Thirty years have not seen the brother of the assessment of Matsuko: really a useless sister ah, no matter how you look at it, is a boring life. What the neighbors said about Matsuko: no rules, always causing trouble for the neighbors, no matter what, it's fucking crazy. This is what Matsuko said about her after her death.
Throughout Matsuko's life, the root of the tragedy is undoubtedly Matsuko's lack of love in her childhood. Matsuko's ghost face seems to be the last straw that makes her life complete and normal, and even though the photo of Matsuko making a ghost face when she left home is the last one to be seen in the movie, the inferiority complex, submissiveness, compromising, and insecurity behind the ghost face is y seared into her heart. Her whole life seems to be about affirming her worth through others, and gaining security by constantly chasing after love, not realizing how someone who doesn't love herself can love others.
Matsuko appeared in the movie as a typical character. In real life, it is really hard to find someone who has gone through so much as Matsuko with such a tragic ending, but there are indeed many people with character flaws like Matsuko. In life, some people try to use money to maintain a friendship, to maintain a love, some people try to give without principle to obtain the value of life, the end can be imagined.
It's like a very popular video after the liberalization of the two-child policy, in which a young boy tries to stop his mother from wanting a younger sister and brother by "dying", fearing that their birth will take away their parents' love. As someone who has a younger brother, I'd like to share my feelings. I had a younger brother when I was in the first grade, my mom and dad went to work to take care of my younger brother seemed to have very little time for me, and I secretly hid and cried, feeling so redundant, although now we get along very well, and I think it's great to have a brother and sister, but the lack of character caused by the lack of love in your childhood will always be with you. I especially want to say that having a second child is not something you have to do if you want to have a child, you have to weigh many aspects, the most important point is whether you have the ability to love a lot of people, if not, please think twice. If you do, please think twice. If you do, please give them your love equally. After all, your children will have to face the world independently, please try to protect them to have a complete personality to live in peace with the world.
The lack of love in childhood, I think, will lead to two extremes, one, like Matsuko, constantly giving to get attention to get love, and the other is infinitely closed to themselves, will not love others, will not be able to communicate with others. Whether you are a y distressed parent, lover, friend, or child, please try to love yourself before you love others, so that love is more acceptable and warm.
Born a human being, why not live well.