I'm the same as you, I'm older than you, 75 years, from the opening of the factory as a boss to failure, loss of light.
In the middle of the world much, wasted three years.
I have no education, no technology, no background, no money, debt, a son, a loser daughter-in-law, not bad, did not run.
Set the target direction, ready to go, everything from scratch.
Study a year, because there is a foundation for doing business, start fast.
Working from ignorance, working to learn, learning to work, work and goal direction convergence.
In and out of the workplace to lower the stature, is an ordinary employee, because of past experience can let you grow quickly.
I'm also from 5,000 to ten thousand dollars a month.
There is income, time to learn, have goals, have a plan, every day Ben is still busy, adjusted, learning, and so ready, the time is right, can start again.
Doing business should wait until the time and place. Walking is always more than waiting for the opportunity to learn is always more than not learning opportunities. There are always more opportunities to have income than not.
Do the work of these two years, found too many small opportunities to go out and make a monthly income of 10,000 to 20,000 business or a lot to do, but that is not the goal.
So this time you need to do is sleep, figured out what they want? What can you give up? How can you do it to reach your goal? Take action as soon as you figure it out.
You have done the boss action, execution ability, planning ability, strategy, goals should be clearer.
Accidentally fall, elegantly stand up and continue to move forward.
Where to fall where to stand up, in fact, in the current environment, business failure is a high probability of occurrence, success is a small probability of things. I personally have failed twice and am now on my way to the third.
When I failed the first time, I felt that my life was crumbling, and I was a lot more calm when I got to the second time. In fact, the so-called collapse, confusion, loss, etc., are their own attached to their own emotional catharsis. The most critical thing is to find your own position, that is, what you are best at.
I believe may say, "I'm good at business", but this is not good at it, if it is really good at it, the business will not fail.
Being good at something here refers to a particular skill that one is good at in running a business. For example, good at negotiation, or a certain field of sales, or a certain type of product development, or proficient in a certain management theory and successful practical experience, and so on.
Here, it is recommended to use a sticky note to write down all the things you think you are good at, and then do a comparison between the two, and while comparing, you need to make corrections in the sticky note. When I was using this method, I once revised a certain skill over and over again a dozen times. By using this method, you can recognize yourself completely. Of course, don't think you can do this in a day; it took me about a week or so to finish recognizing myself.
When you recognize yourself, you still have to put down your body, either by choosing to work part-time, or by choosing to start a business. This time must remember the sentence, "in this world, often they think face is the most valuable, but in fact the most worthless, but also their own face." The essence of the low profile is that the courage to compete with people who once thought they were inferior, and win the competition.
In my opinion, the essence of working and entrepreneurship is the same, both are to earn money, just the way and take different risks. If you work part-time, you can get income at the moment, but the growth space is limited. Entrepreneurship, the current income is very little, and may even be upside down, but once you do it, the earnings will be a hundred times a thousand times, or even ten thousand times, but if you want to start a business, or to return to the above question, first of all, to cognize themselves, have a clear understanding of themselves, and then choose a low-cost business project, to the project to carry out a full range of investigations, and at the same time, to do a good job of 12-16 hours of work a day, and The first thing you need to do is to recognize yourself and have a clear understanding of yourself before choosing a low-cost entrepreneurial project.
Here it is recommended to choose a part-time job first, do not mind the low income, no face, the key is to use the part-time job time, think about the above issues, and look for a good project, in order to make a comeback.
Put down the face, put down those once brilliant, start from scratch, we can not give up.
An example of my uncle, my uncle is now 46 years old, now in a bus company as a driver. I remember in the past, my uncle's family is quite rich, often in the outside world to follow the people to do business, run the construction site, take over the project and so on, those years also earned some money.
About 10 years ago, following a Shanxi boss, was cheated a lot of money, but also want to come back, the Shanxi boss owed more than 1 billion, no way, years of savings all lost, my uncle sold the house, but also other people's money.
