Parents' parenting experience: Parents are the best teachers for children. Parents should pay attention to the details of daily life, set a good example and make a good start. Read and study with children, create an atmosphere of reading and learning, and occasionally seek children's opinions to cultivate children's pride in reading and learning more and being a knowledgeable person. Don't judge teachers and others in front of children, learn and exchange children's educational methods and experiences with other children's parents, and be a caring and tolerant parent.
In today's society, the education of the only child has become a concern. It is the common wish of our parents to have a successful child and a successful daughter. As parents, we should cultivate our children into independent people with enough ability and confidence to leave us and become independent individuals in family life and social life. But how to educate children, especially how to do a good job in early childhood education, has become a difficult problem for every parent. Family is the first living environment for children, and parents are the influence of children, so it is great and far-reaching. The following are some of my experiences in educating children.
First, respect children's questions and pay attention to the cultivation of intelligence. We never deliberately taught her what to learn, but only answered her questions seriously when the child asked questions; Teach her to recognize the words in some books she likes to read, give her some books and dishes she likes, let her learn how to play and tell stories by herself, tell me stories once at ordinary times, and then let her tell them to me, so that she can have a strong interest in learning.
Second, respect and guide children's thoughts and cultivate children. Pay attention to children's moral cultivation, no matter what the occasion, it is required not to hit people, swear or swear. As parents, we are children's first teachers. At home, when we are with children, we shouldn't swear or do excessive behavior. When a child finds out that his parents have done something wrong, we parents should take the initiative to admit the mistake and guide her to admit it when she makes a mistake.
Third, pay attention to the cultivation of children's independence. In the process of children's growth, education is inseparable, and education is inseparable from respect. Respect does not mean connivance. In normal times, we should treat children as independent people, listen to their thoughts, discuss problems with them, and learn to put themselves in each other's shoes. What should we do if our parents encounter the same problem themselves? Will they do it like children? We can't use our own ideas, patterns and ways of thinking to decide what children should and shouldn't do, let alone use the authority of parents to suppress children's ideas. Let children have their own ideas and independence, respect their independence, give them their own space, and let them learn to brush their teeth, wash their faces and dress. Let them learn to think independently and have their own abilities and knowledge.
These are just some of my experiences in educating children. Now is the only child era. In early childhood education, we have also experienced a process from ignorance to gradual understanding. In terms of educating children, the differences in family environment have created different educational methods. Parents want their children to grow up healthily, stand out and be proud, but I believe that as long as parents can pay attention to methods and teach students in accordance with their aptitude, their children will be successful and brilliant.
Parents' parenting experience: I received a text message from Teacher Liu on Friday, asking parents to write a parenting experience in their spare time on weekends. Hehe, to be honest, I still have a headache after receiving this news. I really don't know if I have any parenting experience, and I don't know if I have treated my children correctly in recent years. When the child was born, he was full of confidence and felt that he would be able to educate the child well and let the child develop according to his own imagination. He also bought a lot of parenting books. But sometimes it is difficult to educate children as taught in books. After all, every child is different. And parenting also requires all family members to cooperate with this move. I believe in this concept. If someone in the family doesn't cooperate, it will definitely be more difficult.
Cece is a lively child at home. She likes singing and dancing, but she is timid. She is a slow-heating child, so I advocate taking her to contact outsiders and nature as much as possible.
Before she was two years old, she was just afraid to meet strangers. She will haunt her mother when she meets strangers. A new early education center has just opened near where we live-true baby. This early education center has an hour of parent-child games every morning 10: 00 from Tuesday to Sunday. Because she lived close at that time, she could also ask her grandmother to take her to this personal game every day, just for a month or two. Cece will never associate with anyone, and she will be embarrassed to see the teacher. She will hide, but she still likes the atmosphere there, where she can play games, slides and bobo pools. After more than two months, Cece began to change. The teacher can take her to play alone, and she will have the courage to sit next to the teacher and dance with him. Although she is still sensitive, I think it is a psychological challenge for her. My mother thinks she is.
Before the Spring Festival this year, we moved from Buji to Baoan. After the New Year, Cece directly enrolled in Chuangye Village Kindergarten. As a mother, she is most worried, because she is a very timid and sensitive child, especially afraid that her child will cry if she doesn't adapt to kindergarten life and leaves her family to a strange environment. To my surprise, on the first day of sending Cece to kindergarten, I saw so many freshmen crying around the teacher. Of course, we have done ideological work with her before. I told her that when I got to kindergarten, I just played with my teachers and children. My mother has gone to work and will pick her up this afternoon. She agreed, but she really stopped crying when she got to kindergarten. This situation is really unexpected for the mother, and I also know that the child's inner self-regulation function is quite powerful.
One day, my father and I took her to Xin 'an Park to play. There happened to be a stage in the park that day. I said to Xixi, "Bao Si, would you like to perform a program on that stage?" Cece often performs for everyone at home. I thought she would be uncomfortable and wouldn't go. I didn't expect her to agree at once, but on one condition, mom and dad will also perform a program, hehe! She stood on the stage and some people sat there to have a rest. She even said loudly, "Hello, my name is Tong, I'm 3 years old, and now I'm going to give you a show called Frog Quack", and then she began to sing loudly, which gave her a big surprise! (Mom recorded this paragraph that day. )
Of course, these are just bits and pieces in life. Cece is still introverted, timid and shy most of the time, but her mother feels a little different. I know Cece needs encouragement, and she needs to get familiar with the surrounding environment and express herself in an environment that she feels familiar with, so as long as she is given a certain amount of time, she will certainly be able to do it!