Should Hakka women marry Hakka boys first?
Landlord, are you worried too much? I'm not from Guangdong, and I'm not from Hakka, but I married here, and my husband is from Heyuan. When I first met him, he was really masculine and smelly, but I can be sure that he loved me very much, and his parents, brothers and sisters and friends around him all saw his change. I think whether he is from Hakka or not, even if he is from other provinces, so what? As long as that man really loves you, as long as he is by your side, you will be. You can live a good life as long as you are financially independent and have a decent life. I am from Hunan and married in Meizhou. I regret it very much. Some old people in Meizhou are old-fashioned, prefer boys to girls and discriminate against mainlanders, such as my in-laws. Fortunately, my income is not worse than my husband's, and I am a little capable, so my life is not controlled by my in-laws. On the other hand, my sister-in-law's sister-in-law can't complain because they are Hakkas. On the whole, Hakka in-laws are not as sensible as Hunan in-laws. Of course, this is my personal opinion and does not represent the opinions of others.