But my uncle did not give up, in the hometown rented a relatively large store began to do catering, because at that time my brother also counted the graduation. Learning is this. So it started to engage in catering.
Those two years, my uncle usually drive as a driver. Occasionally, he went to the store to help as a fellow. During those two years, my uncle got a lot older. But at the same time also made some money, a year time to get back the cost, the second year began to profit. But for various reasons. The restaurant is still transferred. My brother went to work outside. My uncle, continue to drive his bus.
People can not be smooth sailing, we will encounter so that frustration difficulties, please do not give up life, we have a wife and children need to support. Please leave behind all those previous glories and start everything from scratch. Let go of face.
I think you are not lost, but the mentality out of the problem. The face is not given by others, it is earned, whether it is working or starting a business, as long as it is earned by your own labor, there is no shame.
I'd like to share an example from my old neighborhood.
My old neighbor, a few years ago, was doing business outside. He started out selling "reamers" with a backpack. I don't know what it is, but I'm not sure if it's a good idea. After accumulating a certain amount of capital, he started a rental business, mainly renting and selling fasteners and steel pipes used on construction sites. Then the business got bigger and bigger, and a factory was opened. The best time, the family is said to have tens of millions of dollars.
The turning point was around 10 years ago. First, he got sick, heart attack, almost died in the toilet. Second, due to illness, he could not take care of the business, and was pitched by his partners. The family went from being a boss worth tens of millions of dollars to being heavily indebted. He had quit smoking for several years, but he was so worried that he started smoking again. The worst time to go to my house to borrow a few hundred dollars to go with the gift.
About two or three years, he began to do small business. The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of a long journey, and I was able to get to the bottom of it, and I was able to get to the bottom of it. Later, with his brother-in-law in Chengde, learning to get marble decoration. After learning, they opened a small factory. After a few years of development, it is now said that a year of pure profit can also get a hundred and eighty million.
Back to the question, you feel that the part-time job is not put below, may be think others will laugh at you. But really it's all in your own imagination. Even if someone does laugh at you, it will be meaningless after a long time. There is no shame in working part-time, what is shameful is that as a man you can't afford the responsibility of raising a family. It's normal to start a business without direction. The project is not examined, but dried out. There are times when you are drying out, and then you develop.
Look at the success or failure, life is magnificent, but from the beginning again. *** Vigorously.
Forty years old from the boss into jobless. It is nothing more than slipping down from the halfway point when climbing such a high mountain in life.
But it didn't slip to the bottom of the mountain. I'm not sure what I'm going to do. Get up and keep climbing.
I graduated from the university in 2001, and I'm still in the middle of my career, so I'm not sure how I'm going to be able to make it. At that time, college students were still quite popular. But refused to Panasonic, General Motors, these companies recruiting. To private enterprises to do foreign trade, for this line is easy to come out when the boss.
Just work day and night work, what are going to take the initiative to learn. Then again in 04 years, pulled 2 customers out, do it yourself. At the beginning of the year you can earn more than 1 million. But who knows 06 years the United States stopped importing Chinese textiles. Settlement of payments, demobilization of employees, the hands of the remaining 5 million.
With 50,000 dollars began to speculate on the stock market, in early 2007, 50,000 dollars into more than 40 million. This money in Shanghai can pay a down payment of 100 square feet of house, but greed dissatisfaction, borrowing money to increase leverage. Not a few months, but owed hundreds of thousands of dollars.
So in 2008, he went to Hangzhou to learn to do Taobao, from customer service to start. The first year to become a director. 3 years down and a small amount of money. But Ali anti-corruption, suffered the disaster of the fish. The only thing left in the hands of the 40 million, tired of.
From Shanghai to Kunming, found a girlfriend. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do that, and I'm going to be able to do that. The credit card owes more than 400,000 again. I'm going to start looking for a job again. Starting from the bottom, it took 3 years to go from a monthly salary of 3,000 to a monthly salary of 30,000 yuan.
Then the Internet turned cold. Unemployed again, this time. I was already 42.
