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Letters from fans:

Hello, Sesame Jun, I'm a big fan of yours. There have been some problems in my marriage recently. I feel that my husband doesn't love me as much as before. He used to be very interested in me, but now he goes home to sleep and doesn't even bother to talk. What's more, he hasn't had sex with me for half a year. Is this the seven-year itch? What should I do?

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Sesame Jun replied:

In fact, most marriages will face the lack of freshness. At this time, artificial changes are needed to create freshness, just like putting some active catfish in a stagnant water, and then the whole life in the water will be stirred up.

The most important thing is that you can't stick together anymore. You need to give each other some space and don't be afraid to pull away. This is the first step to make you miss each other. You need to let him rediscover your beauty.

Think about it. Do you have time to live for yourself after marriage? So just find yourself something to do and change yourself, and then you can get close to him.

When approaching at this time, don't show your charm by posing and appear in his field of vision, but ignore him. For example, you don't need to carry him when you go out to play, send photos of the opposite sex in a circle of friends, and chat with other men. Of course, it's not to derail you, but to make him feel a sense of crisis and look at you again. Men are very possessive.

Finally, look for your memories, go to places that are meaningful to you on special days, and recall the details of your passionate love again. First kiss, first sex and so on.