It's normal, because he is an untrustworthy person, but you should also think about it. Some people think that they have cheated only 0 times and countless times. Even if they are saved, the relationship between husband and wife will not return to the past. Let go and find a new life. But some people will say, how do you know that the man in the next relationship will not make the same mistake?

But everyone who has experienced it knows how difficult it is to truly forgive, especially when you think about it in the dead of night. Whether you are forbearing or still love your husband, since you choose not to divorce, you should make yourself happy. Only you can save yourself.

Then you can try to do the following first, which may help you.

1, tell yourself "this person is crazy". During the period of infidelity, men will experience a typical "brain madness period". A person doesn't know what he is doing during this period, so you should be patient.

2. Tell yourself that "my marriage is sick and needs treatment". In fact, you are not dead in your marriage, but you are sick. What you need is to make your marriage healthy again. You must accept the present state of marriage before you can have a future.

3, can not be more "relatives hurt, enemies are fast" things. You should know that during this period, whether you take the initiative to leave, give up, or do all kinds of things, all kinds of troubles will only satisfy the wishes of mistress. So stay calm.

4. Don't make decisions on impulse. Tell yourself that divorce may not be an option, but don't make a choice in this state of collapse, because your reason is lost at this time, and you must make a decision when you are in a good mood.

Do these four things well and save yourself from the emotional collapse. And then figure out how to get the best results.