Now here to write you the answer. What does it say, it says that I started a self media business while looking for a job.
Life is like that. Up and down. If you have a hard life, there are more ups and downs. If you have a good life, you have fewer ups and downs.
You've been a boss for decades, what can you do, what do you need to do, don't need me to teach you.
The most disgraceful thing is that you can't support your family. Other than that, it's all fake, what can't be put down.
05 years after graduating from the university 05 years at the end of the start of the business (a bit of ignorance of the meaning of fearless!) 09 years, the first entrepreneurial declaration of failure 12 years comeback again entrepreneurship with two years of time to successfully turn over to pay off the external debt slightly surplus in the industry crawling and fighting 13 years 18 years at the end of the realization that they really do not like this industry just in this industry can not accept the failure of their own so sell the company into a push sales Although many people around do not understand the temporary earn less than before (I do not have a car loan mortgage), but feel very fulfilled, I feel very happy, I feel very happy.
They are the first to be able to use their own personal computer to make their own decisions, but they are also the first to be able to use their own computer to make their own decisions.
Failure to start a business is not a problem, age is not a problem, face is not a problem!
All the problems are ~ ~ ~ your heart to rise again is not still alive!
Deeply sympathetic answer to this question, life is inevitable ups and downs, I am also a boss into an ordinary person's experience, in fact, there is nothing, as long as you continue to improve their own, surrounded by loved ones do not give up, everything is not a problem, I am not the boss though! But I quickly adapted to the habits of life as an ordinary person, accumulate experience and learn more. Nurturing myself and preparing for a comeback. Although my business is debt free, I have invested heavily in the future market and can now be considered penniless. Transformed from my former gorgeous form to a regular investor. There's a lot of time and investment wisdom involved. So it's also a lot of pressure. Fortunately, there are loved ones around to provide help and enlightenment. As long as you can bring happiness and carefree life to your loved ones, I suffered and what is it, life is like this, there is always someone to pay. Success or failure is not enough to talk about heroes. A good mindset is the first step to success, believe in yourself, and strive to improve and grow yourself. Everything will be there.
Can't earn money, earn friends; Can't earn friends, earn experience; Can't earn experience, earn insight; Can't earn insight, earn character. All of the above have earned , it is impossible to earn money. Can earn money. You will understand, in fact, earn life sense is more important. Life trough do not panic, remember the life of the six words of the true secret: static slow bear to let the light flat. Everything will pass! People's life, what does not belong to you, you are but the user. The road of life, there are always a few ditches; the taste of life, there are always a few bitter. Some things, can not help, let nature take its course; some people, can not be forced, just laugh it off; some road, can not avoid, will be righteous.
This kind of story happens every day, just everyone does not want to happen in their own body. I am also an entrepreneur, I also experienced failure, although my failure is because of online gambling. It's not bad that you're just unemployed right now, I was in debt in 2018. But in a year's time, I quit gambling and paid off millions in debt. So it's really nothing to fail, believe in yourself, keep starting your own business and double your efforts. You'll still get up! However, I still have two points of entrepreneurial advice to you: First: choose a good industry; Second: study hard, work hard. You do these two points, you will definitely make a comeback, will definitely turn over!
I can tell you with certainty that it is normal to lose face, and I do not recommend that you work locally. There are many people who will say that you have a lot of resources locally, and what about working part-time to make it easier. When you fail and there is no hope of success, you can help you in addition to your parents, really no one will help you, brothers can not, this is the reality. You failed as a boss, to the point of working, the possibility of a short period of time developed for 0. Why, because you have no money, or not possible to work, but from scratch, even if a little possible, not many people want to work, everyone wants to be the boss. Another disadvantage of working locally is that you can't let go, you are supposed to be introverted, with high self-esteem, and you tend to close yourself off when you are at a low point. This will cause you to be unsuccessful in your part-time job, and you will be even more self-destructive. Go far away from home, and when you are successful, return your home!