circle of friends, change my avatar and signature, and then cry when I find a good friend. When you are in love, you will introduce your other half to your family. I didn't know until we broke up later, and I was still a few friends around me. When I first talked about the object, I didn't publicize it everywhere. Instead, quietly change the background of friends circle and mobile phone wallpaper into photos or group photos of the object, which is enough to give the other party a sense of security. As for meeting parents, it's all true. When you get married, you will meet both parents. Speaking of this, it also reminds me of the day when I read the article. When you see that there are no stars, no sun, no moon and no universe in the circle of friends around you, it is that he is busy with life now and has no time to think about these wild things. Many people say how considerate and romantic they were when they first got together at school. In order to make the object happy, they worked hard for days and nights to make something he liked. Later, I lost my thoughtfulness. I went to work when I should go to work, and I got off work when I should get off work. He will remember the anniversary, but he doesn't go out on dates as often as before. Later, both sides went their separate ways. Every day in a strange strange bedfellows, communication is getting less and less. Finally, I feel that the two sides are not suitable for themselves, do not love themselves, and separated. In my opinion, it's not that I don't love, but that I have compromised my life. If you ask me if all campus love is fruitless and can't go to the end. Actually, it's not like this. There are also many campuses that fall in love and get married. Now several people in the family are happy and sweet. Love needs to be preserved. It can't be maintained by one person, but by both sides. Adult love and campus love are actually very different. When I grow up, I only like people and things with results. To go to the end, let the other party see the result! Finally, I wish everyone can meet the right and favorite people. Life is bitter, but having you is sweet. 0 1 Campus Love Campus love, as its name implies, is the love that is talked about in school, generally referring to the campus of a university. After all, the campus before college is puppy love. Love on campus is pure, without any impurities. It is the kind of sweet love that two people like each other, and it is also a kind of love that many people yearn for. Two people who talk about campus love are generally students, so they don't have to worry about too many realistic things, just need to be with each other when they need it. Taking classes together, eating together after class, shopping together after school, and leisurely and beautiful love time are all about campus love. Most parents don't know about love in school, so they don't have to take care of their parents' opinions when they are together. They always like it, which is pure and desirable. Social love is the love that we talk about after leaving campus. It is no longer the students' own, and the mentality will become mature. There are too many factors to consider when falling in love after leaving society, including the family background of both parties, where to settle down in the future, whether it is possible to get married together and so on. These problems will come one after another and continue to affect your love concept. The emotional starting point has been lowered. As long as all the conditions are suitable, it may become a love based on goodwill, lowering the threshold of many loves, rather than a social love just because of liking. It's actually quite common. Everyone thinks that the two sides are suitable, they can take care of each other in life, and watching each other close their eyes, then it is possible for two people to quickly change from a relationship of love to a relationship of husband and wife. After all, love in society is all about getting married, so everyone will take a long-term view and be closer to real life. After all, marriage is not just two people like to be together, but also the relationship between two families. The biggest difference between the two should be the arrangement of time. Campus love can't be used for dating to maintain feelings except during class hours, and other times are very free, and two people can do what they like together. Even reading in the library, two people will feel very full, just because the other side, no matter what they do, they will feel very sweet. What social love lacks most is time. Two people who have entered social life need to work during the day and may work overtime at night. The only time is weekends, or we can go to dinner together in the evening without overtime. This is the best date time. Usually, we chat online. Although we don't spend much time together, we both know each other's thoughts. Feelings will also be maintained, and adults have little time to fall in love. Therefore, if two people after falling in love are suitable in all aspects, they will be anxious to get married. The difference between the other two is that campus love is simply two people like it, and there are few other purposes. Moreover, social love is discussed in the direction of marriage, and many things are valued, but feelings are not the most important point. Many people who fall in love on campus are the first love, so they haven't fully understood what responsibilities love needs each other to bear. When I have experienced many tests in my life, I sometimes feel very fragile and finally come to the end of breaking up. Everyone is experienced in social love, and the maturity of feelings will make this relationship more emboldened, so there are many people from social love to marriage.