My wife is pregnant, but she has cheated on her before. What would you do if it was her? I would say that cheating during marriage and pregnancy is either due to one’s nature, or one does not love one’s partner at all and is just settling for a marriage. For her man, this is extremely angry and insulting. This kind of principled mistake cannot be forgiven. It is recommended to have zero tolerance. Otherwise, a single tolerance will be exchanged for endless betrayal and hurt, and an uncherished marriage will come. What's the use?

But the child is innocent. If the woman cheats on her after getting pregnant, the child must be yours. So if you have the conditions to raise the child alone, it is recommended to fight for the custody of the child, because the child will follow someone who does not know how to love. Mother, it will definitely have a bad influence on the children. Don't involve the children in the grudges between adults.

My wife cheated on her and became pregnant. I am afraid that many men will not be able to accept this situation and will choose to divorce their wives. But now this thing does not happen to other men, but to this specific man. I don’t know if it is you. Therefore, in fact, it is not important what others think about this matter. The most important thing is how you think about it.

If this man loves this woman so much that he cannot live without this woman, and this woman has regretted it and is willing to return, then in this case, it is recommended to choose to accept it. Who doesn’t make mistakes in his life?

But if the woman has no regrets and is unwilling to return to the family, then in this case, the only choice is divorce, even if the man loves the woman deeply.

Mutual trust and mutual respect between husband and wife are the most basic requirements. If a couple cannot even maintain a family relationship, divorce is the best option. Infidelity within marriage is the most immoral behavior and can easily lead to family conflicts, even family breakdown or unexpected serious consequences. There are profound lessons from murder cases. It really deserves people’s vigilance and deep thought.

A certain type of family exists in name only. Some are unwilling to disclose it to the public out of concern for face, while others consider the feelings of their children and maintain appearances. Is this kind of family relationship necessary? It is not necessary to maintain it, and it is difficult to make it public.

The rational best choice is for both husband and wife to take a step back, make maximum efforts and sacrifices for the past and future, reconcile as before, and rebuild a happy home.

If divorce is a foregone conclusion, it is the best choice to separate completely as soon as possible and start a new life. Only in this way is it good for both parties and can avoid unnecessary troubles or family conflicts.

So, you should consider this matter carefully yourself, and other people’s opinions can be used as a reference at most. After all, different people have different views on the problem, and they may not be correct. And I am the specific person involved, the one who must face it.

I would like to say to all married men and women that marriage is not easy, so do it and cherish it! Please do not indulge your desires and forget your responsibilities and obligations. Now that you are married, please be responsible for your family, your partner, and your children.

The most basic loyalty in marriage, please be sure to abide by it and don't break the heart of the person who loves you the most!